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Jonathan Aslay on Self Love: Transforming Grief into a Mission

In this episode, Jonathan Aslay, a leading midlife dating coach, discusses his journey from personal tragedy to becoming an advocate for self-love. After losing his son in 2018, Jonathan embarked on a spiritual and introspective path, leading him to discover the emotional health issues plaguing many singles. He now focuses on helping individuals cultivate self-worth, self-regard, and self-love. Jonathan also delves into the challenges of modern dating, the importance of emotional maturity, and how personal growth practices can transform one's dating experiences and interpersonal relationships.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:20 Jonathan Aslay's Journey to Self-Love

02:36 The Impact of Grief and Spiritual Exploration

08:30 From Grief to Dating Coach

11:58 Navigating Modern Dating Challenges

24:43 Sex and Empowerment

25:05 The Sacredness of Sex

25:37 Risks and Consequences

27:02 Compatibility and Emotional Maturity

27:24 Navigating Multiple Partners

28:25 Coaching and Self-Discovery

29:53 Emotional Awareness and Expression

31:54 The Layers of Human Programming

34:31 The Journey of Self-Love

38:06 Practical Steps for Self-Improvement

43:03 Jonathan's Personal Transformation

46:40 Connecting with Jonathan

JONATHON’S INFO:

Jonathon Aslay’s Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDOXs_34FF93o66Z-S0py1g 

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This episode focuses on how to embrace being a more dominant partner in sexual scenarios. It covers different dominance styles, such as goddess worship and leadership dynamics, and emphasizes the importance of creating a safe, consensual 'container' for dominant-submissive play. Key points include negotiating roles and time frames, experimenting with clothing and implements, and the necessity of safe words for both physical and emotional comfort. The episode aims to inspire viewers to explore power exchange dynamics responsibly while ensuring mutual satisfaction and open communication.

• 00:00 Introduction to Dominance
• 00:35 Understanding Dominant Vibes
• 01:21 Personal Experience with Dominance
• 01:59 Exploring Different Dynamics
• 04:35 Creating the Container
• 04:59 Role Play and Safe Words
• 11:18 Communicating Boundaries and Desires
• 13:35 Conclusion and Further Resources

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Increase Your Libido & Sexual Pleasure with Vaginal Gymnastics:

In this episode, we dive into a unique and fascinating topic with Bel Di Lorenzo, a female sexual health advocate and author of 'The Gohddess Method.' Bel shares insights into her approach to vaginal gymnastics, a training method for mastering pelvic floor muscle exercises that amplify female pleasure and orgasms. We explore the benefits of these exercises, how they can transform your sex life, and discuss their impact on sexual health and confidence. Join us to learn about this groundbreaking field and how you can start incorporating these techniques into your routine.

Heather Shannon's Links, Contact Information & Resources:

Find Bel’s Gohddess course here: https://www.gohddess.com/ and use code ‘HeatherShannon’ for 25% off!

The Gohddess Method book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CSJ64CPH 

Gohddess Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goh_ddess 

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Does Size Matter? Porn Preferences, All About Erections, Sex with a Chronic Illness, and Communication Tips:

In this listener Q&A episode of the 'Ask a Sex Therapist' podcast, Heather Shannon addresses various sexual concerns and questions from listeners. Topics discussed include the significance of penis size, preferences in pornography, managing guilt associated with certain sexual interests, understanding the dynamics of erections, and navigating intimacy with chronic illness. Heather provides compassionate, insightful advice and emphasizes the importance of communication, mindful acceptance, and adaptability in sexual relationships. She encourages listeners to submit their questions for future episodes and highlights the benefits of seeking support from a sex therapist.

Links, Contact Information & Resources:

Submit YOUR Sex Questions HERE: https://heathershannon.co/ask-a-sex-question/ 

Ep. 29: Am I Queer? Are You Queer? https://youtu.be/GbFIQvmB81M?si=fuhq-Za9TVneMCJG 

Ep. 21: All About Erections https://youtu.be/L1xdoe4J4O8?si=u9i654srT5TxJ7XA 

Ep. 103 Sex work, Disability and Real Talk with Andrew Gurza https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jPKzoXg3-kI 

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How to Revive Loss of Libido, Desire, & Orgasm:

Join intimacy expert Susan Bratton and host Heather Shannon as they delve into how to rekindle a sexless marriage. Susan shares her personal journey of overcoming sexual struggles like orgasmless sex and infidelity with her husband and introduces her proven program 'Revive Her Drive' which she offers FREE to listeners of this episode. Learn about the four elements of revival, keys to seduction, and how to create lasting intimacy and pleasure in your relationship. Whether your sex life has hit a slump or you’re looking to deepen your connection with your partner, this episode offers insightful advice and practical steps to transforming your intimate life.

Susan Bratton: Contact + Info:

Susan’s email: [email protected] 

Susan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton/?hl=en 

Susan’s website: Betterlover.com 

Heather Shannon: Contact + Other Links

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Summary for Sexy Bucket List Episode:

In this episode, we dive into the exciting and insightful process of creating a sexual bucket list. Join us as we explore the importance of establishing safety and consent, setting intentions, and letting go of perfectionism. With practical advice, resource recommendations and unique tips on sparking creativity and trust, this episode aims to help you and your partner, or even solo, set and achieve meaningful sexual goals. Whether adding spice to a long-term relationship or discovering new fantasies, this guide offers a comprehensive framework and fun ideas to keep your sex life adventurous and connected.

Heather Shannon's Links, Contact Information & Resources:

Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life https://www.amazon.com/dp/0738234966?linkCode=ssc&tag=onamzheat0ce5-20&creativeASIN=0738234966&asc_item-id=amzn1.ideas.29BK4OTJWL4UF&ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d_asin 

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Ep. 34: Getting “Beducated” with Mariah Freya: Naked Models, Orgasm Class & Sex-Positive Parenting https://youtu.be/3-wFfTK0ZSg?si=lzMPi_sWIYZnJAaX 

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Heather’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/AskASexTherapist

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Summary: Braxton T. Fleming, Shark Tank, and Identity

Join us in this inspiring episode as we interview Braxton T. Fleming, the trailblazing CEO of Stealth Bros & Co. Braxton, the first black trans man to secure a spot on Shark Tank, shares his entrepreneurial journey, the challenges of launching his revolutionary medical storage brand, and his personal story of transitioning. Learn how his passion for helping underrepresented medical communities shaped his business and the critical steps he took to achieve success. From his experience on Shark Tank to his motivational approach to life, to navigating sex and identity, this episode offers insights, motivation, and a deeper understanding of the importance of representation and empowerment.

Transitioning, Transgender Identity, and Trans Sex

During this episode, Braxton T. Fleming and host Heather Shannon discussed Braxton's transition and transgender identity, how he navigated sex before and after transitioning.

Links, Contact Information & Resources:

Stealth Bros and Co website: https://www.stealthbrosco.com/?gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiAire5BhCNARIsAM53K1j2wN0x8PwLJcgZ4Sv2I35-kuPQ3UseNihomppvldUJbpvHwHYJd_YaAhPoEALw_wcB

Steal Bros and Co Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stealthbrosco/?hl=en 

Braxton’s Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sire.brax/?hl=en

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The Real Lives of Transgender and Nonbinary Humans: A Publish Your Purpose Anthology book: https://www.left-bank.com/book/9781951591823 

Heather’s website: https://heathershannon.co/

Heather’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/AskASexTherapist

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In this episode, host Heather Shannon answers sex questions written by Chat GPT! She discusses how to maintain intimacy as couples age, addresses mismatched libidos, and explores whether a decrease in desire is normal during middle age. Heather emphasizes the importance of both personal growth and professional help in improving sexual relationships, and highlights the benefits of seeing a sex therapist. 

Links, Contact Information & Resources:

Episode 8: https://youtu.be/rfahLFCxdqM?si=lZUZVJcAs2QcKqof

Episode 81: https://youtu.be/VWxdvPGeHBs?si=-FkhF0PSZioW7b7K 

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Join us in this enlightening episode as we welcome Andrew Gurza, an award-winning disability awareness consultant and co-founder of Bumpin, a sex toy company for disabled people. Andrew shares their journey from academia to becoming a notable figure in disability advocacy, discussing the intersection of sex, disability, and queerness. Learn about the challenges and misconceptions around sex and disability, the importance of sex work for disabled individuals, and the personal experiences that shaped Andrew’s impactful work. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that breaks down taboos and promotes inclusivity.

Links, Contact Information & Resources:

This episode is sponsored by Dateability. Find them for on the App Store or on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/dateabilityapp/?hl=en 

Andrew’s Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/1sojdfQEY2tNio377qM954 

Andrew’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andrewgurza6/ 

Andrew’s Website: https://www.andrewgurza.com/ 

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Join Heather in this insightful episode of the Ask a Sex Therapist podcast, as she delves into Part 3 of the Pathway to Passion with mental arousal and its role in enhancing intimacy. Learn about the importance of maintaining a sex journal, sharing fantasies, and using non-verbal signals to communicate your desires. Heather provides valuable advice on both mental and physical foreplay techniques, helping to improve communication and passion in your relationship. Don't miss reflections on her 100th episode and exciting future plans!

Links, Contact Information & Resources:

Get Heather’s Free “Spicing It Up” Guide! https://heather-shannon.mykajabi.com/spice

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Pathway to Passion Part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NbcJsKfZTo

Pathway to Passion Part 2: https://youtu.be/k8wNbLr0_-4?si=wxahjgaLTTNEL4hC

Ep. 94: How to Have a Threesome with Dr. Kate Balistrieri: https://youtu.be/UAa-U-vePPY?si=8zWQUKJoISLXN7Bj

Ep. 78: Exploring Sexual Fantasies with Artemisia De Vine: https://youtu.be/zitVG--ZDPA?si=XapPPDbG9QFSc0pc

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