Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman

Can Your Relationship Survive Betrayal? Here’s How to Make Sure It Does


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The headlines are buzzing, and let’s face it, Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater’s story feels like a drama we didn’t ask for. Relationships in the spotlight are hard enough, but throw an affair into the mix, and it’s like watching a reality show unfold in real time. And then there’s Ethan’s wife—cue her powerful essay in The Cut, where, as a therapist, she lays bare the raw pain of betrayal and the chaos of their breakup.


But let’s step back for a moment. This isn’t just celebrity gossip. Infidelity doesn’t care if you’re famous—it can happen to anyone. The real question is: how do you safeguard your relationship from falling into the same pitfalls?


In this episode of The Language of Love Bite, I dive into the tough but necessary conversation about “affair-proofing” your relationship. Inspired by the recent headlines, we explore what it takes to build trust, connection, and intimacy in any partnership—whether you’re under the spotlight or not.


Here’s what we cover:

  • Why infidelity is often about disconnection, not bad intentions.
  • Emotional check-ins and the simple questions that keep your bond strong.
  • How intentional intimacy can reignite the spark.
  • Why protecting your relationship starts with clear boundaries.
  • The “Love Audit,” a weekly ritual to rebuild and maintain intimacy.

  • And don’t miss the golden rule I share that every couple should follow to affair proof their relationship!  


    If you want to strengthen your bond or avoid future bumps in the road, this episode is full of practical tips to help your love grow. And don’t forget to check out my YouTube videos for more ideas on keeping that spark alive in your relationship!



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