ADHD Mums

67. Why Routines Always Seem to Fail for ADHD Families (and How to Fix Them)


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ADHD mums know the struggle - routines sound great in theory, but in reality? They fall apart before breakfast. If you’ve spent money on colour-coded schedules only to watch them crumble in days (or hours), this episode is for you.

I break down why traditional routines don’t work for ADHD families and how to build a flexible system that actually sticks. You’ll hear relatable stories, practical strategies, and a refreshingly honest take on why routines aren’t about perfection - they’re about making life easier.

This isn’t about forcing a perfect system. It’s about building a routine that works for your ADHD brain, not against it.

If you’ve ever thought ‘why can’t I make routines work?’ - you need this episode. Hit play and learn how to finally build a system that works for your ADHD brain.

Resources Mentioned: 

Episode - Surviving the Mental Load of the School Year

ADHD Planner and Values Workbook 

Family Meeting Guide & Template 

ADHD Mums Facebook Group

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Topics Covered in This Episode

ADHD routines, family routines, mum routines, ADHD parenting, ADHD-friendly routines, why routines fail ADHD, ADHD schedule struggles, time management, flexible routines, executive dysfunction, morning routine, daily routine, household routine, structure, family life, parenting hacks, habit building, organisation, overwhelm, mental load, routine hacks, motivation, planning strategies, executive functioning tips, neurodivergent routines, ADHD-friendly planning, household management, energy management, school morning routine, flexible planning, ADHD mum life.

Mentioned in this episode:

ADHD Planner & Personal Values Workbook: A System for ADHD Mums

Simplify your chaotic ADHD mum life with the ADHD Planner & Personal Values Workbook. Designed to help you brain dump the chaos, prioritise what truly matters, and stop the guilt spiral, these tools are 100% fluff-free and built for real-life use. Start anytime, pick up and put down as needed, and create a system that works with your ADHD, not against it.

ADHD Planner

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