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By Heather Shannon
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The podcast currently has 95 episodes available.
One of Heather’s Youtube playlists with similar content:
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In this episode of the Ask a Sex Therapist podcast, host Heather Shannon and returning guest Dr. Kate Balistrieri delve into the number one most common sexual fantasy—threesomes. The discussion covers essential considerations such as identifying personal and collective fantasies, setting boundaries and communication strategies, and how to find a sex-positive community. They also explore practical advice for single individuals and couples contemplating a threesome, emphasizing the importance of clear communication, consent, and safety. Kate and Heather provide insights into managing expectations, handling emotions like jealousy, and ensuring positive experiences. The conversation highlights the importance of inclusivity, mutual respect, and thoughtful engagement in exploring group sex dynamics.
Links, Contact Information & Resources:
Dr. Kate Balistrieri’s website: https://www.modernintimacy.com/dr-kate-balestrieri-sex-therapist/
Dr. Kate Balistrieri’s Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@drkatebalestrieri?lang=en
Dr. Kate Balistrieri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkatebalestrieri/?hl=en
Heather and Kate’s first podcast episode together: https://youtu.be/AX2nXH01ho4
Book an Intimacy Breakthrough Call with Heather: https://heathershannon.co/video-page/
Ask an Anonymous Sex Question to be featured on the next Listener Q & A episode: https://heathershannon.co/ask-a-sex-question/
Welcome to another episode of the Ask a Sex Therapist podcast! In today's listener Q&A, Heather Shannon dives deep into questions about sexual energy, maintaining desire in long-term relationships, understanding demisexuality and fraysexuality, and coping with feelings of loneliness while dating. Heather also shares insights about the importance of novelty in keeping sexual attraction alive and addresses the nuanced dynamics of intimacy. Don't forget to submit your questions anonymously via Heather's website for future episodes!
Links, Contact Information & Resources:
Curious about coaching? Book an Intimacy Breakthrough Call with Heather: https://heathershannon.co/video-page/
The YouTube channel is getting organized! Check out our playlists for libido, communication, penis owners, etc: https://www.youtube.com/@AskASexCoach/playlists
Ep. 39 with Zachary Zane: https://youtu.be/j4zZjM18aZ0?si=7nj5fw9KlEyDOoXy
Announcements:
Take our survey to get more personalized content from me (less than 1 min) - https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/personalize-emails
Libido Course Now Available in the App for $10 off the usual price! $39 instead of $49
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ask-a-sex-therapist/id6476728826
Grace is coming on the team as my apprentice Intimacy Coach! Request a free consultation with Grace here: https://calendly.com/grace_teacherbyrd/15min
Hello everyone! In this episode of 'Ask a Sex Therapist,' host Heather Shannon is joined by Dr. Eric Fitzmedrude, a specialist in relationship and sexual issues, as they delve into the intricacies of male sexuality, high desire, and the importance of emotional fulfillment in masturbation. Dr. Fitzmedrude shares his personal journey with infidelity and how it led him to explore open relationships, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and effective communication. The discussion also covers the value of consent, overcoming patriarchal wounds, and finding balance within diverse sexual needs. Listeners are encouraged to embrace vulnerability, cultivate intimate connections, and explore their desires ethically, with an invitation to explore Dr. Fitzmedrude’s book, 'The Better Man,' for deeper insights.
Links, Contact Information & Resources:
Dr. Eric’s Website and Book Link: https://www.drericfitz.com/the-better-man/
Similar Youtube Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNk9UKFYOfS7PNz68eMvmu6WdX8hhg8rx
Announcements:
Take our survey to get more personalized content from me (less than 1 min) - https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/personalize-emails
Libido Course Now Available in the App for $10 off the usual price! $39 instead of $49
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ask-a-sex-therapist/id6476728826
Grace is coming on the team as my apprentice Intimacy Coach! Request a free consultation with Grace here: https://calendly.com/grace_teacherbyrd/15min
Hello everyone! In this episode of the Ask a Sex Therapist podcast, Heather explores the topic of squirting, including what it is, how it occurs, and the differences between squirting and female ejaculation. She walks listeners through the scientific aspects of squirting, such as the role of the bladder and Skeen's glands, and dispels common myths about it. Heather also shares practical tips on how to stimulate squirting, discusses her personal experience, and emphasizes the importance of being patient and open-minded.
Links, Contact Information & Resources:
Episode 56 Female Arousal with Susan Bratton https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/056-female-arousal-with-susan-bratton/id1656078749?i=1000638171677
Heather Shannon, LCPC's Amazon Page https://www.amazon.com/shop/heathershannonlcpc
Feeling stuck with sex? Request a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call with Heather! --> Intimacy Breakthrough Session Booking Link
Hello everyone! In this episode, Heather welcomes Dr. Diane Mueller, a seasoned sexual wellness expert with a doctorate in naturopathic medicine. They discuss her journey through personal sexual health challenges and the conception of her practice, MyLibidoDoc. The conversation covers a wide range of topics, including the importance of novelty in long-term relationships, the impact of stress and safety on libido, and strategies for effective communication and self-exploration in sexual health. Dr. Diane shares insights on maintaining connection through highs and lows, practices for sustaining libido, and the significance of understanding one's pleasure body. Tune in to gain valuable tips and explore an empathetic, holistic approach to sexual wellness.
Links, Contact Information & Resources:
Follow Dr. Diane Mueller https://www.instagram.com/mylibidodoc/
Dr. Diane Mueller’s Libido Quiz & Website https://mylibidodoc.com/libido-quiz/
Feeling stuck with sex? Request a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call with Heather! --> Intimacy Breakthrough Session Booking Link
Hello everyone! In today's episode, we're diving into some brave and thought-provoking listener questions on sex and relationships.
Links, Contact Information & Resources:
Book a 15-minute call with Heather to decide if the ENM group is right for you! https://calendly.com/hshann1/15-min-interviews?month=2024-07
Finding Your Fire Course with $10 off automatically applied:
https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/offers/RLM4tXqi?coupon_code=10BUCKSOFF
Interested in a FREE Intimacy Audit Mini Course? Download the new Ask a Sex Therapist App!
Episode Summary
I recently attended a film festival in St Petersburg, FL and saw the film Every Seven by married couple Caitlin Morris and Alex Hanno. The film questions the way marriage is structured and considers an interesting alternative.
After the showing, I invited them to be on the podcast and they said yes! Join us for a thought-provoking conversation about what marriage is, what it isn't and what it could be!
Connect with Alex and Caitlin
Watch Every Seven - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9uDaL78JXbo&t=92s
Caitlin's IG - https://www.instagram.com/sirromcc/
Alex's IG - https://www.instagram.com/alexanderhanno/
Interested in working with me to improve your own relationship and intimacy? Request a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call! --> https://HeatherShannon.co/video-page
Are you a woman or enby in an ethically non-monogamous relationship and feel like your partner is gung-ho about it and you're struggling? Maybe you're feeling anxious and insecure or your nervous system has gotten hijacked entirely by this new relationship structure. Maybe part of you is curious and wonders what could be in it for you, but you need an emotional connection before you become interested in anyone else. And maybe you're neurodivergent and experience "rejection sensitive dysphoria" where you easily feel like you're not enough. If any of this resonates--reach out about my new "Secure Connections" group program. Shoot me an email at [email protected]. Can't wait to talk!
Feeling stuck with sex? Request a free Intimacy Breakthrough Call with Heather! --> Intimacy Breakthrough Session Booking Link
Join us for a special episode with Heather's clients! Lauren and Megan "graduated" from Heather's Intimacy Infusion coaching program and they spill the tea on what it was like going from feeling stuck and frustrated to feeling excited, empowered and connected.
Pre-Order Your Copy of Stefanie's Book Now! https://stefanieirisweiss.com/
Join Heather and our guest, astrologer & sexologist Stefanie Iris Weiss, for this fun episode all about how your (and your partner's) zodiac signs influence your approach to sex.
Download the Ask A Sex Therapist app and grab a free seat in Heather's Intimacy Audit mini course! https://apps.apple.com/gr/app/ask-a-sex-therapist/id6476728826
Learn more about coaching with Heather and request your free Intimacy Breakthrough Call! https://HeatherShannon.co/video-page
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Summary
Heather tackles listener questions in this episode:
Themes Addressed
sex therapist, ethically non-monogamous, support group, porn use, sexual behaviors, desensitization, neural pathways, behavior change, presence, awareness, sexual communication, sexual repertoire, sex addiction, high libido, existential kink
The podcast currently has 95 episodes available.