She’s going to camp…and I’m not okay. 

This episode was recorded and released a little selfishly. I’m currently in the thick of preparing to send my 8-year-old daughter to sleepaway camp in just two months, and I am feeling everything. There are certain moments in motherhood I always knew would feel both gut-wrenching and joy-filled, and this is absolutely one of them.

Sending my first child off to camp, the very same camp where I experienced such a deep sense of belonging, independence, and lifelong friendship, is incredibly meaningful. It shaped so much of who I am. The idea that she’ll now begin creating her own version of that magic is one of the most exciting parts of motherhood for me. And still, two things can be true: alongside that excitement is a steady undercurrent of nerves.

Questions enter in my mind at all hours “She still climbs into my bed some nights… what does that mean?” “If she brushes off her younger sister’s tears as embarrassing, will she hold things in at camp?” “Will she rinse all the shampoo out of her hair?” These small thoughts somehow feel very big right now.

That’s exactly why I wanted to have this conversation with Lauren Kasnett Nearpass.

Lauren, alongside her mother Susan Kasnett, co-founded ⁠Summer 365⁠ in 2013 with the goal of bringing camp consulting into the modern age. While Google searches and social media can offer endless opinions, Summer 365 was built on something much deeper: lived experience. As former campers, counselors, and now mothers, their team understands firsthand the transformative power of summer camp, and the weight of choosing the right one. Their approach is deeply personal, working one-on-one with families to thoughtfully match each child with the environment where they can truly thrive.

I knew Lauren personally, but I had also heard over and over how impactful her work is for families navigating this process. And this felt like the exact moment to lean on that expertise, not just for me, but for so many parents either considering sleepaway camp or preparing for it. As Lauren shares, now is often when families begin exploring options for future summers, though she’s also helping families even for this coming season.

What makes this conversation even more meaningful is that Lauren is in it too. Her daughter is heading into her fourth summer at camp, and her almost 8-year-old son will be going for the first time. She speaks candidly about her own uncertainties and shares something that really stayed with me: there’s no perfect “checklist” for readiness. While some kids are clearly going to thrive, others are the ones who will deeply benefit from the experience.

In this episode, we talk about everything, from how to make one of your child’s first big life decisions together, to the emotional rollercoaster of letting go, to the practical ways we can prepare our kids in the months leading up to camp. This isn’t just about camp, it’s about trusting that our children are ready to step into something new, even when it stretches us as parents (or happens without us there!)

I keep coming back to something my older sister once told me after sending her kids to camp: “Once I knew they were happy and thriving, it hit me, they’d be making all these incredible  memories without me.”

And I think that’s what I’m really bracing for.

I somehow didn’t cry during this recording, but I can feel it all at any given moment - the ache, the pride, the letting go. So if you see me in May or June… just hug me.

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