Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

Case Study: What If Your Teen Doesn’t Want Connection?


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What if your teen rejected every attempt at connection? You’ve ditched punishments and bribes, but now your child is pushing back harder than ever. Is it even working? Today, I sit down with Tova, a mother of four, who’s navigating the tricky transition from traditional parenting to connection-based parenting, especially with her resistant teens.


Tova has seen beautiful changes in her younger twins since implementing connective parenting, but her older teen daughters aren’t responding the same way. We dive deep into why trust takes time, what “progress” really looks like, and how to stay the course when your teen meets your efforts with eye rolls and rejection. I share my personal experiences raising teens, offering strategies that shift the dynamic. If you've ever felt stuck wondering whether connection is really working, this episode is for you.


In This Episode

  • Why teens resist connection at first
  • Signs that your approach is working
  • How to stay patient through rejection
  • Using humor to defuse power struggles
  • The problem with punishments and bribes
  • Building true cooperation in your home


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