Have you ever left a conversation feeling different—calmer, clearer, braver?

The right words at the right moment can change how we see ourselves and the people we love. This week I’m unpacking six talks that rewired my inner compass and how they became practical lenses for everyday life: seeing myself with more compassion, choosing without fear of the “wrong” choice, meeting hard moments with steadiness, and showing up better in my relationships.

Tune in and borrow the lens you need today.

Here’s a taste of what’s inside:

• A friend’s reframe that turned “too much” energy into a gift
• A perspective shift on being an immigrant: one home or two?
• Seeing a parent with compassion (and what that unlocked)
• A decision-making mantra that ends analysis paralysis
• Wisdom from a 3-year-old about being okay—even when sad
• A tender rule from my mother-in-law: grumpy needs the most loving

Listen in if you want gentle, practical ways to meet your life—with more grace.

Timestamps

00:00 Welcome & setting the scene

01:52 What I’m sharing today: six conversations that changed my life

02:36 #1 — A friend reframes my “too much” energy as a gift

07:34 #2 — Immigrant reframe: not no-man’s-land… two homes

11:43 #3 — My dad, trauma, and learning compassion

15:02 #4 — The decision lens: “You’ll be okay either way”

19:04 #5 — Wisdom from my 3-year-old: “I’m always okay”

22:04 #6 — “When you’re grumpy, you need the most loving”

25:36 What I hope you take from these

26:33 Reviews are podcast gold (how to support)

May these six conversations be the reminder that you’re already more resilient than you think.

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