New York Times Best-selling author, Allison Raskin, co-host of the Just Between Us podcast, shares how coming to understand her anxiety and OCD have helped her to approach dating from a new perspective. The headline is: What is the opposite of jealousy and how do you cultivate it in your relationship? And the Dear Damona question is: I’m single after 28 years of marriage. How do I break back into the dating scene?

Check out the PsychCentral article on compersion: psychcentral.com/relationships/compersion#definition

You can find Allison Raskin on Instagram @AllisonRaskin

Watch for her new book "Overthinking About You": workman.com/products/overthinking-about-you/paperback

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