Courage and Spice for Coaches: build your Self-belief and Business in under 30mins a week

The first in a new series on the podcast – Listener Letters. If you have a dilemma, challenge or a self-doubty situation that is troubling you I want to help. Write to me and I will create a podcast episode especially for you. I am hoping that this will not only help you the letter writer, but also everyone who is also in a similar situation. So let me help! 

Our first letter is from Diedre in Ireland who after years of achieving is not working and this has led to a sense of paralysis and some shame. She doesn’t know what to do next and doesn’t want to make the wrong choice. Like so many of us that go through an unmooring and uncertain change, Dierdre is asking ‘what do I do now?!’ 

In this episode we explore what happens when we go through a big transition – what to expect and how to support yourself at the four different stages. 

References:

If you have a self-doubty challenge or dilemma or a question you’d like me to weigh in on, please do email all the things to [email protected].

Martha Beck’s Cycle of Change from Steering By Starlight

Self-belief Coach Match – a matchmaking service to find an experienced and qualified practitioner that I have personally trained. 

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Tamu’s work combines somatics, social work and spirituality with science and soulful systems. She is person-centred, evidence-based, trauma-informed, human-paced, nurturing, intuitive, loving and playful. Her holistic approach to supporting the bodies of her clients makes Tamu’s work rich and deep and unique – just like her.

We explore how can do our inside work – to take care of our multitudes, our developmental edges, how we have more joy, more meaning, more orgasms.

This is such a joyous fizzy conversation about our humanness!

Links:

• Tamu on Instagram @livethreesixty
• Tamu's website

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Success is one of the core risks that self-doubt holds us back from. 

It’s a sneaky risk because so much of our culture assumes that we are just supposed to want success!

In this episode, we explore how the risk of success shows up and how to recognise that this might be something you protect yourself from. 

I’m also sharing three really practical steps you can take today, to feel less discomfort and to change your relationship with success.

Creating success on our terms provides us with amazing opportunities to create work that reflects our values, that allows us to experience pride and joy, help us to grow and our self-concept to expand. 

If your relationship with success could do with some love - this episode is especially for you.

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If you notice that you really need external validation to make decisions, to feel like what you have done matters, this episode will help.

First – nothing has gone wrong! Seeking approval and affirmation and recognition is an entirely human tendency and it helps us feel connected to other people. This only becomes problematic when we feel dependent on the blessing of other people to do anything.

In this episode I share why some of us have a hunger for validation from other people, what we are really doing when we seek external validation, plus: three really simple practices to help you begin to validate yourself that will dramatically grow your self-trust.

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Claire Mahon is a global human rights lawyer who has worked as an advisor to world leaders, Presidents and heads of global agencies, and has run a global consulting practice for over 20 years. 

In late 2018 she gave up her business, her life in Switzerland and her salary to move back to her hometown of Rotorua, New Zealand, to stand as a member of parliament in the 2020 election campaign for Jacinda Ardern’s Labour Party. She went ALL in and the results were never guaranteed…

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In today’s episode Sas talks about mindset work – what it is, exactly how she uses it with clients, and how you can use it to support yourself.

Sas also addresses the ways in which mindset work has misunderstood or used in unhelpful, and potentially damaging ways.

If you are interested in learning how to think in ways that support you and help to minimise your self-doubt, this episode is for you!

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This episode is for anyone who knows they have some untapped potential inside them but maybe you don’t know what to do or your self-doubt is getting in the way. 

In this episode Sas talks about the aspects of self-belief that helped her grow her business by 300% in 12 months! There are three practical, actionable steps you can take to start to bring your potential into the world.

Links:

The Self-belief Coaching Academy.

My podcast interview with Ellie Swift: Swift Online.

The Bold Type.

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It was such a treat to interview family psychologist Julia Goodall and money coach + mentor Ray Dodd - two members of the Self-belief Coaching Academy. 

Julia and Ray talk about what it has been like to become learners, the process of practice coaching and what has changed for them and their work as a result of becoming Self-belief Coaches.

Both of these women have come to Self-belief Coach training from wildly different backgrounds, settings for their coaching work and life experiences. If you are thinking about SBCA, this is a must-listen!

Links:

• The Self-belief Coaching Academy 
• Ray Dodd
• Julia Goodall
• Lisa Mabberley (the third and deeply valued member of the ‘Practice Pod’, Lisa was unable to attend).

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What makes coaching really good? How do coaches create the conditions for the client to get what they came for? Why is coaching so hard?! 

In this episode Sas shares her thoughts on what coaching mastery is, and the three elements that add rich substance to the coaching experience. 

This episode is going to be particularly helpful for coaches listening in, and if you are thinking of working with a coach, this will help you know what to look for.

ALSO:
The Spring 2021 class of The Self-belief Coaching Academy is open for enrollment. This 20-week programme is evidence-based, trauma-informed and specifically designed to equip you with proven tools to support your clients with self-doubt. 

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Especially for all you coaches listening in – this episode is all about Coaching Supervision. 

Kristina Sheppard joins Sas to talk about supervision for coaches: what it is, how it helps us develop mastery, deepen our presence and become more aligned to the coaching work we love. 

Links:

• Kristina on Instagram @becometheauthorofyourlife
• Kristina’s Super-Vision Academy

The Spring 2021 class of The Self-belief Coaching Academy is open for enrollment. This 20-week programme is evidence-based, trauma-informed and specifically designed to equip you with proven tools to support your clients with self-doubt. 

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit saspetherick.substack.com

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