Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris episodes

June 29, 2025 The High Costs of Swinging: An Honest Look
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the financial realities of swinging. They discuss the various costs involved in the lifestyle, from babysitting fees to subscription-based websites, and how it can quickly add up. Adam and Pris share their personal experiences of navigating these expenses with limited budgets in the beginning. They touch on essential costs like grooming and gym memberships, and discuss strategies for managing these expenses. This episode provides a candid look at the financial commitments involved in the swinging lifestyle, offering practical advice for those willing to explore this lifestyle on a budget.
1 hr 4 min
June 25, 2025 Polite Turn Downs in Intimate Circles
In this episode, Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of navigating attraction within the swinging lifestyle. They explore scenarios where one might encounter others who are friendly and engaging but whom they are not sexually attracted to. The podcast offers candid discussions on how to handle such situations gracefully without hurting feelings. Adam and Pris share personal anecdotes on politely declining advances and maintaining friendships despite a lack of physical attraction. They also touch on hygiene as a crucial factor in attraction, emphasizing its importance in intimate encounters.
59 min
June 18, 2025 QUICKIE: Podcast Therapy: Unpacking Hidden Desires and Missteps
This podcast episode provides a deep dive into the swinging lifestyle and its personal impact on two hosts, Adam and Pris. Adam introduces the podcast by describing the concept of swinging, recounting how he stumbled upon adult magazines and discovered his father's hidden interest in the lifestyle. Pris shares her early encounters with open relationships and her initial exploration of swinging, which was fraught with regret due to a judgmental partner. Through candid storytelling, both hosts reveal their complex emotions, experiences, and insights about entering the swinging world, emphasizing the importance of choosing the right partners in such endeavors.
34 min
June 15, 2025 The Intersection of Swinging and Sex Work: A Candid Discussion
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris tackle the sensitive topic of sex work within the swinging community, focusing on the rise of OnlyFans among swingers. They explore the contrasting views on monetizing content within the community, with one side arguing that financial gain contradicts the essence of swinging, while the other supports sex work as an inclusive and legitimate expression of lifestyle choices. Pris shares her journey through various forms of sex work, highlighting the empowerment and confidence it has brought her, ultimately emphasizing the need for mutual support within the community.
1 hr
June 11, 2025 QUICKIE: Unveiling the Art of Dirty Talk: A Hilarious Journey
Join Adam and Pris as they recount their journey from bumbling beginnings to seasoned experts in the art of dirty talk. In a playful episode filled with laughter and insight, they share personal stories about discovering what works and what doesn't when it comes to bedroom banter. Initially, Pris's attempts were marked by a noticeable accent that added humor, while Adam relished in detailing scenarios. The couple discusses how they've learned to balance humor, imagination, and descriptive storytelling to enhance their intimate experiences, underscoring the role of communication in strengthening their 14-year relationship and keeping things exciting.
37 min
June 08, 2025 Navigating Friendship Boundaries in the Lifestyle
In this podcast episode, hosts Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of managing boundaries within friendships, especially in social and lifestyle settings. They explore scenarios where friends cross personal boundaries, whether due to drunken behavior or misunderstanding social cues, and how challenging it can be to address such situations without causing embarrassment. The conversation delves into the difficulties of saying no to friends versus strangers, the importance of empowerment, and the difference in handling male vs female transgressions. Adam and Pris reflect on past experiences and emphasize the necessity to speak up to prevent further boundary violations.
54 min
June 04, 2025 QUICKIE: Flirting: The Awkward Art of Attraction
Flirting can often feel like navigating a minefield of awkwardness, especially when you're unsure if your advances are welcome. Adam and Pris tackle this topic head-on, sharing their personal experiences and hiccups along the way. They delve into the nuances of flirting, from differentiating friendly behavior from flirtatious intent to managing the anxiety that can arise when expressing attraction. Through humor and honesty, they illustrate how everyone, regardless of experience level, can encounter awkward moments—but that doesn't have to deter them from pursuing meaningful interactions.
44 min
June 01, 2025 Navigating the Pressures of Play
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris explore the nuanced social, internal, and external pressures that individuals might face in swinger and polyamory lifestyles. Adam shares his experiences of feeling uncomfortable yet pressured to engage in activities, highlighting the importance of communication and consent. They discuss how saying 'no' can be challenging but essential for maintaining autonomy and comfort. Pris talks about their journey in finding the confidence to set boundaries, which wasn't always easy. The duo also considers the different types of pressures, such as peer and social dynamics, and how these can influence behavior within the lifestyle.
1 hr 1 min
May 28, 2025 QUICKIE: Navigating the Third Wheel Dilemma in Non-Monogamous Relationships
Adam and Pris delve into the notion of feeling like a third wheel in intimate relationships, especially within non-monogamous setups. They share insights from their personal journey, highlighting how shifting focus from mere experiences to deeper connections has transformed their interactions. The duo also tackles the art of flirting, encouraging authenticity and intention in communication. They reflect on how insecurities can intertwine with these dynamics and the significance of compersion, offering listeners a thoughtful approach to enhance their relationship experiences and navigate social intricacies with confidence.
39 min
May 25, 2025 Midlife Mischief: Confidence and Sexuality Unleashed
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the complexities and joys of maintaining a passionate and evolving intimate life after 40. They discuss how aging impacts sex drive and sexual confidence, sharing personal anecdotes and insights into how their relationship has transformed over the years. From dealing with menopause and antidepressants to discovering a newfound physical vitality, Adam and Pris explore the balance of sensuality, intimacy, and evolving desires, offering candid and relatable experiences to listeners navigating similar stages of life.
1 hr 3 min

About Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

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Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy.