Don't Blame Me!

By Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. MontsComedy Society & Culture Relationships

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June 19, 2025DBM: Legally Petty
This week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Feeling unwanted

Getting back at a shitty landlord

Find a job as a neurodivergent person

Update: Trying to get along with your sister-in-law

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55 min
June 18, 2025 DBM CLASSIC - The One With The Siblings And The Dog (100th Episode - Live Calls)
Thank you Diana for doing the Lord's Work!

Original Air Date: 12/2/20219

It’s our 100th Episode, baby!!! We’re doing something special for this one. We’re talking to the callers LIVE on air and sharing advice on carrying emotional baggage into a new relationship, what to do if your high school sweetheart won’t make time for you, dealing with your study buddy who never talks about his girlfriend , and talking to your partner about bad sex. We also have an update from the caller whose dad was sleeping with masseuse. It’s a fun one. Thanks to EVERYONE who has listened over the past 99 episodes.

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1 hr 18 min
June 17, 2025 SYNT: My Friend's Boyfriend is on House Arrest
Meghan and Melisa share the results from BAIW: MY Friend's Boyfriend is on House Arrest.

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50 min
June 16, 2025BAIW: Canceling Concert Plans
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Don't be a creepy man

Melisa: Be careful of your language when defending immigrants
But Are You Wrong:
Accepting a late paper

Canceling plans

But Are They Wrong:
Meghan: People who have a parasocial relationship with dogs

Melisa: Riley Gaines
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1 hr 18 min
June 13, 2025 FF: Head Spa and Painting the Walls
While Melisa gets pampered with a luxurious headspa treatment, Meghan is hard at work... painting her wall.

They talk about the informative, but terrifying Citizen. Then, they correct the viral grandma surrogate story,

The conversation turns to the BET Awards, where Meghan and Melisa break down Doechii's powerful speech. And, because she's a true friend, Meghan makes sure to fill Melisa in on all the essential drama, hookups, and betrayals happening on the latest season of Love Island.

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43 min
June 12, 2025DBM: Jumping Back In The Sack
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Finding a new roommate

Frustrations about finding a job

Having sex again

DBT: Making mistakes at work
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51 min
June 10, 2025 A SYNT (Regifted PR) That's Also a FF
Melisa is on the Mend and Meghan's Glasses Broke.

They then get into the results from But Am I Wrong: Regifted PR.

And end it with some disturbing baby news.

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40 min
June 09, 2025BAIW: My Friend's Boyfriend is on House Arrest
But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: We need more at-home health tests

Meghan: More people should go on cruises
But Are You Wrong:
Not taking their child on Christmas vacation

Getting a friend away from a controlling boyfriend

But Are They Wrong:
Melisa: Anthony Emmanuel Labrador Sierra

Meghan: Elmer's Glue

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1 hr 8 min
June 05, 2025 DBM CLASSIC: Numb Mouth
Original Air Date: July 8, 2019
This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your boyfriend doesn’t want to hang out with you family, negotiating your sugar baby status, returning to normalcy after a break up, and having compassion for your sociopath brother. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on being scared that you’re going to get pregnant.

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1 hr 12 min
June 03, 2025BAIW CLASSIC: Didn't Tell Boss Our Co-Worker Was Pregnant
Original Air Date: September 8, 2022

For But Am I Wrong
Melisa: Behind every trend is a PR company

Meghan: Faking mental illness is a mental illness

In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations:
Not disclosing personal information about a co-worker

Boyfriend wanting to see his friend and not you

And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate
Melisa nominates Mary Znidarsic-Nicosia, Nicholas Nicosia and their racist Juneteenth party

Meghan nominates Lil Miquela, the AI Influencer

*Note - We recorded this before Melisa's honorable mention had even worse allegations come out about him.

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1 hr 13 min

About Don't Blame Me!

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Don’t Blame Me is the weekly advice and pop culture podcast hosted by Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Monts. Each episode, the duo dishes out candid, unfiltered advice on everything from relationships and sex to work drama and life’s most awkward moments. They also delve into pop culture, rant about current events, and unpack the wildest corners of the internet, all with their signature humor, honesty, and chaotic charm. It’s like hanging out with your smartest, funniest besties who aren’t afraid to tell you the truth, and make you laugh while doing it.