Empire Building

Today's episode is a deep dive into the powerful process of goal setting, a topic close to my heart, especially as we gear up for 2024. Drawing from years of personal experience and the profound words of Abraham Lincoln, "Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the ax," we explore the essence of turning ideas into actions.

The entrepreneurial journey often resembles a venture into a forest, ax in hand, yet without clear goals, we hop from tree to tree, achieving little. Today, we're breaking down five easy steps to transition from goal setting to goal accomplishing. These steps are a roadmap to propel your ideas into action, ensuring every effort counts towards achieving your dreams.

So, if you're ready to move beyond the whimsical picnics and unfinished tasks, and step into a realm of tangible achievements, this episode is your guide. Let's delve into these steps together and make 2024 a year of real goal-getting. Tune in, and let's transition from being mere dreamers to becoming doers. Ready to dive in?

Resources:

• 2023 Goal Setting Retreat: the1thing.com/goal-setting-retreat Use discount code HBL2023GSR!
• 70. How to Build A Simple Business Plan that Guarantees Results
• the1thing.com/your-gps

Connect on Instagram:

• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti: @kymbermenkiti
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes

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Still reeling from the energy and excitement of our Her Best Life flagship experience in Nashville, we're here to take you behind the scenes of an event that left a lasting impression on not only us but on the 350 powerful women who attended. The echoes of laughter, learning, and late-night dancing still resonate, and we've spent the past week soaking it all in, reflecting on the feedback, and understanding the transformations that took place in that room. There's something extraordinary about being surrounded by individuals who genuinely root for your success, without any ulterior motives. The solidarity, the camaraderie, and the shared commitment to seeing each other rise is unparalleled. Today, we'll be sharing those observations, the emotions, and the significant life changes we witnessed over those few days. So buckle up, because we might just be talking about this for the rest of the year! Dive in with us as we revisit the powerful moments and key takeaways from the Her Best Life flagship experience. Prepare to be inspired and reminded of the magic that happens when women come together to uplift one another.

Resources:

• Learn more about Her Best Life: herbestlife.com

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• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti: @kymbermenkiti
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes

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Ever found yourself wondering: how the heck do you make more money with fewer leads? It’s something we are passionate about and we’ll be diving into how today! In the current landscape of the real estate market, it's all about maximizing every opportunity, making the most out of every single person you talk to and every lead you get. Especially when you’re just getting started and prospects seem scarce. So, what’s the secret sauce? Follow up, follow up, and you guessed it, follow up! Today, we're unraveling the art and science of making more money with fewer leads, focusing on strategic follow-ups and leveraging every lead you have.

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• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti: @kymbermenkiti
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes

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If you were with us in the last episode, you'll remember the insights and wisdom shared by none other than the legendary Mo Anderson. For those who are just tuning in, we had the absolute honor of interviewing Mo, a true icon in leadership and the first CEO of Keller Williams International. A trailblazer for female leaders and a member of the Oklahoma Hall of Fame, Mo’s experiences and insights are nothing short of transformative.

We’re thrilled to bring you the second part of this exclusive interview, where we continue to explore Mo's heart-level approach to leadership. If you thought the first part was enlightening, brace yourself, as this part of the interview will change the way that you lead. We delve deeper into Mo’s philosophy, uncovering more pearls of wisdom and practical insights to help you navigate your leadership journey.

Resources:

• Learn more at herbestlife.com
• Follow Mo on Instagram: @mo_mentorship

Connect on Instagram:

• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti: @kymbermenkiti
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes

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Get ready to be inspired and enlightened as we delve into an exclusive interview with a true leadership icon, Mo Anderson! Earlier this year, we had the absolute honor of bringing Mo into our space for the Her Leadership Life masterclass, and today, we're sharing this treasure trove of wisdom with you. Grab a pen and paper or open a new note on your phone, because you don't want to miss a moment of this insightful conversation.

Can we just pause for a moment to appreciate Mo's monumental contribution to leadership? Back in 1995, when female CEOs were a rarity, with none on the Fortune 500 list, Gary Keller saw the potential in Mo and promoted her as the CEO of Keller Williams International. Shattering glass ceilings with grace and determination, Mo has blazed a trail for female leaders worldwide. And today, we get to learn from her!

But that's not all. Mo is also the chairman of the board of KW Cares, a remarkable initiative that gives back to agents across the globe. And, showcasing her commitment to community and excellence, she holds a place in the Oklahoma Hall of Fame. We are beyond proud and excited to have her share her insights and experiences with us.

In this episode, we’re not just focusing on intellectual knowledge, but diving deep into heart-level wisdom. Mo's unique approach to leadership is both refreshing and transformative, something that every aspiring leader can learn from. So, eliminate distractions, get comfortable, and prepare yourself for a journey into the mind and heart of a legend in leadership.

Resources:

• Learn more at herbestlife.com
• Follow Mo on Instagram: @mo_mentorship

Connect on Instagram:

• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti: @kymbermenkiti
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes

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Building an empire is exhilarating, but let's be real—it's far from flawless. If you're anything like me, you've had your fair share of moments over the years where you just wish you could hit a rewind button. I've been reflecting on my 17-year journey, from the highs to the very lows. And honestly? I can be my harshest critic. Aspiring for excellence means inevitably stumbling upon mistakes. Yet, in the midst of empire building, it's those genuine, deep-rooted relationships that matter the most. And let's face it, in any relationship, we're bound to slip, trip, and sometimes nosedive. But here's the silver lining: for those relationships that truly matter, there's a path to redemption. We're diving deep into that. Let's uncover the seven essential steps to bounce back when you falter as an empire builder.

1. Relationships matter
2. Listen and ask to understand the other person’s perspective
3. Own your part in the problem
4. Say you are sorry - and mean it
5. Take a step back & Look at what you can do better next time
6. Ask what you want to come out of this relationship or problem
7. Pick yourself up off the floor and be better next time

Resources:

• The Power of Regret by Daniel Pink

Connect on Instagram:

• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti: @kymbermenkiti
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes

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Ready to transform the way you lead? Today's episode is all about the art and power of asking questions, inspired by the wisdom of leadership guru, John Maxwell. We often find ourselves in a world where quick solutions and directives take center stage. However, today we're diving deep into why as leaders, we must prioritize asking over telling. It's not just about having all the answers; it's about teaching others to think critically, to reflect, and to grow. "Bosses have the answers, leaders ask the questions." Join us in exploring how this simple yet transformative shift from giving orders to posing questions can empower your team, foster growth, and unlock new potentials.

Probing Questions:

1. Can you elaborate on that?
2. How do you think this decision will impact the team?
3. What other options have you considered? What if we did this differently?
4. How does this connect to our overall goals?
5. What lessons can we learn from this experience?
6. What are the potential consequences or risks?
7. What assumptions are you making in this situation?
8. How does this align with our values as a team?
9. What is the root cause of this issue?

Strategic Questions:

1. What metrics and key performance indicators (KPIs) should we track to measure the success and impact of our strategies?
2. What are our long-term goals, and how do our current actions align with them?
3. What emerging trends or disruptions in the market should we be aware of, and how can we adapt our strategies accordingly?
4. How can we differentiate ourselves from competitors and create a unique value proposition for our customers?
5. What are the biggest obstacles or challenges we currently face, and what strategies can we implement to overcome them?
6. How can we optimize our operational processes to increase efficiency and reduce costs?
7. What new markets or customer segments should we target, and what strategies can we employ to reach them effectively?
8. How can we enhance our customer experience and build strong relationships to drive customer loyalty and retention?
9. What talent acquisition and development strategies should we adopt to build a high-performing and diverse workforce?
10. How can we leverage technology and digital transformation to innovate and stay ahead in our industry?

Coaching Questions (Curiosity, Compassion, Courage):

1. What do you hope to achieve in this situation?
2. What are your strengths that can help you overcome this challenge?
3. What part did you play in the situation you are currently experiencing?
4. What strategies have you tried before, and what were the results?
5. How would you approach this situation if you had all the resources and support you needed?
6. What alternative perspectives or options can you consider?
7. What is the ONE thing that such by doing, everything becomes easier or unnecessary?
8. When was the last time you had great success at something and what was the cost?
9. Who can support you in reaching this goal? Are you asking for their help?
10. What are you not admitting to yourself right now about this situation?
11. In response to “I don’t know” – If you did know, what would it be?

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• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti:

Feeling overwhelmed with the whirlwind of fall responsibilities? You're not alone. Today, we're digging into the liberating power of saying 'no' so you can say 'yes' to what truly matters. From back-to-school chaos to work deadlines, we're all feeling the squeeze. But remember the unexpected peace during the pandemic when we were forced to slow down? Let's reclaim that tranquillity by setting boundaries and prioritizing the essentials.

Don't miss this refreshingly honest episode designed to help you navigate life's 'fall crazy time' with balance and intention. Join us for a deep dive into making choices that enrich your life.

Connect on Instagram:

• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti: @kymbermenkiti
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes

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We’re diving deep into a book that’s not only changed the dynamics of our personal relationships but also plays a pivotal role in the professional realm. Introducing “The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts” by Dr. Gary Chapman—a bestselling sensation with 13 million copies in circulation.

But love languages aren’t all about romance—they apply to all relationships. They describe the ways people express and interpret love or appreciation. Here’s the list for you:

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Acts of Service
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Quality Time
5. Physical Touch

The essence of this book, while rooted in personal relationships, offers so much more. It’s about comprehending how each individual feels valued, cherished, and most importantly, appreciated. And if you're looking to deepen your work connections, understanding your team members' appreciation languages can be a game changer.

Resources:

• Take the 5 Love Languages Quiz: 5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

Connect on Instagram:

• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti: @kymbermenkiti
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes

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Ever found yourself playing multiple roles in your organization - leading, coaching, and producing, all at the same time? It's a familiar struggle for many in the real estate world, where you're not only closing deals but also guiding and mentoring your team. As an entrepreneur, wearing multiple hats is part of the deal. But when does this multitasking start to inhibit growth instead of fostering it? Some leaders find themselves stretched too thin, while others are reluctant to move beyond their "one thing." So when the age-old strategy of “work more, do more” ceases to be effective, how do we evolve? In today's episode, we'll be discussing the art of balancing multiple roles, especially during challenging times when the real estate market is tightening and roles are shifting. If you're striving to be a productive owner, coach, and player, join us as we share our insights and strategies to navigate this complex journey. Remember, you're not alone in this, and together, we can pave a way forward.

Resources:

• 71. Doing More with Less Time
• 101. How to REALLY Take Time Off as a Business Owner
• 110. The 4 ‘D’s of Time Management
• 117. Create Raving Fans and Have a Life at the Same Time
• The Power of Full Engagement by Jim Loeher and Tony Schwartz
• Fisher House Run fundraising page
• 135. Health Journey with Sarah Reynolds
• If you’re new to the Her Best Life family, use code NEWTOHBL at HerBestLife.com and save $700 off registration – and a free room!

Connect on Instagram:

• Seychelle Van Poole: @seychellevp
• Sarah Reynolds: @sarahreynoldsoji
• Wendy Papasan: @wendypapasan
• Kymber Lovett-Menkiti: @kymbermenkiti
• Tiffany Fykes: @tiffanyfykes

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