Navigating the dating world in midlife can be scary. It can be filled with uncertainty, doubt, and baggage. It doesn’t matter if you have had a recent breakup, divorce, or loss of a partner, starting over can be a huge hurdle, especially if it's been some time since you last dated, but don’t worry. I’m here to support you on your journey!

Having found love in my mid-50s after a 26-year marriage, I assure you that it's entirely possible to find someone who will love you the way YOU deserve to be loved, no matter your age! I'm living proof! 

This episode's topics include:

• My scary first date
• Why you need to start with shifting your dating beliefs
• The importance of healing your past
• Learning to trust the process 
• Other top tips for dating in midlife and beyond
• How to use dating as an opportunity to continue to learn and grow about yourself
• Why it is important to become the best version of yourself while you are waiting for the partner you desire to show up

Plus, I'll be reading a powerful poem titled The Invitation by Oriah which will leave you inspired to seek more love, freedom, and joy in your life. Because YOU deserve what you desire.

If you’re ready to dip your toe into the dating pool, then this episode is for you!

Cheers to allowing more love in!

Laurie

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Have you ever thought about the impact divorce has on your health? It's a topic that’s often overlooked, but today we're in for a treat. We're joined by Susan Guthrie, a nationally recognized top family law attorney, mediator, and one of the founders of Mosten Guthrie Academy.

She hosts two award-winning podcasts: 'The Divorce and Beyond Podcast' and 'Make Money Mediating Podcast'. Both rank within the top 1.5% of podcasts worldwide! That’s why I can’t wait to have her as a guest!

In today’s episode, we’ll talk about:

• The impact of divorce on your health and the need for support during the process
• The significance of seeking help during divorce and why women don't ask.
• The importance  of communication in any relationship
• The impact of divorce on adult children
• How to look at divorce as an opportunity for growth
• And the importance of self-care

This is a topic that isn’t talked about enough, which is why I’m sharing it with you today! And Susan is the best person to break it all down for us. So, if you're going through a divorce or know someone who is, this episode is a must-listen.

Pop in those earbuds hit the play button, and get ready to change your perspective on divorce.

Cheers to finding more freedom during and after divorce!

Laurie

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About Susan:
Susan Guthrie is a leading family law attorney and mediator for over 32 years. She’s also one of the founders of the Mosten Guthrie Academy, the premier provider of family law, collaborative, and mediation training for professionals. Her award-winning podcasts, The Divorce & Beyond, and The Make Money Mediated Podcast are two of the top 1.5% of podcasts worldwide.

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This is a bonus visualization meditation to accompany the attachment theory and the attachment style I discussed in episode 109.

Cheers to more love!

Laurie

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Have you ever felt like you struggle in certain relationships more than others? Maybe you've been searching for answers, trying to figure out why other people seem to have it figured out, better than you.  

In this week's episode, you are going to learn about the 4 attachment styles and how they could be keeping you from letting more love in. I’ll also give you insights into attachment theory and provide you with practical advice that you can start implementing right away. 

In today’s conversation I’ll discuss:

• How I discovered my attachment style and the impact it’s had on my relationships and life
• The history of attachment theory and the four attachment styles
• My personal journey toward becoming more secure within
• How I saw my past relationships through a new lens
• How I dated differently knowing the four attachment styles 
• Challenges in relationships due to gender differences in attachment styles 
• Strategies to start developing a more secure and joyful life

More importantly, once you understand the attachment styles of others, you will take things less personally and be able to create healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

I added a bonus visualization that will help remind you what a secure attachment feels like so you can start rewiring your brain today! So listen after you finish this episode.

I added a bonus visualization that will help remind you what a secure attachment style feels like so you can start rewiring your brain.
 so can start feeling more secure today! So take a listen after you finish this episode.

Cheers to more love!

Laurie

This episode's information is based on the book Attached by Amir Levine M.D. and Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A. and an attached course I took. 

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Ever found yourself wondering what the real difference between coaching and therapy is? You're not alone, I didn’t know how a coach could help until I looked into becoming one. And I certainly didn’t know the difference between the two. In this episode, I bring clarity to this very topic. 

This week's episode I discuss the power that coaching and therapy can have in our lives. 

I’ll cover:

• The difference between a coach and a therapist
• What a coach can and can’t do
• How a therapist and a coach can help you. They are different, yet in some ways similar.
• What makes a good coach and a good therapist
• Different therapy terminologies such as bioenergetics analysis and somatic experiencing  

The world of coaching and therapy, though distinct, both aim to empower our personal growth. By understanding their unique roles, we can make informed decisions on which path suits our individual needs best. 

So, whether you're seeking guidance, curious about therapeutic approaches, or just on a journey of self-discovery, this episode promises a wealth of knowledge. 

Tune in as I identify and celebrate the differences between coaching and therapy, and their unparalleled contributions to the human psyche and soul.

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Have you ever pondered the societal pressures placed on women to have children?

It's time to break the silence and reflect on the expectations society places on women's reproductive choices. In my conversation with guest Leslie Rasmussen, we talk about women's reproductive rights, midlife empowerment, the courage to pursue our true passions and her latest book, The Stories We Cannot Tell, which is a MUST READ!

We dive deep into:

• The stigma and shame surrounding women’s fertility and reproductive issues
• Highlight the societal pressure women face to have children and the unfair blame placed on them for fertility challenges
• The reproductive rights and access to healthcare in different states
• My experience and challenges when I was pregnant with identical twins
• Leslie’s admiration for her mother’s resilience in caring for her husband despite challenges

And wait until the end to listen to Leslie’s confession about imposter syndrome and what she did or didn’t do that helped her overcome it!

So tune in to this episode and start making the most of your second or third act.

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Have you ever found yourself sandwiched between raising your children while juggling the responsibilities of caring for your aging parents? 

It can be overwhelming, emotionally draining, and physically taxing. I know firsthand because I cared for my aging parents for over 14 years. In this podcast, I open up about my personal journey as a member of the sandwich generation and share proactive things you can do to ease some of the financial and emotional pressure.

In this episode:

• I share with you the initial feelings of overwhelm and the weight of responsibility that comes with caring for my elderly parents and children simultaneously. 
• I delve into the financial realities of being part of the sandwich generation.
• I share practical tips that I’ve
•  learned from being part of the sandwich generation, including:
  • The importance of honest communication
  • Insights into long-term care insurance
  • How to ask for support from others
  • Where to find community resources
  • Review your parents' expenses
  • How to check eligibility for government services.

Being in the sandwich generation can be challenging and not everything needs to be addressed at the same time. But when you stay proactive and take on bite-sized chunks, it makes balancing raising kids' while caring for my aging parents just a little bit easier.

So if you need support managing the sandwich generation, hit the play button, and let’s dive in so you can find a little more freedom in your life!

Resources from this podcast:
- U.S. Dept of Health Services
- Looking to hire a caregiver? Consider https://www.care.com/
- Eldercare Directory
- Legal Zoom
- Nolo Willmaker

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Have you ever wondered what therapy is really like? Or maybe you've heard some misconceptions about it that have made you hesitant to try it.

Well, get ready because in this week's episode, I sit down with the incredible licensed marriage and family therapist and dear friend, Tina Hartney and we dig into these topics and more.

Tina and I are going to:

• Share our personal experiences with therapy and debunk those common misconceptions that might be holding you back.
• Discuss different therapeutic modalities like emotional-focused therapy and EMDR.
• Talk about why it's so important to incorporate somatic and experiential therapy alongside talk therapy or when talk therapy no longer works.
• Discuss the difference between individual and couple therapy and how it can impact the relationship and each individual.
• Why we should take the shame out of going to therapy.

And wait until the end when Tina shares a very personal confession about the power of reclaiming her own vulnerability. 

So hit the play button and join me for an empowering conversation that will deepen your understanding of therapy and open your mind to new possibilities.  

 It’s a journey worth taking so you can find more freedom within.

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About Tina:

Tina Hartney is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.  She works with adults and specializes in couples therapy and trauma.  Tina’s advanced training includes Bioenergetics Analysis which combines somatic and relational work, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gestalt, and EMDR.  Tina’s office is in Hermosa Beach, California and she offers in-person and virtual therapy.  

She holds a Bachelor's Degree in Political Science/International Relations from the University of California, Los Angeles, and a Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University Los Angeles.

Additional Training:

• Couples - Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
• Gestalt Experiential Therapy
• Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (

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Have you ever found yourself uttering the words 'I'm sorry' more than necessary?

In this podcast episode, Laurie makes a confession about being a recovering over-apologizer. She also delves into the habit of over-apologizing which many women, including herself, often fall victim to.

She share's how this trend can be traced back generations,  is also linked to societal conditioning, and how it came to my realization in a therapy session.

Laurie offers solutions to those who over-apologize so you can break free from overusing the words, 'I'm sorry' through awareness, using alternative phrases, and practice which can lead to more assertive and confident communication styles.

She also introduces a Gmail plug-in or extension called 'Just Not Sorry', that helps detect undermining language in your emails.  Click here to check it out.

Pop those earbuds in and listen up so you can stop being an over-apologizer and start developing a more confident communication style within your personal relationships and at work.

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Have you ever wondered how intuition and spirituality can help you create a more joyful, purpose-driven life?

If so, join Laurie this week as she chats with Julie Riesler, a master life and wellness coach, interior designer for the soul, and founder of the Life Designer Coach Academy.

In this episode, we discuss:

• How Julie's inspiring journey from a 9 to 5 job as a single mom to becoming a mentor to hundreds of coaches, changemakers, and entrepreneurs was driven by her intuition and spiritual practice.
• Why it's important to start listening to the little whispers and nudges your intuition is giving you before they become metaphorical 2x4s that hit you upside the head.
•  How using the power of spirituality and intuition can help you embrace your highest essence and the importance of self-love.
• Discover how a shift in perspective can lead to a miracle, enabling you to reclaim your identity and open up to new possibilities.
• Learn the 4 different ways you can connect to your intuition. And take the assessment on Julie's website: https://juliereisler.com
• Lastly, learn how to recognize if it's fear speaking to you or your intuition. 

And don't forget to listen to Julie's confession at the end!! It's a good one for anyone who has or is struggling with their relationship with food!!

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About Julie Reisler:

Julie Reisler, a board-certified master life & wellness coach, is an interior designer for your soul. She's a mentor to hundreds of coaches, change-makers, and soulful entrepreneurs. Julie is the host of The You-est You® podcast, a global show in over 175 countries, and the author of Get a PhD in YOU, an Amazon top-pick. Julie has been featured in Forbes, MindBodyGreen, The Chopra Center, Bustle, and Thrive Global for her work as a coach, teacher, and conscious business leader. Julie is a multi-time TEDx speaker and has spoken on stages throughout North America. She is also a popular course creator on Insight Timer, the number-one ranked mindfulness app.

Julie holds a master's degree in Health & Wellness Coach

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