Best Gabe Ever

In the final part of our Pride Live! show, Gaby and Allison are joined by musician Lucy Dacus to answer a listener's question about the best way to come out to her straight group of friends (and everyone else). Activist and educator Alexis Sanchez then stops by to discuss internalized homophobia/transphobia/biphobia. Alexis and Gaby share their own experiences of accepting themselves and offer advice for others struggling. 

This episode contains conversations about homophobia and transphobia. Please take care while listening.

Transcriptions: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JR9QUvHKMzWMl3iB-wKjMaU-dSV3viw2NrNYUrFGANU/edit?usp=sharing

 

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It's our Pride episode! Hooray! First, a pronoun change for Gaby as an update on their continuing gender journey. Then, we're honored to be joined by the ACLU's Chase Strangio to talk about his work on fighting anti-trans legislation, why these laws have sprung up all over in the last few years, and what we can do to help stop these discriminatory, misinformed, and cruel laws. Gaby then takes over the game show portion of the podcast with THE GAY OFFS! Comedian and icon Kalen Allen goes head to head with Allison, who definitely loses. HAPPY PRIDE! Tune in Friday for the rest of the live episode! 

This episode contains conversations about homophobia and transphobia. Please take care while listening.

Transcriptions: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ZfnF8SAvfwzxUTi4PnaejVwNVpEBm0IMotY85WUnzBw/edit?usp=sharing

 

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Gaby starts off the episode by yelling at Allison for taking hot showers. They're then joined by former MTV VJ and all around badass journalist SuChin Pak to talk about her rise in media and how the last 15 months have shifted her view of the world. She discusses anti-Asian hate and her personal reckoning with her own history. It's powerful and intimate and followed by a rousing game of hypotheticals that is neither.  

This episode contains discussions of anti-Asian racism, sexual harassment, and cat-calling. Please take care while listening.

Vincent Chin: https://www.history.com/news/vincent-chin-murder-asian-american-rights

Better Luck Tomorrow, the film (2002): https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0280477/

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Mm6VROrO8JyXxDXt5t4l2_t3Rx5e3IeLVQdFJjgCDoc/edit?usp=sharing

 

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Gaby opens the episode by sharing highlights from their road trip through the beautiful weirdness of America. Allison and Gaby then answer a listener's question about healing from abrupt heartbreak--something Allison is unfortunately an expert on. And finally: forced adult friendships! Do you have to stay friends with people you no longer relate to or never really liked? Maybe???

Also! June 18 at 11 AM pst is our LIVE Pride show so check @jbupodcast on Instagram for more info on how to watch and who our esteemed guests will be! 

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JzUgt3lGXMGWBndFhidZm4OxKVoMKAoHBwP6bLrEPx8/edit?usp=sharing

 

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Jak Levine-Pritzker of Authentically ADHD (@authenticallyadhd) joins Allison and Gaby to discuss all things ADHD. Jak insightfully covers the variety of symptoms people experience, who gets overlooked when it comes to diagnosis, what part shame and rejection play, and how someone with ADHD can reframe their disorder in a capitalist world that’s stacked against them. (Small ask, we know!) Plus, Hypotheticals! Should you break up with your partner just to emotionally listen to Olivia Rodrigo? Yes, and good 4 u!

For more on the topic of ADHD, check out Allison’s Patreon episode with Mal Blum (@malblum) at patreon.com/emotionalsupportlady

 

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First, Allison has a hilarious “I love you” mishap with her new beau which leads Into a listener’s question about whether to say it to her girlfriend of two months. (Turns out, they completely disagree on the answer! Shocking!) And finally, a discussion about Naomi Osaka's groundbreaking decision to not speak to the media in order to prioritize her mental health. We love to see it! 

Trigger warning: Mild references to racism and sexism during Topix. Please take care while listening.

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LyFY_jzjlb1QX9v-vcQWeS7e-6OajDXS_LG_UxuZM-g/edit?usp=sharing

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First, Gaby wants to be Allison's "momager." Allison is not into it. The duo then talk to Gaby's beloved aunt, writer Michele Dunn Baker, about her husband getting diagnosed with HIV one year into their marriage. Michelle shares their journey since learning the news in 1987 which includes saving his life with alternative medicine and brand new treatments, and how their love continues to thrive despite hardship. If you are a book agent or publisher interested in Michele's book about this experience, contact [email protected]. 

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1N_fuDSPlb61Fa5j7kAQAyiq_nFzyYKTpjtGN3GutbXU/edit?usp=sharing

 

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Allison and Gaby are off to a strange start but then again it's Gemini season! Allison and Gaby do their best to tackle a listener's question about whether someone can convert to Judaism even if they don't believe in a traditional, all-powerful god. Gaby then shares their recent adventures in real estate as they attempt to buy a house with their partner! Mortgage before marriage? Why not!

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In our final episode of MENTAL HEALTH 101, Allison and Gaby are joined by LMFT Whitney Goodman to talk about how you can prioritize your mental health even if you don't have access to therapy. She explains the importance of setting boundaries, how to safely consume mental health content, getting in touch with your values and how to make social media a positive (instead of a negative) in your life. Plus, mindfulness and noticing explained! Turns out, you can check in with yourself TOO much. 

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In this episode of MENTAL HEALTH 101, psychologist Dr. Shelly Shelly-Ann Collins Rawle of The Black Girl Doctor joins Allison and Gaby to discuss a surprisingly complicated topic in the mental health field: diagnoses. Do people need them? Are they helpful or harmful? How often do people get misdiagnosed? What role does insurance play? Is it okay to self-diagnose? Turns out, some questions are more easily answered than others! 

Trigger warning: Discussion of personality disorders, mental health slurs, and violence. Please take care while listening.

Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1gOvfa-ks5dvcIEmcDk5IEJe_p2tmht1m5A71rXzM1zg/edit?usp=sharing

 

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