The Duchess of Decorum is what fans have come to call Pattie Ehsaei. She is best known for her very successful TikTok channel, duchessofdecorum, of almost 859K followers where she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade, Pattie is currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Aquisitions lending, and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused in finance. Pattie didn't always have the answers to all social and workplace questions and etiquette including when to ask for a raise, how much to spend on a car, how to make and keep a budget to what fork to use while dining out with high-end clients. Today, we talk about why she decided to go on TikTok provide education, advice and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings and more.