Family law attorneys Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink of New Direction Family Law discuss common mistakes people make during separation and divorce, emphasizing that emotions can lead to regrettable decisions. They warn that social media posts, texts, DMs, and even posts by friends or family can be used in court, and note North Carolina is a one-party consent state where conversations may be legally recorded if the recorder is a participant. They advise clients to follow attorney guidance, timely provide required financial and other documents, and avoid hiding information. They caution against relying on “Google law degrees” or AI-generated content, which can be inaccurate and costly to review. They also stress avoiding reckless behavior (partying, DUIs), maintaining credibility with the judge, and being honest about finances and other issues.

00:00 One Party Consent Warning

00:35 Meet The Divorce Attorneys

01:12 Social Media Can Sink You

02:10 Texts DMs And Friends

04:02 Recording Rules Explained

04:41 Follow Legal Advice And Disclose

05:39 Bad Advice And AI Pitfalls

07:17 Reckless Behavior And Custody

09:11 Honesty And Credibility In Court

11:24 Money Mistakes And Hidden Assets

12:16 Wrap Up Key Takeaways

13:06 Final Sign Off