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Are you an independent woman with a rich, full single life? Are you generally busy with your work, family, friends, hobbies, and travel? Does your vision of couple-hood look a lot like your life now - just with a man dropped in it? If that’s the case, we’ve gotta talk. If you're going to partner with a man who is your equal, you've gotta make space for him - just like you want him to do for you.

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Are you an independent woman with a rich, full, single life? Are you generally busy with your work, your friends, your family, your hobbies and your travel? Does your vision of couplehood look a lot like your life now? Just with a man dropped in it, if that's the case, We've got to talk. 

Hi, I'm Evan Marc Katz, Dating Coach for Smart, Strong, Successful Women, and your Personal Trainer for Love. Welcome to the Love U Podcast. Stick around to the end to discover how to make smart compromises in love so you could actually be happy. When we're done I'll let you know how you can apply to Love U to create a passionate relationship that makes you feel safe, heard, and understood. 

We're going to begin today with a story. It's always a story. Real people who've turned to me for love and have blind spots. In this case, the client's name is Cindy. Cindy's in her early 50s. She turned to me for Loving Masters coaching, which is private coaching. Her issue was that in her marriage for 20 years, she was kind of a doormat, even though she is an independent source. 

That's the interesting thing, is that I deal with women who are smart, strong, successful, have all the competence in the world, but within the context of their relationship, they don't carry themselves with confidence. 

So now that she's divorced and she's out there rebuilding her life from scratch, she's discovered what makes her happy. And she's really high on being single. And I hope that resonates with you. I want you to have an amazing time being single before your partner. 

So the issue is that Cindy didn't want to compromise in her future relationships because she compromised so much in her prior relationship in her marriage. She's basically come to the conclusion that all marriage is going to be like the one she had before, which isn't true. But in her experience, when you have a husband, he bosses you around, his parents boss you around,