Today we are joined by aspiring screen-writer and house-dad Wade Duffin who made a massive pivot in middle-age. We talk about Wade's early dating mistakes, the challenges and joys of marriage and, Wade's dealbreakers. We also take a brilliant listener call on how to support someone through divorce and a great letter on "Consensual Noon-Monogamy". A heartwarming and hilarious episode - enjoy!

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Deb Campbell is an author and psychologist. I talk to Deb today about her relationships history, her divorce, her remarriage and her experience of DATING HER FORMER THERAPIST (hot tip: don't do that). We take some wonderful listener calls and do the usual memes and other stuff. A cracker ep from an actual expert.

Deb's website: HERE (buy her book LOVELANDS via her website - I highly recommend it)

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We are joined today by two of my favourite people, Wade Duffin and Harley Breen. In a Dear Nelly Special I am joined by TWO guests to talk about a different kind of love - the love of friends.

Wade and Harley are LOOSE UNITS and this episode is filled with laughter and dick jokes.

We get into the importance of friends, different types of love, mental health and fresh vaj (that will make sense).

We take a great (but frightening) listener call about online dating, and we finish up with "stupid shit" an ex-friend has done and "he's a ten but..." - AKA friendship dealbreakers.

We talk about "THE ONE": maybe there's more "than one" or, your "one" is a best mate. Food for thought.

Please take this opportunity to listen to Wade and Harley's wonderful podcast Shitting with the Door Open: HERE.

Enjoy!

Nelly x

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Gezza is back! She asks me what it's like to tackle "Divorce Admin" (hint: it's diabolical). We briefly chat about The Ultimatum: Queer Love on Netflix and how to handle rejection. We take some great listener calls on how to support a friend in a concerning relationship and, how to respectfully navigate a relationship with a trans woman. We also do a letter on TAKING YOUR KIDS ON A DATE and we finish with Gezza's BIG MISTAKE.

Geraldine is golden, as always. Enjoy!

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• Divorce admin list: HERE (scroll down)

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This may be our funniest episode yet. I laughed so much a little bit of wee came out. Comedian Bev Killick talks us through her first marriage to a man she'd known for ONE NIGHT. We take a beautiful listener call on getting your mojo back and do the memes and all the stuff. Get your Tena Lady ready - this one is a wild ride.

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While Nelly is having a short, well-earned break we present to you the first of the series - Best Of Dear Nelly.

We'll be back in two weeks but until then enjoy the funniest bits from the first 21 eps, some memes, a Culture Share about "Queen Charlotte" and some new listener calls.

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While Nelly is having a short, well-earned break we present to you the first of the series - Best Of Dear Nelly.

We'll be back in two weeks but until then enjoy the funniest bits from the first 20 eps, some bloopers and some new listener calls! You also get Nelly's take on the Kardashians and some other stuff.

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Today we’re back for another Sloppy Seconds with the one and only Genevieve Morris. Gen asks me how I see my long-term relationship now that I’m a couple of years out of it. We talk about the healing power of cashiers, why we love Freddie Mercury and we take a brilliant listener letter on dating a widower and how to handle the feelings that come with the presence of “another woman” still in the house. We take some calls on "Thruppy Thirds" and celebrating single mums. Lastly, Gen rails against that couple thing of ‘we think’ or ‘he reckons’ or 'she said' – be your own person, molls. Enjoy!

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Today we have an exciting episode – a recording of the sold-out Live Show I did recently with comedy, camp, cabaret superstar Reuben Kaye! This episode is unlike others. It was recorded in front of a live audience, with a man under the age of 40 and it totally went off the rails. It was a special for IDAHOBIT day – the international day against homophobia, biphobia and transphobia. And it’s bloody fabulous!

Reuben and I talk about his early dating days, his experiences at school as a boy ahead of his time (that bit will make you cry). We talked some of his sexual preferences, his sexcapades and he poked at fun at me, whilst I laughed at him. (I told him off once or twice too). Reuben is just wonderful. He was hilarious – side-splittingly so – but also raw and vulnerable. I am pretty sure he went places he doesn’t usually go in interviews and man; we were the beneficiaries.

A trigger warning: it’s probably the best part of the episode but we do get into intergenerational trauma and there’s some discussion of suicide.

And Bonus – writer, creator and singer of the Dear Nelly theme song, Casey Bennetto sings the theme song live.

ENJOY!

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