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In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Matt sits down with bestselling author, entrepreneur, and spiritual teacher Jessica Zweig for a raw exploration of what it really means to surrender, evolve, and take radical responsibility for your life.

Jessica opens up about her recent season of expansion — navigating anxiety, overwhelm, business transitions, spiritual initiation, and the deeper truth behind why so many of us resist change even when we're praying for a breakthrough.

Together, they unpack the difference between surviving and co-creating, how to listen to your body's signals without letting fear lead, and why our toughest moments are often the exact pathways into our next level.

This episode is equal parts grounding and activating — especially if you're in a season of uncertainty, reinvention, or feeling like you're outgrowing the life around you.

• Why surrender is the true catalyst for growth

• How to trust change when everything feels uncertain

• The role of "initiations" in your spiritual and personal evolution

• Why overwhelm and anxiety aren't life sentences

• How to develop radical self-responsibility (and why it's a superpower)

• The body's truth: what your anxiety is really trying to tell you

• How to stop outsourcing your power to mentors, coaches, and relationships

• The surprising connection between joy, abundance, and alignment

• What happens when you finally take off the mask

• Why softness is strength — and how to practice it daily

Website: jessicasweig.com Instagram: @jessicasweig Podcast: The Spiritual Hustler Books: Be and The Light Work

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In this powerful episode of Decoding Success, we are joined by Dr. Mariel Buqué — psychologist, intergenerational trauma expert, and author of Break The Cycle.

This conversation goes deep into what healing actually looks like, why the in-between seasons of life feel so uncomfortable, how to train your nervous system to tolerate triggers, and why breaking cycles can feel lonely — especially for the black sheep, cycle-breakers, and self-healers.

If you've ever felt like you're evolving faster than the environment around you… If you've ever felt misunderstood during your healing journey… If you're learning to receive love differently… this episode is going to speak directly to you.

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• Why healing is NOT a destination — but a series of micro victories

• The real reason the in-between phase feels so restless

• How to micro-expose yourself to triggers instead of avoiding them

• The link between trauma, avoidance, and the need for control

• The loneliness of being the cycle breaker in your family

• Why some wounds we carry are not originally ours

• The difference between external vs. internal validation

• How to process shame and rebuild a sense of self-worth

• What true presence looks like — and small practices to cultivate it

Website → https://www.drmarielbuque.com/ Her Book, Break The Cycle → https://www.drmarielbuque.com/breakthecycle LinkedIn → https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mariel-buqu%C3%A9/ Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/dr.marielbuque/

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Today's conversation with TV personality and author Valerie Greenberg is a masterclass in shifting from external approval to inner authority. We dig into befriending the inner critic, choosing presence over the next "big high," and how to build your Confidence Community... those truth-tellers who both cheer you on and call you up. If you've ever felt like a black sheep trying to "catch up," this one brings you back to center.

• Best-friend energy: Practical ways to befriend (not silence) your inner critic so you can respond instead of react.

• Ambition vs. acceptance: How to hold big goals while staying present on the "flatline" days.

• The curiosity reset: A simple "ask why" loop to process anxiety and stop chasing the next hit of validation.

• Confidence Community: Who belongs in it, how to find them, and why "the least powerful person" can change your life.

• Ego off, outcomes on: Following up without taking things personally—and using wins as smart re-engagement moments.

• Self-care ≠ vanity: Aligning workouts, sleep, and habits with feeling grounded (not performing for the feed).

• Breaking habits the honest way: From nail-biting to bigger patterns—how to assess, ask for help, and upgrade behavior.

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• 00:00 — Why "you've been validated" starts with your own stamp of approval

• 02:40 — Being your own best friend (perfectionism, overthinking, and doing anyway)

• 05:16 — Presence over comparison: getting okay with "good enough today"

• 08:25 — "Where you are is right": ambition without self-rejection

• 10:45 — A porter's two minutes that lit up the whole day (character > status)

• 13:20 — Authenticity that translates on and off camera

• 14:54 — There's only one you: why the world needs your exact wiring

• 16:28 — Bullying, anxiety, and becoming a natural cheerleader

• 21:02 — Feeling feelings > fearing feelings (shadow work basics)

• 27:12 — Curiosity loop for the "flatline" days

• 29:42 — Self-care done right: intention > imitation

• 33:38 — How to assemble your Confidence Community (and who's worthy)

• 45:42 — The "lowest" person who unlocked the biggest break

• 49:20 — Valerie's one piece of advice: recognize and share your value

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What if the thing standing between you and peace… is the lie you keep telling yourself?

In this raw and powerful conversation, Richie Romero joins Decoding Success to unpack what it truly means to heal. From facing the truths we've buried, to setting boundaries that honor who we're becoming, Richie shares how his most painful seasons became the path to clarity, hope, and alignment.

You'll learn why chasing success, validation, or control will never quiet the noise inside — and how surrendering to truth can. This episode will remind you that healing isn't about fixing what's broken; it's about finally being honest enough to rebuild on what's real.

• How self-deception keeps you stuck in cycles of pain

• The difference between reacting quickly and responding wisely

• Why "solving on the surface" never leads to true peace

• How to set boundaries that free you — not isolate you

• What it really looks like to face yourself and start again

• How hope can still exist even after everything falls apart

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Psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals how childhood wounds quietly shape every relationship you have—and how to finally heal them. From codependency and fear of disapproval to the inability to set healthy boundaries, Terri shares the personal stories and therapeutic frameworks that have helped thousands reclaim their self-worth and rebuild trust in love. She opens up about the moment she realized she was abandoning herself in relationships, the three questions that expose repeating relationship patterns, and how learning to speak your truth—without guilt—is the key to secure attachment. You'll walk away understanding that you can't build healthy love by trying to be perfect; you build it by learning to be real.

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• Uncover the roots of codependency – Learn how childhood dynamics create patterns of people-pleasing, fear of disapproval, and self-abandonment in adulthood

• Master the Three Cues for Clarity – Terri's simple framework to identify who someone reminds you of, where you've felt this before, and how that pattern repeats

• Redefine boundaries as self-respect – Discover why preferences, desires, and deal-breakers are the foundation of every healthy relationship

• Heal your attachment style – Understand how early attunement—or lack of it—impacts your ability to form secure, interdependent relationships

• Transform discomfort into growth – Learn why uncomfortable conversations are where real healing and intimacy begin

• Build emotional maturity – Replace control and reactivity with curiosity, empathy, and self-awareness in every relationship

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What would you do if life gave you a 3% chance to live?

In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, host Matt LeBris sits down with John Ulsh, a husband, father, entrepreneur, and survivor of a devastating car accident that nearly claimed his life.

John's story isn't just about survival — it's about the radical grace required to rebuild when everything you knew is gone. He opens up about waking up from trauma, learning to take life one first step at a time, and the mindset that transforms setbacks into starting points.

This conversation is a reminder that there are countless ways to go backward, but only one way to move forward — through grace, patience, and a willingness to begin again.

If you've ever felt like you were starting over, this one's for you.

• The mindset shift that helped John find purpose after tragedy

• How to give yourself grace when life sets you back

• Why progress isn't linear — and why that's a good thing

• The importance of redefining strength as acceptance instead of perfection

• How to take your next "first step," no matter how small

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In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast, host Matt LeBris sits down with world-renowned performance coach Jason Stacy, the man behind some of the most elite athletes and CEOs on the planet. Jason's work with Olympians, professional fighters, and even the #1 tennis player in the world has given him a unique perspective on what it really takes to perform at the highest level.

Jason shares his powerful framework built around the 3 E's of Success — Emotions, Energy, and Environment — and why mastering these three areas is the key to sustainable high performance in sports, business, and life.

• How to control your emotions so you don't get stuck in negative patterns or fear-based decision-making.

• How to harness your energy and use your body to shift your state instantly.

• Why auditing your environment — both internal and external — is essential for growth and long-term success.

• The surprising connection between discipline, small daily choices, and peak performance.

• Why Jason believes your operating system (emotions, energy, environment) matters more than any "app" or strategy.

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• Keep up with Jason's upcoming book release (October 2026)

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In this episode, Panache Desai and Matt LeBris dive into what happens when we stop trying to fix the unfixable, surrender control, and embrace who we truly are. We explore how ambition and success can mask deeper wounds, why so many of us feel "empty" even after we've achieved, and how letting go of past identity can open the door to lasting peace. Panache shares powerful insights, practical steps, and stories about what it really looks like to live with presence, self-love, and authenticity.

Who This Episode is For...

• Anyone feeling exhausted from chasing success that never satisfies.

• People longing for peace, presence, and authenticity.

• Black Sheep & non-conformists who often feel different or out of place.

• Those who are ready to stop "working on themselves" and instead begin "being themselves."

Key Takeaways From This Episode...

• Success and achievement won't heal past pain — acknowledging we are powerless over the past is the first step toward freedom.

• Surrender is not giving up; it's a shift from doing-ness to being-ness.

• Love of self is foundational: you can't truly love others if you haven't accepted and embraced yourself.

• Letting go of control doesn't mean inaction; it means trusting the natural unfolding.

• Imperfection, mortality, human vulnerability—they're essential. When we stop pretending and start being profoundly human, joy and peace follow.

Resources Discussed...

• Website / Official Hub: Panache's site with programs, events, and resources — PanacheDesai.com panachedesai.com

• Instagram: @panachedesai

• You Are Enough: Revealing The Soul to Discover Your Power, Potential, and Possibility — Panache's major book releasing the message that you are already whole, not something to be fixed. Grab Your Copy

• Call to Calm — Free daily meditation / presence practices via Zoom to ground, breathe, connect. Call to Calm

• Impact — A 3-month mentoring / small-group journey for people committed to living from truth. panachedesai.com

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What do you do when the summit feels impossible? Kyle Maynard, NYT bestselling author, speaker, and athlete—breaks down the mindset that got him from an 0–35 wrestling record to bear-crawling a 22,800-foot mountain. His rule? Three feet at a time. We dig into focus, unlearning, healthy comparison, fear vs. certainty, and how to know when to push or pull back so you actually enjoy your life while you pursue big goals.

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• The 3-Foot Rule: A simple focus shift to do brutally hard things without burning out.

• "Where attention goes, energy flows": How to direct your mind so results follow.

• Unlearning for growth: Dropping beliefs that quietly cap your potential.

• Comparison as a tool (not a thief): How to compare properly and win.

• Push vs. quit: The signals that tell you which choice is wisdom—not weakness.

• Pain, presence, and toughness: Why ignoring pain isn't strength—and what is.

• Map ≠ territory: Seeing reality clearly so your strategy actually works.

• Fear → Clarity → Power → Age: The "four invisible enemies" you'll meet at every level.

• Website / Speaking: https://www.kyle-maynard.com/

• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylemaynard/

What happens when you realize the life you've built isn't fully yours? When the career, relationships, or goals you've been chasing were shaped more by approval and outside expectations than your own true desires?

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In this episode of the Decoding Success Podcast, I'm joined by Dr. Robert Glover, author of the international bestseller No More Mr. Nice Guy. Together, we unpack the hidden ways we suppress our desires, betray our authenticity, and live for approval — and more importantly, how to break free.

Dr. Glover shares:

• How to recognize the "lie coach" in your head that keeps you playing small.

• Why so many of us pursue goals that were never truly ours.

• The difference between emotional fusion and healthy differentiation (and why it's the key to real freedom).

• How to start reclaiming your suppressed desires — without guilt, shame, or fear of rejection.

• Why authenticity is always a process, not a one-time choice.

Whether you've struggled with people-pleasing, codependency, or simply not knowing what you truly want in life, this conversation will give you permission — and the tools — to step into your full, authentic self.

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• Instagram: @drrobertglover

• Website: drglover.com

• Integration Nation (Men's Community): integrationnation.net