In this Instagram Live edition, Bela busts the biggest dating myths out there including:

1) Dating is a numbers game

2) You need to feel a spark of chemistry right away

3) You need to be in 'lust' right away

4) Online Dating is only for losers

5) Men take longer to fall in love

6) Men don't want to date successful women

7) Short men have no dating prospects

Bela Gandhi of Smart Dating Academy, is a nationally acclaimed dating & relationship expert.  SDA offers the best tips to start to date smarter to help you find real and lasting love.  Bela is a sought out correspondent and works with all major networks including Good Morning America, Steve Harvey, NBC, Harry Connick Junior, Kelly Clarkson, ABC, FOX, CNN, JET, Essence, Forbes, WGN, and more...