In this episode Nate and Aaron talk to Giff Lasta. Giff is an author, coach, and founder of Reforged Marriage. He shares the story of his recovery from porn addiction, his 90-day sexual fast, and finding his “frame.” Giff shares the importance of having other men speak into your life, especially in recovery, and not your wife. The guys discuss how to be an @$$hole appropriately and not be a “christian nice-guy” as you grow into the Ephesians 5 man. Giff also talks about how to give sexually from abundance and not take from sexual need.

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Reforged Marriage

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The Way of Men with Maids: Forged Christian Wisdom for Becoming a Man Who Wins at Love

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