Smart Dating Academy - The Podcast

8: Does backing up mean backing down? What do you REALLY value?


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This episode taught me a lot about myself, and I hope it will do the same for you.  It will change you to think about your core values in a NEW way.    It'll inspire you to really think about yourself, who you are, and maybe what a better career is for you OR a better partner (there are TONS of similarities between job search and partner search)!  

In this episode, I interview the inimitable Ashley Stahl (I watched her Ted talk and knew I had to interview her, stat).  Ashley Stahl is counterterrorism professional turned career coach and bestselling author of the book You Turn: Get Unstuck, Discover Your Direction, Design Your Dream Career, and she's on a mission to help people get into a career they're excited about and aligned with. Through her two viral TEDx speeches, her online courses, her email list of 500,000 and her show, You Turn Podcast, she's been able to support clients in 31 countries in discovering their best career path, upgrading their confidence and landing more job offers.   Ashley is also single, out there in the dating world, and is very open about her dating life (and you know I LOVE that).  Here are just a few of the topics we cover this week!  

  • Ashley tells people not to follow their passion. Why?  Amazing answers that NO one gives us.
  • What was the moment that she knew that she was in the WRONG career at the Pentagon?
  • She teaches us how you REALLY define what your core values are.  This was a mic drop moment for me.
  • What are some myths that keep people stuck in their career and life, and how do we become more experimental?
  • What were my 'dark years' in my life, and what were the two lists I made to find who i "am" and start Smart Dating Academy?
  • How do you get into your masculine/feminine energy for dates?
  • How do you get reconnected to yourself?
  • Why 'backing up' doesn't mean 'backing down' in life

  • If you'd like to read Ashley's book if you're considering a career pivot, here it is!  
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