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“When is it going to be my turn?”

“When am I finally going to meet my husband?”

“Why can’t I be married already?”

These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone. 

They think…

“Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..”

“...It’s going to stop my disappointment, my loneliness, my exhaustion, my negative thoughts”

“...And it’s going to make me feel more confident, secure, stable and loved. 

Little do they know that a man can’t do any of this for them.

This is their responsibility. 

In today’s episode, I highlight how so many women give their power to create the love lives they desire over to men and how they can take their power back. 

HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER: 

• How our core beliefs trick us into believing that we need men to feel better. 

• The importance of accepting where you are now in order to receive the relationship you desire. 

• How focusing on men is distracting you from having the man you desire. 

• Why you need to slow down, if you want to speed up towards your desired love life. 

• What it looks like to take responsibility for your journey towards marriage so you can create the love life you desire. 

• Why your relationship will fall apart, even if you find the man of your dreams. 

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• Episode #19 - Dating as a Single Mother with Christina David

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If you freeze up or get triggered when men ask you questions like “Why are Single” or “WYD?”, this episode breaks down the real reason this happens and how to flip the script completely. 

I'm sharing what's actually going on when men ask these questions, the mindset shift that changes everything about how you respond, and why your current approach is telling men they can get away with low effort. 

You'll learn how to stop getting caught off guard and start turning these moments into opportunities.

I'll show you how to go from defensive and flustered to calm and confident when men try to test you.

The doors are open to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

ENROLL HERE BEFORE SEPT 28TH

Inside C2C, I help you build a rotation of 2-3 commitment ready men in 90 days…who will pursue you for marriage.

The program includes 12 months of access to curriculum, weekly coaching calls, weekly workshops, daily dating support, on-demand conversation and profile reviews, and more.

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The investment is $3,000 one time or 6 payments of $550. Get your coins ready because we’ve got work to do.

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Here’s the audio replay of my most recent live training: 

Build Your Rotation: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

This training also opens the  doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed where you learn the complete blueprint for going from no dates to dating a 3 commitment ready men in 90 days. 

Check it out and enroll HERE

Want to watch the video version of this training? Go HERE to watch. 

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@torahcents 

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I hired a dating coach even though I literally AM a dating coach, and people are confused as hell about why I'd do that.

If you're embarrassed about needing help with dating, this episode breaks down why investing in dating support- especially when you think you don't need to - separates extraordinary results from just good enough. 

I'm sharing the conversation that made me realize I was "undercoached," why I invested $24,000 to level up my skills, and how focusing on becoming the woman who naturally attracts what she wants changes everything. You'll learn why being ashamed of wanting support keeps you stuck with the same disappointing patterns.

I'll show you how to stop settling for good enough and start believing extraordinary love is actually possible for you.

If you're a woman who is ready to stop being embarrassed about needing help and start getting the dating results you actually want?….

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. 

Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025

REGISTER HERE

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

 After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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If you keep saying you want a successful, high-earning man but somehow never meet any, this episode breaks down the strategic mistake that's keeping you stuck in the same disappointing cycle. 

I'm sharing why it's not about your standards being too high or you not being good enough, plus the one shift that changes everything about the type of men who start showing up in your life. 

You'll learn how to stop hoping for different results while doing the same things and start being strategic about creating real opportunities.

I'll show you how to redirect the time, money, and energy you're already spending into environments where meeting your type is actually possible.

If you're a woman who is ready to stop living in your comfort zone and start showing up where quality men actually are….

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. 

Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025

REGISTER HERE

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

 After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Send episode requests here

If you're constantly saying yes when you mean no, accepting last-minute cancellations with a smile, or pretending his low-effort bullshit is perfectly fine - you're abandoning yourself and wondering why dating feels exhausting.

In this episode, I'm breaking down what self-abandonment actually looks like in dating, why your "good girl" programming keeps you stuck with men who don't value you, and my S.T.A.N.D. framework that stops you from betraying yourself in real time. 

You'll learn how standing up for yourself doesn't scare away good men - it actually makes you magnetic to the ones who want to invest in you properly.

I'll show you how to stop performing for approval and start advocating for yourself so you can finally attract men who pursue you the way you've always wanted to be pursued.

If you're a woman who is ready to stop accepting crumbs and start requiring men's best effort….

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. 

Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025

REGISTER HERE

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

 After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

Send episode requests here

Broke men don't just stumble into your life by accident - they show up because they can sense which women will tolerate their inability to provide.

If you keep attracting men who either expect you to fund the relationship or can't afford to match your lifestyle, this episode breaks down why this pattern keeps happening and how to flip the script completely. 

I'm sharing the real reason your success mindset is working against you in dating and my five Provider Proof tests that separate men who want to provide from men who want you to be their personal ATM.

You'll learn how to stop being the woman who fixes and start being the woman who receives.

If you're a woman who is ready to stop funding grown men and start dating men who actually invest in you….

It starts with my free training: Attract 3 Commitment Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days. 

Happening On: Sunday, September 14th, 2025

REGISTER HERE

Once you register, you will receive a confirmation email with the link to the free training.

What you'll learn:

🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 

🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city.

🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in conversation—without doing “the most” or feeling like a “pick-me”

🔥 Why being “a good woman” isn’t enough—and the mindset shift that makes men compete to commit to you.

 After the training,  we will open the doors to my signature program, Curved 2 Cuffed.

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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My ex came back (Latin Papi)

In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I'm handling this situation, including my five-step repair plan that lets me enjoy what works between us while protecting my peace. 

You'll learn the difference between repair and reconciliation, why trusting patterns over promises keeps you out of fantasy, and how the right boundaries actually give you more freedom instead of less.

I'm sharing the blueprint for handling any ex who tries to come back into your life without losing yourself in the process.

If you're a woman who wants to handle your messy ex situations with in way that feels powerful and confident to you…

Join the waitlist for C2C. Click Here To Join the Waitlist

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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At 40 years old, Dr. Courtney had been single most of her life, hadn't dated anyone in six months, and was drowning in dissertation anxiety while dealing with a nightmare tenant situation.

Fast forward just five months later and she's now Dr. Douglas with multiple quality men traveling hours just to take her on dates, including one who performed magic tricks for her during an 11-hour first date. 

In this episode, she shares her complete transformation from someone who felt like a "late bloomer" weirdo to a woman who attracts high-earning nerdy men who show up with intention and genuine care. 

You'll hear how she cleared seven years of dissertation paralysis, handled a squatter situation, and simultaneously created a thriving dating life that feels regulating, expansive, and playful.

She reveals why being inexperienced at 40 became her secret advantage and how clearing mental drama in other life areas actually accelerated her dating success rather than slowing it down.

If you're a woman who feels like you've missed your turn or waited too long to figure out love…

Join the waitlist for C2C. Click Here To Join the Waitlist

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed 

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You got more questions, I have more answers. 

Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to handle men who repeat the same annoying mistakes, what to do when your ex comes back wanting another chance, how to communicate your needs without becoming passive, and how to know if your walkaway power is too strong.

We also talk about managing expectations when dating feels too good to be true, entering new relationships when your life feels messy, and how to improve your vetting skills to filter out the wrong men...and more!

If you’re ready to date deliciously and confidently attract men who serve and support you…

Join the Relationship Roster Challenge HERE.

Join the waitlist for C2C. Click Here To Join the Waitlist

Follow me on Instagram for more dating gems at: 

@torahcents 

@curved2cuffed