With the New Year before us and everyone talking about goals, intentions, and dreams, do you wonder if there is anything good this year for you? Are you allowed to dream big? Is it wrong to think about being better than where you have come from? In this episode let me break it down for you to realize why we(as UnMothereds) are afraid of success, why we sabotage ourselves out of it, and what we can do to start living the life we dream and desire! Because after all, life can be good.

I have three ways that helped me overcome the self-sabotaging cycle:

• Thinking that success is a straight win to the top! (hint: there is tension in the transition, and you can actually “fail up!”) Nothing is a failure unless you stop!
• Just because your relatives (ie; siblings, mom or dad, cousins) don’t have what you have or want, doesn’t mean you should shrink back. Thank God for the blessing and move on!
• We have a horrible habit (which is actually trauma) of never finishing a project, it makes it hard to be on the success track when we can’t concentrate right. Get help for this and recognize it! 

If you find yourself in this same position, reach out to me. I can offer you coaching advice on how to create your dream life. This is a great example of where coaching can really help! Let's set up a game plan for you to think and pray differently!

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*Disclaimer: I am not a licensed therapist or counselor.