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Character Analysis episodes

October 14, 2024How men define a high-value women and why we don't care - Extended teaser
Let’s listen to Joshua, a self-perceived high-value man, describe his idea of a woman “of his caliber.”
According to Joshua, these attraction metrics are:
Youth

Beauty

Fertility

Fidelity

Agreeableness
Sir, is this you?

Listen to what we think of Joshua and his article in the full-length episode here:
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11 min
October 06, 2024 First date questions destined to keep men single
Today's episode discusses Tripp, The Dating Coach For Men. He has created three must-ask questions men should ask women on a first date.
1. What's your relationship like with your Dad?
2. How do you deal with stress?
3. What's the longest friendship you've had?
These questions have an underlying motivation, and Tripp knows it. They're used to gauge the emotional intelligence and effort a woman will require. With these questions, he's advising men to abandon the thought of dating a woman who shows the slightest hint of emotional turmoil. What these questions reveal is the person asking them isn't self-actualized. If they were, they'd know that human beings are more than the sum of their parts.
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59 min
September 18, 2024 Gaslighting, Manipulation & Mask Slipping
The best way to know if you're dating a narcissist is to express a boundary. Their reaction will tell you everything you need to know. Listen as we analyze a letter from a woman who needs help determining if the man she's dating is a walk red flag.
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22 min
September 07, 2024 The Worst Exes Ever
Speaking of the worst ex ever...
If you listened to the show a few weeks ago, you remember the vile message a listener received from a man she rejected. She sent us the complete message string. We provide a dramatic reading of this rage machine's responses and analyze how he manipulates and insults her under the guise of wanting to reconnect.

This guy is so despicable that I googled his social media. When I tell you that "mid" would be a compliment, I'm not exaggerating.

We also discuss Netflix's new series, "Worst Ex Ever." This week, we cover one of the four terrifying episodes and will review the other three in a bonus episode to be posted at the end of next week.

Note: After the recording of this episode, Leila's dementia took a terrible turn, and her owners decided to put her down. She crossed The Rainbow Bridge on Wednesday morning.
Submit your dating questions here, or you can leave us a voice message by calling ‪(929) 266-6123‬. Please note: your message WILL NOT be played on the podcast. We will read the transcript of your call.
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55 min
August 30, 2024Indecent Proposals & Dead-End Situationships
In this episode:
A man unleashes his rage on a woman for rejecting his sleazy sexual proposition.

A woman endures a length long-distance situationship only to be dropped like a bad habit for being honest.
In previous episodes, I've discussed my fascination with analyzing writing. Those who've been around for a while know I was involved with exposing a man whose marketing agency fabricated dozens of fake female personas. Many of these phantom authors went viral for their manufactured personal memoir pieces.
I want to create a segment for the show where Sarah and I analyze messages, posts, and profiles to help listeners learn to spot signs of catfishing and deception and avoid potentially dangerous situations/people.
I'm looking for anything—social media/dating app profiles, messages, social media posts, voice notes—that we can analyze on the show. Nothing submitted will be posted without permission. Please send them to [email protected] and put "forensics" in the subject line.
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34 min
August 14, 2024True crime predators, break-up coaches & toxic besties
Topics discussed in the episode:
Why men who insert themselves in women's spaces are often predators.

Is it worthwhile to try to reconcile with an Ex?

When the Female Best Friend is a red flag.

The perfect first date question to ask to avoid getting into a situationship.
Delete your account, Sir.
A man on TikTok had a disturbing reaction to a recent video of mine where I expressed that men in women's spaces are usually predatory and exploit women's trauma.
They're an Ex for a reason (14:00)
How-to-get-your-ex-back coaches are a booming niche in the coaching industry. Is this kind of support more hurtful than helpful?
Girl, get those deposits back! (24:26)
A woman finds out her fiancee's female friend has been trying to sabotage their wedding.
The one question you must ask on a first date (35:34)
Are you sick of falling into situationships? We've created must-ask questions that will let you know if your date is a time-waster.
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46 min
July 27, 2024Fck That Guy: Gaslighting Boyfriend Edition
Topics discussed:
The patterns that motivate someone to pursue a married man or woman.

How FOMO convinces average-looking people they're more desirable than they are.

Gaslighting tactics used by toxic men.

Co-dependent friend groups like How I Met Your Mother & Friends and why they can cause trouble for your relationship.

From the "This Fucking Guy" file: ⁠Her husband wants a divorce because another woman flirted with him (12:05)⁠

⁠Gaslighting 101 - He gave his woman bestie lingerie (31:15)⁠

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46 min
July 17, 2024 Why Men Can No Longer Find "Real Women"
In this week's episode:
Ex drama continued (3:47)
When will men learn they can no longer threaten women with their absence?
She wants more than a hook-up (27:52)
A listener asks why men ignore certain boundaries, like when women say they aren't looking for a casual relationship.

The ridiculous discourse around "mixed weight" couples (33:54) Where have all the Real Women gone? (43:49)
A recent article criticized Bridgerton's choice to pair stunner Nicola Houghlan with a conventionally attractive man. In response, the internet did its thing and proved "mixed weight" couples have been a thing since the invention of television. (Looking at you, Fred and Wilma Flintstone.) Apparently, it's only an issue when it's the woman who is the heavier partner in the relationship.

Where have all the Real Women gone? (43:49)
They're probably hiding where this guy stashed his personality.

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57 min
July 02, 2024Internet Boyfriends, Exposing Cheaters & Roommate Red Flag
Things we learn in this episode:
Patrick Swayze was the first internet boyfriend.

When men go low, Sarah goes lower.

Calling yourself a "girl's girl" doesn't absolve you of shitty behavior.

Straight men hate drama except when it benefits them
Follow Up - Fuck That Guy
It's been almost two weeks since I told my Ex I missed him and still haven't received a response. I'm officially angry. Fuck that guy for making me cry.
What do we mean when we say a man is "non-threatening?" (13:03)
We received a thoughtful and insightful letter from a listener regarding our old friend Alpha Dom Dating Coach. It inspired a discussion about which celebrities embody the term and why.
Exposing a cheater (30:19)
A viral Tiktok outing a cheater shines a light on the selfish motivation behind publicly exposing a woman's sleazy boyfriend/husband via social media.
He won't introduce her to his female roommate (40:38)
Red flag alert!

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46 min
June 22, 2024 Bridgerton Bodies, Sex Maids & Clown Ex Boyfriends
Enjoy a teaser of this week's full-length podcast. To listen to the full episode, click here:
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In This Episode:
Be a Clown (00:27)
It's been an agonizing three days since I confessed to my Ex that I miss him. The lack of response is making me question my decision and feel utterly foolish.
Writer Thinks Her Opinion Of Women's Bodies Matters (15:20)
Op-Ed author Zoe Strimpel felt compelled ⁠to word-vomit a piece⁠ about how Bridgerton's Nicola Coughlan isn't hot enough to attract a conventionally attractive man.
Man-Child Expects His Girlfriend To Play Housekeeper and Sex Maid (28:28)
A woman wrote to columnist Carolyn Hax complaining about her spoiled boyfriend. Is he looking for a partner or a Mommy/Nanny/Sex Worker?
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16 min

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Just a girl with ADHD wired for pattern recognition. Episodes take a behavior-first look at people, crime, and internet culture. 🎙️Character Analysis.