Dial Emma

Dr. Tara Porter: Perfectionism, failure and embracing 'good enough'


Listen Later

Welcome back to Dial Emma! Each week, I'll be answering your dilemmas with honesty, empathy, and a few therapeutic truth bombs to help you make sense of life's stickiest moments. If you've ever wished you had a therapist in your back pocket, Dial Emma is here to help.

This week, our listener dilemma comes from a concerned mother, whose teenage daughter is struggling under the pressure to be perfect. To help me unpack it, I'm joined by Dr. Tara Porter, a chartered psychologist and author who has more than 25 years' experience in mental health - particularly in child and adolescent contexts.

We delve into the impact that academic expectations can have on young people, the importance of self-reflection as a parent, and the value of allowing young people to experience failure. Tara also shares some practical steps for parents to address their own perfectionism and embrace a 'good enough' approach to life.

---

Find out more about Tara's work: https://www.taraporterpsychologist.com/

If you have a dilemma for Emma, please fill out this form. 

---

Dial Emma is hosted by Emma Reed Turrell, produced by Lauren Brook.

---

Social media:

Emma Reed Turrell @emmareedturrell

Dial Emma @dialemmapodcast

Email: [email protected]

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Dial EmmaBy Emma Reed Turrell

  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9
  • 4.9

4.9

78 ratings


More shows like Dial Emma

View all
Woman's Hour by BBC Radio 4

Woman's Hour

404 Listeners

Happy Place by Fearne Cotton

Happy Place

1,132 Listeners

The Motherkind Podcast by Zoe Blaskey

The Motherkind Podcast

120 Listeners

Table Manners with Jessie and Lennie Ware by Jessie Ware

Table Manners with Jessie and Lennie Ware

1,662 Listeners

How To Fail With Elizabeth Day by Elizabeth Day and Sony Music Entertainment

How To Fail With Elizabeth Day

1,191 Listeners

Postcards From Midlife by Lorraine Candy & Trish Halpin

Postcards From Midlife

121 Listeners

The Mid•Point with Gabby Logan by Gabby Logan

The Mid•Point with Gabby Logan

190 Listeners

The Shift with Sam Baker by sam baker

The Shift with Sam Baker

80 Listeners

Dish by Cold Glass Productions

Dish

760 Listeners

Therapy Works by Julia Samuel

Therapy Works

65 Listeners

Miss Me? by BBC Sounds

Miss Me?

256 Listeners

Stompcast by Dr Alex George

Stompcast

46 Listeners

Rylan: How to Be... by BBC Sounds

Rylan: How to Be...

20 Listeners

The Life of Bryony by Daily Mail

The Life of Bryony

41 Listeners

Begin Again with Davina McCall by Begin Again

Begin Again with Davina McCall

587 Listeners