Today we're talking to Katy Alaniz, a poly friendly therapist whose focus is really on helping clients rediscover confidence, sexuality, healing from trauma, and a lot of focus on body image, eating disorder recovery, and also how all of that intersects with relationships. 

Katy is a cis pansexual demisexual polyamorous woman who is super passionate about treating eating disorders and body image issues. She has a badass 10 year old, a couple of cats, she loves fresh hydrangeas, and good coffee. We have the best conversation with her about her life experiences as a solo polyamorous woman, the lessons that she has learned, and the tools she shares with her clients. 

💨 TLDR;

• 2:21- Solo Polyamory
• 6:57- Fear of Non-monogamy
• 11:15- Transition to Polyamory
• 15:43- Parenting and Polyamory
• 20:44- Polyamory as a Choice
• 24:07- Therapy Work
• 28:15- Body Image
• 42:56- Preventative Therapy

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📚 Books mentioned: 

● Health at Every Size

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• The Wakeful State
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• FB- @thewakefulstate

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