Do you trade your authenticity for approval?

Welcome to HOL:FIT Talks! A weekly LIVE show that initially streams on FB + Instagram on Wed @ 2pm EST and then uploaded as a podcast. JOIN LIVE HERE: www.hol-fit.com/live UPDATES: For November, the podcast topics will be centered around the topics of focus, productivity + owning it to get you warmed up for the launch of my new program - The Beautiful Life Lab. It will launch December 1st and the last day to register will be December 10th. Subscribe here to be the first to know when it launches: http://bit.ly/holfitinbox ON TODAY’S SHOW: The scariest movie you could ever watch… and it’s not the reel that Netflix is featuring today. Feedback from the cheap seats QUESTIONS ANSWERED TODAY: Q1: I’d love your take on doterra being enough. I myself went through this and came out the other side and I see a lot of people still stuck in the notion that they feel they’re meant for “bigger things” which in turn takes up so much time and energy they have no time left for their Doterra business. They feel that with so many people being wellness advocates they can’t stand out enough or make a big enough difference and be “unique”. At what point did you stop doing all the things you were doing (nutrition, PT, clients etc) and just focus on growing your dōbusiness? And how did you feel it was enough? Q2: In an age where everyone’s life is at our fingertips for comparison, and where we can constantly bump into each other’s insecurities, how can we graciously deal with those-perhaps even in our own community and team-who may secretly (or not so secretly) have envy and jealousy towards us? For whatever their reasons: being a higher rank than them, being healthier than them, having more freedom than them, etc. For every dozen who are inspired by that, there seems to always be a small handful who want to bring you down. What is the best way to graciously and kindly navigate through those negative energies coming at you? Q3: How do you conquer fears while staying true to yourself? When faced with a challenge, I find the hardest part is to move forward in confidence that I am being genuine rather than rising to someone else's expectations. Q4: Loved last week's topic. Thank you. I have a question related to the dream customer. I totally resonate with it being the ME from a few years back, and of course I'd want to speak to her as my dream 'customer'. But what about my dream leader? The woman want to collaborate with and lead with? She's not me from a few years back. No way! She's the me of now. My dream customer is different to my dream leader. So how do I speak to both of these women at the same time, because they're so different. I want to speak to my dream customer (because I want to help and support her) AND I want to speak to my dream leader (the woman who knows her vision, who knows her mind, is capable of leading with me). This is my confusion. If I'm only speaking to my dream customer (the woman I was several years ago), I'm going to miss my dream leader. Would love to hear your thoughts on this. Q5: How do you keep all your “notes” from everything you read and listen to? How do you organize all the notes you take and access it again to make it meaningful? QUESTION FOR THE SHOW? Weekly on Mondays at 10am EST, I put up the question collector over on the FB Page.  The most liked questions will get answered! If there’s time - I’ll also take 1-2 from the question form: http://www.hol-fit.com/podquestion