Better Than Before Breast Cancer with The Breast Cancer Recovery Coach

Last week there was no podcast episode.

For the first time in a long time, I simply didn't have the physical or emotional energy to show up behind the microphone.

After navigating one of the most challenging health seasons I've experienced since my stage 4 diagnosis, I realized I couldn't just move on without talking about what this experience taught me.

The lesson was acceptance.

Not giving up. Not settling. Not pretending difficult things aren't difficult.

Acceptance means acknowledging reality instead of exhausting yourself fighting against it.

In this episode, I share what I've been going through, how self-imposed timelines create unnecessary suffering, and why so many of us judge ourselves for not being where we think we should be by now.

We discuss:

• Acceptance versus resistance • Healing after breast cancer • Letting go of unrealistic timelines • Self-compassion during difficult seasons • The psychology of "should" thinking • Living with uncertainty • Finding peace during setbacks • Why healing is rarely linear

If you've been frustrated with where you are in your healing, your health, your relationships, your career, or your life, this conversation is for you.

Resources Mentioned:

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

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What is the most important thing I've done to support healing after breast cancer?

Mindset work.

Not positive thinking. Not pretending things are fine when they're not. Not forcing affirmations I didn't believe.

I'm talking about the work of examining what I believed was possible for my body and my future and learning how to update those beliefs.

In this episode, I share why mindset work became the foundation of my healing journey after a stage 4 breast cancer diagnosis and how neuroscience shows that our brains constantly predict what's possible based on past experiences, conditioning, fear, and environment.

We talk about:

• Why belief systems impact behavior and healing • The brain as a predictive machine • How fear and conditioning shape health decisions • The connection between self-compassion and consistency • Why changing habits starts with changing beliefs • How small actions help create new evidence for the brain

This conversation is about learning to believe that healing, peace, health, and change may actually be available to you.

References

• Barrett, L.F. & Simmons, W.K. (2015). Interoceptive predictions in the brain. Nature Reviews Neuroscience, 16(7), 419-429.
• Hutchinson, J.B. & Barrett, L.F. (2019). The power of predictions: An emerging paradigm for psychological research. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 28(3), 280-291.
• Bandura, A. (1977). Self-efficacy: Toward a unifying theory of behavioral change. Psychological Review, 84(2), 191-215.
• Bandura, A. (1997). Self-Efficacy: The Exercise of Control. New York: Freeman.
• Neff, K.D. (2023). Self-Compassion: Theory, Method, Research, and Intervention. Annual Review of Psychology, 74, 193-218.

Resources Mentioned:

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

Download for iPhone:

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/kajabi/id1485646310

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In this week's episode, I want to invite you to think about your body differently.

What if your cravings, fatigue, bloating, brain fog, and energy shifts are not signs that your body is failing you… but signs that it's trying to communicate with you?

After years of working with metabolic health, blood work, and nutrition genomics, I've realized something important. The problem is not the information itself. The problem is the lens we hear it through.

So many women hear lab results and genetic information as proof that something is wrong with them.

But your body is not broken.

Your genetics are your body's blueprint. Your labs are your body's feedback. Your symptoms may be your body asking for support.

In this episode, I share a powerful mindset shift that came from a coaching conversation with a client and I read a personal "love letter" written from my own body to me based on my labs, genetics, and healing journey.

This episode is about learning to listen instead of judge.

Because your body has been talking to you all along.

Resources Mentioned:

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

Download for iPhone:

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/kajabi/id1485646310

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What if you didn't have to wait for something to go wrong to grow?

In this episode, I'm sharing why so many women stop reaching for support once life starts to feel stable and how that pattern quietly keeps you stuck. We talk about the difference between the discomfort of crisis and the discomfort of growth, and why choosing growth creates a completely different life experience.

I also walk through the connection between your emotional state and your physical health, including how stress, joy, and connection influence inflammation and immune function.

This is about continuing to show up for yourself, not because something is broken, but because you want more out of your life.

Resources Mentioned:

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

Download for iPhone:

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/kajabi/id1485646310

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https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=kajabi.kajabiapp&hl=en_US

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Emotional pain is not just in your head. It is happening in your body.

In this episode of the Nutrition After Breast Cancer: Just the Facts series, we look at the connection between emotional and physical pain through both lived experience and research.

When you feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or stuck in a loop of thoughts, there is a biological reason for it. Your nervous system is responding exactly the way it was designed to.

But understanding that changes everything.

You will walk away with a clearer picture of:

• Why pain can feel overwhelming and never-ending
• How your brain processes emotional experiences
• Why avoidance can quietly shrink your life
• What it looks like to actually move through pain in a healthy way

This is a grounded, honest conversation about what it means to live in a body that has been through something hard and how to care for it moving forward.

Resources Mentioned:

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

Download the app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/breast-cancer-recovery-coach/id6720763813 REFERENCES

• Roerink, M.E., van der Schaaf, M.E., et al. (2015). Fatigue in chronic inflammation — a link to pain pathways. Arthritis Research & Therapy, 17(1), 294.
• Research on central sensitization in chronic pain conditions.

On memory, the amygdala, and emotional pain reactivation:

• Hanson, R. Research on negativity bias and memory encoding.
• LeDoux, J.E. Research on the amygdala, fear memory, and emotional reactivation.
• Research on the autobiographical memory system and the persistence of pain (neurocognitive framework for chronic pain).

On naming emotion and nervous system regulation:

• Lieberman, M.D., Eisenberger, N.I., Crockett, M.J., Tom, S.M., Pfeifer, J.H., & Way, B.M. (2007). Putting feelings into words: Affect labeling disrupts amygdala activity in response to affective stimuli. Psychological Science, 18(5), 421–428.

On self-compassion and physiological regulation:

• Neff, K.D. Research on self-compassion, cortisol, and heart rate variability.

On psychological and emotional stress as inflammatory drivers:

• Alschuler, L. Cancer Therapies teachings, Metabolic Terrain Institute of Health.

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Cheri lives in Duluth, Minnesota with her adventure partner, Brent, along the stunning shores of Lake Superior. A two-time breast cancer thriver—first diagnosed with Invasive Ductal Carcinoma Stage IIIA in 2019 at 39 years old, and again with Metastatic Breast Cancer in 2021 at 41—Cheri continues to live life with strength, joy, and purpose.

She leads an active, outdoor-centered lifestyle and seeks inspiration in nature, camping, fishing, hiking, and traveling. Cheri finds peace in collecting rocks, capturing her surroundings through photography, and nurturing deep connections with her family and friends.

With over seventeen years of experience in the outdoor and fashion industries in leadership roles, Cheri blends her professional expertise with a B.A. in English and an M.A. in Communicating Arts to share her story through the power of writing. Cheri is a published author whose work has appeared in Wildfire Journal, the only literary magazine created for and by those "too young" for breast cancer and the Boundary Waters Journal, a nationwide wilderness canoe country magazine. Cheri is also trained as a 2026 Hear My Voice Breast Cancer Advocate with Living Beyond Breast Cancer, a national nonprofit organization providing trusted information and a community of support to those newly diagnosed, in treatment, post-treatment, and living with metastatic disease. Cheri looks to alchemize her experience into advocacy and chooses to live intentionally every day to honor her health and healing.

Resources Mentioned:

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

Get The Breast Cancer Recovery Coach app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/breast-cancer-recovery-coach/id6720763813

Learn about the Becoming You 2.0 coaching program https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/you

Follow Cheri: https://www.instagram.com/chender1/

Episode #420 https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/420

Wildfire Magazine https://www.wildfirecommunity.org/

Boundary Waters journal https://www.boundarywatersjournal.com/

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What if your thoughts were creating physical changes in your body?

In this episode, we are looking at the science behind mindset and how your brain, your expectations, and your thought patterns influence your health in very real ways.

From negativity bias to the nocebo and placebo effects, I break down the research that shows how your mind impacts stress, symptoms, and healing.

You will learn why fear-based thinking feels automatic, how it affects your body, and how to start shifting your thoughts in a way that actually works.

This is not about positive thinking. It is about understanding how your brain works and learning how to guide it.

Resources Mentioned:

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

Download the app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/breast-cancer-recovery-coach/id6720763813 REFERENCES

Baumeister, R.F., Bratslavsky, E., Finkenauer, C., & Vohs, K.D. (2001). Bad is stronger than good. Review of General Psychology, 5(4), 323-370. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1037/1089-2680.5.4.323

Rozin, P., & Royzman, E.B. (2001). Negativity bias, negativity dominance, and contagion. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 5(4), 296-320. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1207/S15327957PSPR0504_2

Beecher, H.K. (1955). The powerful placebo. Journal of the American Medical Association, 159(17), 1602-1606. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/303530

de la Fuente-Fernández, R., Ruth, T.J., Sossi, V., Schulzer, M., Calne, D.B., & Stoessl, A.J. (2001). Expectation and dopamine release: Mechanism of the placebo effect in Parkinson's disease. Science, 293(5532), 1164-1166. https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.1060937

Kaptchuk, T.J., Friedlander, E., Kelley, J.M., et al. (2010). Placebos without deception: A randomized controlled trial in irritable bowel syndrome. PLOS ONE, 5(12), e15591. https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0015591

Benedetti, F., Amanzio, M., Vighetti, S., & Asteggiano, G. (2006). The biochemical and neuroendocrine bases of the hyperalgesic nocebo effect. Journal of Neuroscience, 26(46), 12014-12022. https://www.jneurosci.org/content/26/46/12014

Haas, J.W., Bender, F.L., Ballou, S., Kelley, J.M., Wilhelm, M., Miller, F.G., Rief, W., & Kaptchuk, T.J. (2022). Frequency of adverse events in the placebo arms of COVID-19 vaccine trials: A systematic review and meta-analysis. JAMA Network Open, 5(1), e2143955. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2788172

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In this episode, I'm joined by Kristy Griggs, founder of Training Through Treatment, to talk about the role exercise played in her experience with stage four breast cancer.

Kristy was told to rest during treatment. But what she discovered was that movement helped her physically, mentally, and emotionally in ways she did not expect.

She shares how she navigated the difference between needing rest and choosing to show up anyway, how exercise supported her through treatment, and how it ultimately led her to create a nonprofit that helps others access movement during cancer care.

Listen to learn:

• The difference between "I need rest" and "I feel uncomfortable but can still move" • How exercise supported treatment and recovery in real time • Why community matters during and after a diagnosis • What "vigorous exercise" actually means and why it matters • How to start moving even when energy is low

This conversation is a reminder that movement does not have to be perfect to be meaningful.

Resources Mentioned:

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

Training Through Treatment Website: https://www.trainingthroughtreatment.org/ Follow Training Through Treatment on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/training_through_treatment?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Follow Kristy: https://www.instagram.com/kristygriggs?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==

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This week's episode is a personal one.

It came from a hard week, a lot of physical discomfort, and a moment of asking a simple question.

Why don't we talk about this more?

Not just the physical challenges after breast cancer, but the internal rules we carry about how we should handle them.

In this episode, we talk about "manuals."

The invisible rulebooks we all have that shape how we think, feel, and react.

These manuals tell us: How we should act How others should act What is acceptable What is not

And most of the time, we don't even realize they're there.

When life doesn't match those rules, we feel frustration, anger, or sadness.

But what if the problem isn't what's happening?

What if it's the rule we're holding onto?

Listen to learn: How hidden expectations create emotional suffering Why most of our rules were written without our awareness How to recognize when a "manual" is running your reactions What it looks like to question and rewrite those rules How letting go of expectations can change your relationships

This episode invites you to pause, get curious, and start noticing the rules you've been living by.

Because you get to decide if they still belong in your life.

Resources Mentioned:

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

Let's Connect! If this episode helped you breathe a little easier, please share it with a friend or leave a review. Every share helps spread this message of hope, healing, and whole-person wellness.

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In this week's episode, we're talking about weight loss after breast cancer and menopause, and why it often feels like nothing is working.

You're eating well. You're making changes. And your body is not responding the way it used to.

We begin with a simple question.

If weight loss is just calories in and calories out, why does it feel so different now?

Think about Survivor.

Everyone loses weight.

But that is a short-term survival state, not a healthy or sustainable one.

After cancer treatment, the body may still be operating from a place of stress, inflammation, and hormonal change.

From a terrain perspective, that matters.

In this episode, we explore:

The impact of stress and cortisol on weight How detoxification supports metabolic function Why sleep and circadian rhythm influence fat loss What changes after menopause

You'll also hear how research connects chronic stress, disrupted sleep, and hormonal shifts to changes in metabolism and weight regulation.

This is not about doing more.

It is about understanding your body in a way that allows you to support it differently.

Resources Mentioned:

How to Eat Without Fear and Guilt After Breast Cancer: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/eat

Work with Laura: https://www.thebreastcancerrecoverycoach.com/health

Let's Connect! If this episode helped you breathe a little easier, please share it with a friend or leave a review. Every share helps spread this message of hope, healing, and whole-person wellness.

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