Create Love Create Freedom

In this episode, we dig deeper into attachment styles by looking at how we develop secure attachment or insecure attachment (anxious, avoidant, and disorganized) in childhood. We also discuss ways to heal our insecure attachment styles and move towards secure attachment for ourselves and our children. 

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

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• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

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Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.

In this episode we talk about what to expect and how to go low-contact or no-contact with a narcissistic parent or a parent with borderline personality disorder. 

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

Explore Create Love Freedom

• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

Explore The Sovereign Ledger

Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.

In this episode, we discuss the seven feminine archetypes - the lover, the mother, the maiden, the queen, the huntress, the sage and the mystic. We discuss how understanding your archetypes can improve your relationships, life and career. 

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

Explore Create Love Freedom

• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

Explore The Sovereign Ledger

Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.

In this episode, we’re diving into how unhealed trauma shows up in our relationships.

The truth is trauma doesn’t just stay in the past. Even when we don’t realize it, it can affect the way we communicate, the way we trust, and the way we connect with our partners. It might look like shutting down during conflict, being overly anxious about closeness, or repeating patterns that leave us feeling stuck.

In this conversation, we’ll explore what unhealed trauma can look like in day-to-day relationships, why it creates certain patterns, and what it means to begin the work of healing—so you can move toward healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

Explore Create Love Freedom

• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

Explore The Sovereign Ledger

Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.

In this episode we discuss toxic attachment to abusive, avoidant, or unavailable partners and why you keep going back. We discuss how to stop chasing in relationships and how to heal from toxic attachment. 

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

Explore Create Love Freedom

• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

Explore The Sovereign Ledger

Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.

In this episode, we discuss daughters who were parentified as children, causing wounds and trauma that follow them into adulthood as women. We discuss finding freedom from parentification through learning how to mother yourself. 

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

Explore Create Love Freedom

• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

Explore The Sovereign Ledger

Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.

In this episode, we look at the signs of being raised by a narcissistic parent and how this affects our intimate relationships and our lives as adults. 

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

Explore Create Love Freedom

• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

Explore The Sovereign Ledger

Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.

In this episode we discuss the four archetypes of the feminine cycle - the maiden, the mother, the wild woman and the wise woman. We discuss each cycle and how to use each of the cycles and how to work with them in your life. 

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

Explore Create Love Freedom

• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

Explore The Sovereign Ledger

Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.

In this episode we discuss Avoidant Attachment, how avoidant attachment occurs in childhood, the limiting beliefs that lead to sabotaging intimate relationships, and how the sabotage can present itself to the avoidant's partner. 

Avoidantly attached individuals sabotage their relationships not out of malice—but out of fear. Their core wound is the fear of engulfment, loss of autonomy, and the vulnerability required for true intimacy. Deep down, avoidants want love and connection, but they’ve learned that closeness is unsafe, overwhelming, or threatening to their independence. So, they protect themselves by pushing others away—often without realizing it. 

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

Explore Create Love Freedom

• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

Explore The Sovereign Ledger

Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.

In archetypal psychology, the dark feminine is the gatekeeper between worlds—the only part of the psyche that can descend into the unconscious, retrieve lost fragments, and return intact. Without her, a woman’s spirituality becomes all “heaven” with no root in the earth, and her sensuality becomes performative instead of lived.

The dark feminine is not the opposite of the light feminine. She is the root system, the mycelium web beneath the soil, feeding and protecting the flowering above.

Where the light feminine opens her arms, the dark feminine decides who is allowed to step inside. Where the light heals through gentleness, the dark heals through rupture and the death of the old.

In this episode, we discuss the dark feminine energy, why the dark feminine is important in order to be able to access your entire self (dark and light aspects), and ways to access your dark feminine energy. 

Create Love Create Freedom explores psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life through the lens of the cyclical feminine journey.

Created by Allison Fischer, CLF is a growing body of podcasts, essays, and original works examining the stories, patterns, ideas, and inherited assumptions that shape how we understand ourselves and the lives we create.

Explore Create Love Freedom

• Website — Explore the complete body of work 
• The Journal — Essays on psychology, mythology, identity, sovereignty, and the interior life 
• The Library — Original studies and deeper explorations from Create Love Freedom 
• Pinterest — Discover essays, episodes, and ideas from the CLF archive 

The Sovereign Ledger

Allison is also the founder of The Sovereign Ledger, an advisory practice for founder-led companies focused on financial clarity, organizational judgment, and institutional stewardship.

Explore The Sovereign Ledger

Stay rooted, stay sovereign, and trust your own becoming.