Are you a Hailstorm or a Turtle?

Hailstorm = one who brings up complaints; Turtle = the one who shuts down/gets defensive and/or walks on eggshells.

To the turtle, the hailstorm seems like someone who is needy, clingy, demanding, and critical. --> "I can never satisfy her, so why try?"

To the hailstorm, the turtle seems like he/she doesn't care, is defensive, is not a team player, and maybe even selfish. --> "I'm on my own."

When we don't understand what is happening in someone's inner world, we jump to making character judgments of them.

"She is too needy."

"He is selfish."

But that's a misunderstanding at best, and a hurtful belief at worst.

On today's episode, I will be revealing what is *actually* going on underneath for each of these attachment styles.

Including, their core fears, behaviors, needs, and desires...

--> so YOU can stop going in circles, and start connecting in a deep and fulfilling way with the people in your life.

This will change the way you operate in the world.

Next week, I will be doing a DEEP DIVE into this topic with examples, as well as answering your questions, in our free FB group 'Heal Your Relationships.'

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