We highly recommend you check out Kate's podcast, The Divorce Survival Guide. She is also a certified divorce coach and we talk about what that means.

"Should I stay or should I go?" is an area that she coaches people on, she also has an online course of the same name.

Kate shares her story about how she got into divorce and discernment coaching.

After her successful career in acting (including Grey's Anatomy) and successful divorce. She learned it's not simple, or cut and dry. Her and her ex have spent a lot of time doing therapy, recovery, and putting in the work.  
 
I help women heal from emotional abuse and work through the process of discerning that throughout their divorce. ~ Kate Anthony

You can find a large community of people on the Should I Stay or Should I go her Facebook page. It's heavily moderated and a strong community for people looking for support.

“No matter what stage of the process you’re at, there is always someone whose life parallels yours and who you can take comfort in. As alone as I’ve felt at times, I realize that I am far from alone in this group.” ~Kate Anthony.

50% percent of first-time marriages, 67% of second marriages, and 74% of third marriages end in divorce. 

One of the things that Kate has learned and in doing this for as long as she has is that most women who come to her if you're up in the middle of the night Googling, should I stay or should I go? And you land on my page and you call her, or you join her Facebook group you're not in a really healthy, happy relationship. Women don't know that they get to choose. We spend so much time waiting. We wait for men to ask us on dates. We wait for men to ask us to dance. We wait for them to ask us to marry them. We wait. And so we spend most of our lives, not an active choice about the relationships that we're in, but you do have the ability to choose.