Divorce and Separation

In this episode, host Nikki Parkinson engages in a candid conversation with Christina Salvo, the CEO and founder of Simple Separation, about de facto relationships. They delve into what constitutes a de facto relationship in the eyes of the family law system.

Christina clarifies how, legally, de facto relationships are treated and whether they are similar to marriages when it comes to financial settlements, children's arrangements, and child support. They discuss how asset division in de facto relationships is determined based on factors such as relationship duration, contributions, career sacrifices, income disparities, and age differences.

The importance of protecting assets in de facto relationships is a focal point, and they explain how financial agreements or prenuptial agreements can safeguard individuals.

This conversation highlights the importance of initiating the conversation about a financial agreement early in the relationship. Tune in to hear Nikki and Christina'a strategies for approaching this potentially sensitive topic.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Christina Salvo, CEO and Founder of Simple Separation

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

In this week's episode, Nikki chats with Johanna Lynn from the Family Imprint Institute. Johanna and Nikki explore the captivating concepts of epigenetics and neuroplasticity and their profound impact on our relationships and parenting. Together, they uncover valuable insights on breaking toxic cycles, recognising patterns, and creating positive change for ourselves and future generations.

Nikki and Johanna dive into:

• Epigenetics and Neuroplasticity; Understanding Family Patterns:

  • The role of epigenetics in shaping our inherited traits.
  • Exploring neuroplasticity and its potential for transformation.
  • Uncovering the influence of family patterns on our relationships.

• The Three-Generation Geneagram:

  • Using the genealogical tool to detect patterns within families.
  • Gaining insights into our own history and pain.
  • Understanding how inherited traits can impact our relationships.

• Personal Healing and Breaking Toxic Cycles:

  • Embracing personal growth to break toxic patterns.
  • Recognising our own contributions to separation and divorce.
  • Healing emotional wounds to rebuild trust in ourselves.

• Understanding Each Other's History and Pain:

  • The power of empathy and compassion in relationships.
  • Exploring the profound impact of understanding our partner's experiences.
  • Creating space for healing and transformation.

• Learning and Unlearning: Embracing Valuable Lessons:

  • The opportunity for growth and self-discovery during separation and divorce.
  • Unlearning harmful behaviors and embracing healthier alternatives.
  • Nurturing personal and relationship development.

• Taking Care of Ourselves: Navigating Difficult Times:

  • The importance of self-care and self-compassion.
  • Strategies for navigating the challenges of separation and divorce.
  • Building resilience and embracing personal well-being.

It's an enlighting episode where we explore the healing journey from separation and divorce, through understanding family patterns, addressing emotional wounds, and embracing change, we can create lasting transformations in ourselves and our relationships.

Remember, by taking care of ourselves, we pave the way for healthier connections and nurture future generations.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

In this episode, Nikki and her guest Kemi Nekvapil engage in an insightful conversation that explores the profound connection between power and divorce and separation.

Kemi introduces you to her Power acronym - P for presence, O for ownership, W for wisdom, E for equality, and R for responsibility. Nikki and Kemi delve into the common experience of women feeling like they've lost their power during divorce and separation, often due to a lack of self-identity or being influenced by external narratives.

Topics Discussed:

• Discover the first step towards reclaiming power - awareness of your unhappiness in the current situation.
• Emphasise the importance of being present and actively identifying what's working and what's not, enabling you to take back your power.
• Uncover the transformative potential of micro moments of power, where even small actions can bring about significant change.
• Learn how The Power of the Pause can help you carve out time to reflect, reevaluate relationships, and navigate challenging circumstances.
• Explore the role of self-reflection as a crucial tool for identifying what nourishes your life and what doesn't.
• Discover how coaching can provide valuable feedback and support during divorce and separation, empowering you on your journey to reclaim power.
• Examine the complex and deeply personal journey of forgiveness and its role in moving forward.
• Understand the transformative power of forgiveness and how it enables individuals to craft a new chapter in their lives, beginning with self-forgiveness.
• Gain insights into the emotional complexities of separation through personal experiences of shame and embarrassment.
• Emphasise the significance of presence, the role of a support system, and the practices of empathy and self-compassion during tough times.
• Explore the vital importance of surrounding yourself with friends who provide unwavering support through challenges and struggles.
• Gain empowering insights on taking ownership of your power across all areas of your life.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Are you struggling with how to handle a separation or divorce in the most respectful and fair way possible? Look no further than this episode of our podcast, where Nikki sits down with guest Christina Salvo, CEO and founder of Simple Separation. Together, Nikki and Christina explore common mistakes to avoid during separation and how to ensure both parties are on equal financial footing. They also discuss the importance of being open and transparent during the separation process, and how mediation, counseling, and coaching can help with communication and emotional support. Plus, Nikki and Christina offer tips for getting organised with documents, seeking early legal advice, and understanding full financial disclosure.

This episode is for you if you want to handle your separation with respect, dignity, and fairness.

Nikki and Christina discuss:

• Common mistakes to avoid during separation
• The importance of equal financial footing
• When lawyering up is necessary
• The benefits of mediation and counseling
• Tips for getting organized and understanding full financial disclosure
• Different pathways for separation, based on goals and level of conflict
• Simple Separation's collaborative and cost-effective model for separation

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Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Christina Salvo, CEO and Founder of Simple Separation

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

In this episode, author Charlotte Ree joins Nikki to talk about her divorce and self-discovery journey. Charlotte's memoir, Heartbake, is part recipe book and shares her experiences of separation, divorce and finding happiness. She describes how she moved into her new home and then entered lockdown. Food soon became Charlottes' social saviour, and pathway back to herself, one small ingredient at a time.

After getting divorced before the age of 30, Charlotte was able to rediscover herself and find her happiness. She shares how the lockdown forced her to confront herself and process her emotions. Despite experiencing indecision and insecurity, Charlotte reminds us that we can always reinvent ourselves and find brightness again.

Charlotte beautifully reveals how cooking and making time-intensive meals show how much you care for someone. Her new cookbook is full of personal stories and recipe treasures.

Plus, her "better than sex Tiramisu" recipe is one I'll think you'll love!

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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After wanting an amicable divorce from her coercive controlling ex-husband, Cherie discovers that her only option to protect her and her daughter requires her to summon her inner strength, resilience and perseverance. "Take a deep breath, slow down, do the research and find the right person to fit your situation - there are plenty of options out there!" Cherie is a woman who experienced a sudden separation from her husband of 14 years and is navigating the challenges of coparenting and financial settlement. She is a strong advocate for taking time to research and find the right resources for a successful separation. She had trusted her husband with full control of their finances, not realising it was a red flag. When she realised the situation she was in financially, she panicked and went into finding a lawyer instead of taking her time. With the help of her village, she set strong boundaries and took care of herself with small tasks like a walk around the block or a five minute meditation. Taking her time and listening to the advice she found, Cherie was finally able to be strong and make it work for her daughter. In this episode, Nikki and Cherie discuss: 1. Managing Coercive Control in a Marriage Breakdown 2. Practical Tips for Navigating a Difficult Separation 3. Overcoming Emotional Challenges During Divorce. Resources: Need help to navigate your separation or divorce? Join our community here Connect with me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcehub Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thedivorcehub LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/thedivorcehub Website: https://www.divorceandseparationhub.com

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Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce Doula, Coach, TEDx Speaker and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Kate Christie's new book, The Life List: Master Every Moment and Live an Audacious Life, is a testament to intentional living and acts as a guide for individuals to designing the next magnificent part of our magnificent lives.

After a fairly brutal 5 years Kate's experience made her fully understand that life is too short: in the space of 5 years her husband left their marriage, her mum passed away, her ex-husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and passed away within 11 short months, and her 3 amazing kids were at the stage where they were breaking up with her.

Kate's message "Life is too short. You only live one. And later might be too late."

Nikki and Kate chat -

• Kate's inspiration behind creating The Life List and provided valuable insights into how one can use it to transform their life.
• Kate's personal journey and lessons learned.
• How Kate was able to emphasise the importance of focusing on growth, stronger relationships, and prioritising one's well-being.

The conversation between Kate and Nikki is a heartfelt and encouraging exploration of how anyone can embrace audacious goals and live life to the fullest.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, TEDx Speaker, Divorce Doula, Coach and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

After making the "failure" of getting married young to the wrong man, Lucy Bloom finds empowerment in her divorce, ditches society's judgement, and discovers the joys of living near the beach, as she learns to make decisions based on what she wants.

Lucy Bloom is an author, speaker and writer who openly talks about her divorce and how it was not a failure. She has since embraced the opportunity to write her own next chapter, and encourages others to do the same.

After twenty years of marriage, her husband left her for another woman, taking the decision to separate out of her hands. Rather than letting it be a failure, she saw it as an opportunity for growth - to make decisions that would make her happy. She moved to the beach, surrounded herself with supportive friends, and prioritised her children. After eight years of navigating the pain of divorce, Lucy has learned that it is her race to run and that society's expectations should not dictate her decisions. She is now living a life of freedom and joy near the ocean.

In this episode Nikki and Lucy chat -

1. How Divorce Can Lead to Empowerment and Growth: exploring the idea that divorce can be a liberating experience, and how to take the steps to ensure it is a successful transition.

2. The Benefits of Prioritising and Re-Evaluating Relationships: examining how to take a step back and re-evaluate relationships, and the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive people.

3. The Power of Self-Care in Difficult Times: discovering how self-care can help in navigating the hardships of divorce, and how to make it a priority.

Host: Nikki Parkinson, Divorce Doula, Coach, TEDx Speaker and Founder of The Divorce and Separation Hub.

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Guest: Lucy Bloom, Authur, Speaker, Writer.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.

Nikki Parkinson speaks to the body image (and self-love) stigma shaker, Taryn Brumfitt on this weeks episode. Taryn is on a mission for meaningful change.

Through her award-winning films, bestselling books and international speaking engagements, she has spent the last 10 years empowering people around the world to discover what's possible when you embrace your life and purpose.

Fuelled by her powerful message and fierce determination, Taryn Brumfitt is a true force to be reckoned with. Through educational resources, speaking events and inspiring content, the Body Image Movement, headed by founder Taryn Brumfitt, is teaching the world to love the skin they're in.

Embrace Kids is an uplifting film by Taryn Brumfitt (EMBRACE 2016) which brings together a vibrant collection of stories from young people and famous friends alike, who share their experiences of body image, bullying, gender identity, advocacy, representation and more.

So, when Taryn's 19-year marriage came to an end, how did she break the news to her children? What tools did she use to get through her ending? And how did she turn her feelings of failure around?

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This episode is sponsored by The Separation Summit. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarter way, then The Separation Summit has been specifically designed for you.

The Separation Summit is Australia's first digital event that showcases the ways, days and stages to a kind separation. This 1-day summit invites global experts, legal advisors, and divorce survivors, to offer an informed, heart-felt and collaborative event. Taking the mess out of messy.

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Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

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In this solo episode Nikki Parkinson discusses the grief of ending a relationship.

So what happens, when you end the relationship and feel pressured to hide your grief, because you pulled the plug on your marriage or partnership?

This episode dives into -

• Taking ownership of your happiness.
• One of the biggest misunderstandings about a breakup when you are the instigator of the breakup.
• Everyone is hurting in their own way.
• The bravery that is ending a relationship.
• Does the grieving happen before the end?
• This breakup is about you.
• Self care tips.

This episode is sponsored by The Separation Summit. If you are looking to separate in a better way, a healthier way, a smarter way, then The Separation Summit has been specifically designed for you.

The Separation Summit is Australia's first digital event that showcases the ways, days and stages to a kind separation. This 1-day summit invites global experts, legal advisors, and divorce survivors, to offer an informed, heart-felt and collaborative event. Taking the mess out of messy.

Buy your ticket here.

Host: Nikki Parkinson. Divorce and Separation Hub Website.

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Executive Producer and Editor: Tiffany Richmond. You can contact Tiffany via her website and on Instagram @tiff__richmond.