A Man's Journey Through Divorce

The biggest obstacle to peace is our willingness to let it go. As we face difficult people and situations, we have a choice: live with internal chaos or find peace. In this episode, Steve discusses how to empower yourself to discover "micro-miracles" amidst the uncertainty of divorce. Tune in to learn strategies for maintaining inner peace and finding small moments of joy during challenging times.


Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

In this episode, we discuss moving beyond the "no for now" posture and releasing the possibility for a "yes." Steve shares a personal situation that revealed it was time to stop resisting what was once a form of protection, the "no for now." Tune in to learn how to open yourself up to new possibilities and embrace positive changes.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Divorce often presents complexities that can't be solved in the mental realm. Something else is needed to release those areas of resistance. In this episode, Steve discusses how to release the things we resist and let go of the elements that create our self-imposed suffering. Tune in to explore strategies for overcoming resistance and finding peace amidst the challenges of divorce.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Divorce presents all sorts of situations that allow us to distort reality, inviting anxiety, depression, and forms of panic into our present moments. In this episode, Steve sheds light on how easily we can distort reality and anchor ourselves to where we don't want to be. Tune in to learn how to recognize and overcome these distortions, and find a path to clarity and peace.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Many men come across the statistic that "77% of divorces are initiated by women." While this may be true regarding filing, who is to say divorce starts when documents are filed? In this episode, Steve sheds light on how this statistic, when viewed in the broader context, can be misleading. He discusses how this misconception can trap men, preventing them from moving on with their lives in the best possible way. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the divorce process and learn strategies for overcoming these traps.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

Co-parenting doesn't come without its challenges. Your ability to quickly move beyond these challenges directly reduces the level of "suckiness" in your divorce. In this episode, Steve discusses how getting stuck in core beliefs around parenting can trap you from being the parent and person you are capable of being. Tune in to learn strategies for overcoming these obstacles and becoming the best version of yourself as a co-parent.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

We have an innate desire for fair outcomes in life, but the legal process of divorce is not built on fairness—it's built on equitable decisions. Divorcees often get trapped in their desire for fairness, which contributes to their level of "divorce suckiness." In this episode, Steve discusses how our longing for fairness creates suffering or "suckiness." Tune in to understand the distinction between fairness and equity, and how to navigate these feelings to reduce your suffering. This episode is followed by an exclusive podcast extra and support content on the "A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page. 


Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.
 
To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

You may be familiar with situations where you have a hard time deciding what to do, unsure of which choice is right or wrong. In this episode, Steve talks about the mental monkey driving fear on both sides of the decision, creating patterns of rumination, anxiety, and confusion. Tune in to learn how to identify and address these mental obstacles. In the podcast extra, Steve shares a process to overcome this challenge.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

You may have heard a divorcee share a situation where their attorney dropped the ball when handling their case. In this episode, Steve shares a case where this appears to be happening and sheds light on why these situations occur. Tune in to understand the common pitfalls in legal representation during divorce and how to navigate them.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

In this episode, Steve talks about how the "ending of un-equals" is perpetuated during the invisible divorce phase. He shares details on how one person's fear around divorce leads them to self-protect their interests while disengaging during the marriage and building the courage to ask for divorce. This behavior, in turn, causes the other person to self-protect, widening the gap between them and perpetuating the "ending of un-equals." Tune in to understand this dynamic and how it impacts the divorce process.



Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.