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I've been dating two incredible men for months.

They're consistent, thoughtful, supportive, and make my life better in tangible ways—yet I've decided not to go exclusive with either of them, even though I originally planned to choose by May.

It's not that these men aren't good enough—they're wonderful—but I've realized that just because something is good doesn't mean it's right for where I'm going. 

In this episode, I walk you through what it looks like to make a decision based not on pressure, timelines, or what others think you should do, but on what's actually aligned with the woman you're becoming.

Interested in working with me 1:1? If you're ready to date from clarity instead of scarcity and choose alignment over anxiety, book a sales call HERE to speak with me about coaching.

If you're ready to stop settling for "good enough" relationships and create the kind of love that fully honors who you're becoming, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. 

 Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

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Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

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That fear of doing all the work, showing up differently in dating, and still not getting chosen is keeping many women stuck in dating limbo…afraid to fully commit to finding love.

If you've been consuming dating advice without applying it, deleting apps after two days, or hiding behind stories of being "too busy" or "not ready yet," you're not protecting yourself…you're guaranteeing nothing changes. 

In this episode, I break down why this fear exists, what it's actually costing you, and how to start collecting evidence that love is possible for you exactly as you are right now.

I'll share actionable steps to move past this fear and build momentum in your love life, whether or not you ever work with me.

If you're ready to stop dating like you're trying not to get hurt and start showing up fully for love, book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me. 

 Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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I attended a business conference this weekend where one of my long-time business heroes was speaking—someone whose career I've admired for years.

While everyone else focused on her business strategies, I was captivated by her personal transformation. After her divorce, she took an approach to dating that completely contradicted what most women do. In this episode, I'll share the surprising conversation we had about how she intentionally created space for new love while still building her empire.

I'll reveal her practical, actionable strategy that flies in the face of conventional "take time to heal" advice most divorced women hear.

If you're ready to learn what devotion to your love life really looks like and start attracting quality men now, book a sales call HERE to speak with me about 1:1 coaching.

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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We celebrate women for investing in weddings, houses, businesses, therapy, and fitness coaches…but the minute a woman invests in love on the front end? She's called desperate. This viral story of a woman who paid $10K for a dating coach and got engaged a year later has sparked fierce debate, but the backlash reveals more about us than her.

In this episode, I explain what's really happening beneath the surface—how we shame women who want love out loud, why dating in 2024 requires different skills than our grandmothers needed, and why that "ache" for partnership isn't something to fix or hide. 

I'll also share how to honor your desire for love without apology, so you can stop distracting yourself from what you truly want and start creating the relationship you deserve.

If you're ready to learn what devotion to your love life really looks like and start attracting quality men now, book a sales call HERE to speak with me about 1:1 coaching.

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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The Good Girl Voice is the tone and energy we use when trying to avoid rejection, keep the peace, or be seen as nice.

 You think you're being soft and polite, but you're actually being unclear, unmemorable, and unavailable. 

In this episode, I'll show you exactly what this voice sounds like in different dating scenarios and how it blocks real intimacy by keeping you from expressing how you truly feel.

I'll share one powerful question to ask yourself before responding to a man that will transform how you communicate and help you have conversations that actually lead to commitment.

If you're ready to stop watering yourself down in conversations and start having conversations that inspire commitment

Ready to stop watering yourself down in conversations and start having conversations that inspire commitment?

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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Ever had a promising conversation with a guy that just... fizzled? You're left overthinking your messages, or worse—realizing you've been carrying the entire conversation yourself.

If you're tired of matches that ghost, conversations that feel like interviews, or connections that die before they begin—this episode is your wake-up call. I'm breaking down three conversation mistakes quietly sabotaging your dating life, the same patterns that leave high-achieving women stuck in the friend zone or hearing "I'm not looking for anything serious" on repeat.

I'll show you what I do differently to create conversations that make men think about you long after you’ve stopped talking—practical approaches that transform lukewarm connections into genuine pursuit and interest.

Ready to stop wondering why your conversations aren't converting to real connections? Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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If flirting feels uncomfortable, confusing, or like something other women are just better at—it’s probably because you’ve been taught to either play it cool or over-perform to get a man’s attention.

In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to flirt in a way that’s honest, direct, and clear—without feeling fake or doing the most. You’ll learn the Confident Flirting Formula I teach my private clients, and why your friendly energy isn’t creating the romantic momentum you want. I’ll walk you through what to say, how to say it, and how to stop censoring yourself when you feel interest.

You’ll learn how to express attraction in real life and over text—so men actually feel it, respond to it, and follow up after the date.

If you’re ready to stop being scared of saying the wrong thing—and start getting the attention, dates, and consistency you actually want, book a sales call HERE to speak with me about 1:1 coaching.

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests here

In this special bonus episode, I break down how the quality of your conversations with men determines your dating outcomes. Learn how to transform boring, go-nowhere exchanges into meaningful connections that inspire pursuit and commitment through my proven B.O.M.B framework.

Workshop Details:

• What: Conversations That Inspire Commitment - 2-Day Virtual Workshop
• When: April 19-20, 2025 at 10am CST
• Investment: $220 (Use code CONVOQUEEN for $50 off - first 20 women only!)
• Includes: Full workshop access, replay access, bonus materials (convers ation guides, text examples, power questions)

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests here

Ashlee is three months into our coaching together—and her love life looks completely different.

When we started, she had just left a nine-month relationship where she was building up a man who couldn’t meet her needs. She believed quality men didn’t exist in her city, and she wasn’t sure she was “enough” for the men she actually wanted. Now? She’s dating multiple high-quality men for the first time ever, her confidence is growing, and she’s actually enjoying the dating process.

In this episode, you’ll hear how she overcame spirals, shifted her patterns, and stopped trying to prove her worth to men who weren’t a match. We talk about dating with fibroids, being an introvert learning to be seen, and what it takes to build a roster of men who show up for you without the anxiety.

You’ll also hear the exact moment she realized she could ask for what she wanted—from dinner and bowling to emotional support—and actually receive it.

Work with me to stop dating like a “good girl” and start curating a love life where you get to choose.

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests here

You’ve followed the advice, applied the strategies, and done everything you’re “supposed” to do in dating—but the results still aren’t there. You’re meeting men, going on dates, and putting yourself out there, yet nothing is moving forward the way you expected. It’s frustrating, and at this point, you might be wondering if something is missing.

In this episode, I break down why doing all the right things isn’t enough and why the key to attracting the love you want isn’t about effort—it’s about identity. If you feel stuck despite doing everything right, this episode will show you exactly why and what to do instead.

Work with me to shift into your Lovergirl Identity so you can attract high-quality men effortlessly—without relying on more dating strategies that don’t work.

Book a sales call to learn more about private 1:1 coaching with me.  Book a sales call HERE to speak with me. 

OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES:

Learn how to use your words to attract better men & create better dating experiences - The Conversations that Inspire Commitment Live Virtual Workshop

Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard 

Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed