Divorced Christian Woman

Creating New Friendships as a Divorced Christian Woman


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So, you got divorced and your social life went up in flames. Welcome to the club, friend. Pull up a chair.

In this season finale, I sit down with my friend Diana Swillinger (host of The Renew Your Mind Podcast) to talk about something every divorced woman eventually faces: the weird, wonderful, terrifying world of making new friends when you're a whole new person.

We talk about the great scattering (as Mel Robbins calls it), how to let go of draining friendships without guilt, and why being rejected might not actually kill you. If you're feeling lonely, wondering where your people went, or ready to rebuild your community from scratch with people who actually see you, this episode is the warm hug and gentle shove you need.

And don't worry, introverts, we’ve got you too. You can still want deep connection without having to attend a single church potluck ever again. Promise.

Key Takeaways:

  • Friendships change after divorce, and that’s normal.
  • You’re allowed to let go of draining people. Seriously, permission granted.
  • Great friendships need three things: proximity, timing, and energy.
  • Let them be who they are, and let yourself be you.
  • You don’t need a huge friend group, just real ones.
  • Rejection happens, and you’ll survive it. Promise.
  • Be open, take small risks, and make the first move sometimes.

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Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question here

Related Resources:

  • Flying Higher (https://joinflyinghigher.com) is my live mentorship program for Christian women pursuing increased confidence, emotional management, relational health and empowered self-development. 
  • Check out Diana’s website and explore some resources, listen to her podcast, The Renew Your Mind Podcast, and finally, connect with her on Facebook and Instagram.


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