Nope! We're Not Monogamous

Embracing Compersion in Your Relationships with Marie Thouin, Ep 49


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Today I am speaking with Marie Thouin, a dating and relationship coach with a passion for understanding the intricacies of non monogamous relationships and a PhD researcher on compersion. 

Her experience with questioning the social norms around monogamy led her to exploring alternative relationship dynamics, and conducting research to help others find harmony in their own relationships. We get into what compersion is and the factors that help you achieve it and even block you from it.  You're gonna hear so many good tips around compersion, including how metamours and overcoming jealousy plays into it. 

Dr. Marie Thouin is the founder of Love InSight, a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coaching practice where she helps people of all backgrounds and relationship styles create vibrant & intentional love lives. She is also a leading scholar and researcher on the topic of compersion in consensually non-monogamous relationships. She shares her research on her website, www.whatiscompersion.com.
💨 TLDR;

  • What is Compersion?
  • What are the Factors in Achieving Compersion?
  • How Self-care Effects Compersion
  • The Role of Metamour Relationships in Compersion
  • Compersion as a Practice
  • The Importance of Community
  • Why the Word Matters
  • Identifying Bottlenecks in Your Relationships
  • Compersion is Not an On/Off Switch
  • Compersion and Jealousy Can Coexist

Work with Ellecia to go Beyond Jealousy and find your compersive feelings. www.elleciapaine.com/conqueringjealousy

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