In this mini-episode of Untidy, Matty and Hannah talk to sex and relationships therapist, Jo Robertson, about how couples can reconnect emotionally and physically during the unsexy seasons of raising kids, working jobs, and navigating the fatigue of everyday life. Jo shares why desire doesn’t just “magically turn up at the supermarket,” how we can reframe sex as intentional intimacy, and the code words that can take a conversation from getting awkward to feeling fun.

Ever felt tapped out, touched out, or like intimacy has slipped off the priorities list? Whether you're struggling with mismatched libidos, fear of rejection, or simply feel like you're “never in the mood,” this one’s for you.

To hear the full episodes with Jo, head to:

• Sex and relationships Q&A (Part one) with Jo Robertson
• Sex and relationships Q&A (Part two) with Jo Robertson
• Navigating new sexual landscapes with Jo Robertson
• Follow Jo @jorobertson.therapy on Instagram

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