TOP SELF | Tips on Jealousy and Insecurity in Relationships

Break Free From The Identity Of Jealousy EP 90


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I'm talking about you on this week's episode.  The REAL you.  Often we think we have to transform into someone else to overcome jealousy and insecurity and that seems like a huge feat to become your future self you want to be.

However, you already ARE your future self.  In fact, you are much closer than you think because its not about changing who you are, its about uncovering the layers of pain, hurt, disappointment and programming that you've been layering on over the years, covering up that care-free, relaxed person you once where.

Key Topics Covered:

  • Why jealousy isn't who you are – it's just a protective pattern
  • Understanding the root causes of jealous behavior
  • How your nervous system creates safety through control
  • Why fighting jealousy doesn't work (and what to do instead)
  • Accessing your future self's wisdom today


You weren't born jealousy and insecure, you were conditioned that way.  These are just faulty, fear-driven habits—not core components of who you are. Your feelings are perfectly valid but the thoughts creating them may need to be examined and adjusted.

Lucky for you... I have a free workshop coming up and I will share a little bit about what we'll do in that workshop in todays episode.  The link to join is in the show notes or go to Topself.com/workshop to register.  

00:00  Welcome and Exciting Announcements

00:10  Embracing the Fall Season

00:59  Introduction to Identity and Future Self

02:37  Challenging Jealousy as an Identity

04:53  Understanding the Root of Jealousy

06:23  Real-Life Examples of Jealousy

11:00  The Role of Past Experiences

13:26  Triggers and Nervous System Responses

14:22  Different Relationship Dynamics

17:45  Understanding True Safety

18:25  Reprogramming Your Brain's Safety System

19:15 Embracing Your Future Self

20:24  Accessing Your Inner Confidence

21:30  Join the Self Discovery Workshop

23:21  The Layers Covering Your True Self

25:42  Final Thoughts and Workshop Details



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