The Scapegoat Awakening - What Happens When the Scapegoat in a Toxic Family Realizes the Truth - If you were the scapegoat of the family, you'd be able to relate to this discussion, in which Angie Atkinson and Lise Colucci talk about being the scapegoat and what happens when the scapegoat in a family situation recognizes that there's a problem in the family. This might involve a narcissistic parent and/or several other toxic elements. Get small group coaching at queenbeeing.com/groups and get our brand new app at queenbeeing.com/myapp.
Were you your family's scapegoat? As the family scapegoat in their own families of origin, Angie and Lise can relate to your situation.
Also discussed is how to recognize and acknowledge when there is a narcissist in a primary role and how the scapegoat interacts with the other roles (such as the golden one, the lost one, the invisible one, the funny one, etc.).
Plus: how siblings or other family members may react and choose to stick with the narcissist and their enablers and deny the reality the family is dealing with, including how they keep secrets for the toxic people and how the scapegoat is most commonly alienated and actively put down, among other things.
As a scapegoat in a family or social group, you may feel alone and isolated, like no one understands what you are going through. Maybe everyone encourages you to get professional help. Still, when it comes down to the tough questions, they don't want to know, and they refuse to acknowledge the truth either because they are enablers or they don't want to deal with the unpleasantness of it all.
This toxic support system will isolate you while simultaneously becoming addicted to them. A scapegoat must recognize what's going on so that they can survive and make changes as necessary.
If you are the scapegoat in the family, you may have felt dismissal and pain from being alone. This can be so much that it feels like a betrayal by your family members, who have chosen to enable the toxic personality, perhaps even destroying their lives to stay connected with him or her. In this conversation, we share what happens when a young person comes forward with a problem with an adult sibling or parent, characterizing them as difficult, moody, and ungrateful.
We discuss what it means to be scapegoated by someone who loves you and how to survive becoming used by those around you so they can avoid looking at themselves and face their demons. Finally, we offer hope for survival despite feeling deserted.
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