A Bit of Optimism

Don’t you hate it when you’re coasting along -- not a care in the world -- and then it feels like life comes out of nowhere and hits you like a car, almost paralyzing you? Well, for Pat Berges, that wasn’t just a feeling…that actually happened.  

Like many of us, Pat is not a natural optimist. He had to learn how to find optimism during this dark period. Not only did it help him recover, but what he learned continues to help him be, well, optimistic.  

This is… A Bit of Optimism.

For more on Pat and his work, check out:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-berges

https://twitter.com/BergesPat

https://www.aarc.org/ventilator-training-alliance/

It’s what all the poets write about, all the musicians sing about, and all the brokenhearted cry about. That’s right… It's time to talk about love.  

I was lucky enough to talk to Francesca Hogi, a love coach and all around incredible person, about how we can traverse through the world of digital dating, rejection, and modern day love.

So… care to join us? Great. It’s a date.

This is… A Bit of Optimism.

For more on Francesca and her work check out: 

https://francescahogi.com/

https://www.instagram.com/dearfranny/

https://linktr.ee/dearfranny

If you walk up to someone and say “you’re being unreasonable!” most people would be offended. Will Guidara, however, would take it as a compliment.  

A renowned New York restaurateur, Will transformed Eleven Madison Park into the best restaurant in the world by reinventing how they offered hospitality....they made it unreasonable.  

I had a chance to sit down and talk to him about how he learned the power of being unreasonable.

This is… A Bit of Optimism.

For more on Will and his work, check out his new book Unreasonable Hospitality below or wherever you prefer to buy your books: 

https://simonsinek.com/optimism_press_books/unreasonable-hospitality/

Some of the most successful people in the world all have a secret power. It’s not their experience or technical expertise that matter most – it’s their partnerships.   

As the President and founding CEO of Virgin Unite, Jean Oelwang has had a ringside seat to remarkable people and how they build deep business and personal relationships.   She has spent over 15 years working with some of the world's greatest partnerships as they learned to become better versions of themselves, and in doing so, multiplied their positive impact on the world. 

 In her new book Partnering, Jean illuminates the six core principles that weave through sixty of these extraordinary collaborations and shows how we can increase depth and meaning in our most important relationships.  

This is…A Bit of Optimism.    

For more on Jean and her work check out:   

https://www.amazon.com/Partnering-Forge-Connections-Things-Happen/dp/059318954X/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1646661822&sr=8-2 

https://unite.virgin.com/unite/person/jean-oelwang  

https://twitter.com/JeanOelwang

instagram.com/JeanOelwang

We've all been told in our darkest times: "Don't worry this will get better"...but what happens if everything's going right? Should we be afraid that the other shoe will drop?    

Well, for Adrian Grenier, the other shoe dropped. He was the star of Entourage, the biggest show on television for a decade. He had fame, money, and everything else.   

Until one day when his girlfriend abruptly dumped him. At that moment, he was forced to see himself in a new light -- which inspired him to follow an entirely new path: a journey of reflection, growth, and farming.    

This is…A Bit of Optimism.    

For more on Adrian and his work check out:    

EarthSpeed on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfzVslwYuraxst_RiqNvRGg 

EarthSpeed on Instagram - instagram.com/earthspeed

DuContra Ventures -https://www.ducontra.ventures/   

And a special thanks to Alo Yoga for letting us break in their brand-new podcast studio :-).

We all know a bit about Abraham Lincoln and George Washington, but which President was drunk at his inauguration?  Who was the first gay president?  And what kind of parent would name their kid “Millard Fillmore”?

For this Presidents' Day, I called the brilliant Jeremy Deutsch, the king of presidential history, to drop some obscure presidential knowledge and give a couple hints about our presidential future as well.

This is…A Bit of Optimism. 

For more on Jeremy and his work check out: 

https://www.capitolventurellc.com/

Can we ensure that we will stay happy through every phase of our lives? Arthur Brooks discovered that there is a clear fork in the road that we will all face at some point. Some of us will struggle to find lasting happiness and the other will only get happier as time passes. The trick is knowing what to do to get on the happy path. 

The best part - Arthur tested his theory on himself…and it worked! He offers lots of words of wisdom -- and lots words I had to look up -- to help guide the rest of us in our quest for personal fulfillment and lifelong happiness.

This is...A Bit Of Optimism. 

If you enjoy the episode, visit ArthurBrooks.com and check out his new book for more on the subject, From Strength to Strength.

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Here are a list of some the big words Arthur uses in the episode…just in case you need it :-)

Routinized - to develop into a regular procedure.

Syndicalized - to join together as one entity, as in a labor union. 

Pedagogical - instructional, characterized by the art or science of teaching. 

Metacognitive - having to do with metacognition, high-level thinking that enables understanding.

Baroque - of or relating to the musical period following the Renaissance, extending roughly from 1600 to 1750.

Fugue - Music. a polyphonic composition based upon one, two, or more themes, which are enunciated by several voices or parts in turn, subjected to contrapuntal treatment, and gradually built up into a complex form having somewhat distinct divisions or stages of development and a marked climax at the end.

Liminality - a state of transition between one stage and the next, especially between major stages in one's life or during a rite of passage.

Disconsolate - characterized by or causing dejection; cheerless; gloomy.

Wizened - withered, shriveled.

When people want to do good they often get stuck because they don’t know what they can do. 

Mark Bustos figured out that to do good, all we need to do is what we are already good at, but to do it for someone else. 

Mark is a hairstylist turned humanitarian who will inspire anyone who hears his story to give more. 

This is…A Bit Of Optimism.

For more information on Mark and his work check out: 

https://www.instagram.com/markbustos/

https://www.mydarlingivy.com/

https://www.silvervineroom.com/

Short packets of content. That’s the world we live in. We've condensed and compressed so much of what we consume that our entertainment and our news seem to have lost any nuance or complexity.

And that’s a problem, because our world and our lives are nuanced and complex.

Phoebe Robinson is a comedian, bestselling author, actress and producer who tries to capture the nuance and complexity of life in her work. And it works. She’s funny, thought-provoking and full of heart. 

This is…A Bit of Optimism. 

For more on Phoebe and her work, visit:

https://www.phoeberobinson.com

https://www.tinyreparations.com

Less than 5% of major crimes end in a conviction. For cold cases, that number drops to 1%.      

Those numbers won’t stay low forever.  

David Mittelman’s company, Othram Inc., is revolutionizing DNA sequencing and, in the process, greatly reducing the number of “unsolvable” cases.   

 I called David to learn more about how the new technology works, what it means for the future of crime-fighting, and maybe get some fascinating stories out of the bargain too.      

This is… A Bit of Optimism.   

 For more on David and his work visit:   

DNASolves.com 

Othram.com