Meet James & Amanda Silvas, they college sweethearts turned lifestyle entrepreneurs and business partners. Together they created Be That 1%, a brand and movement that believes in shattering ceilings, doing things differently, creating purpose driven work, and fully living not just existing.

Be That 1% was born out of James as a ‘mantra’ to help him persevere through the limiting beliefs that come with starting a business. Together they built Be That 1% from zero to six-figures by helping people take action on leveling up their mindsets on what is possible. They host multiple events, coaching programs, and a podcast experience that has reached 75 countries.

In This Episode:

You will know what it means to “Be That 1%” as an individual, and how to bring that into creating a “Be That 1%” type of marriage.

You will have the powerful ways to begin your day with intention as to respond to your partner and not just react, you will hear the two foundational principles of co-creating a strong marriage, and the most honest ways to deepen your own self love to expand the love between you and your partner.

This will leave you feeling courageous and certain within yourself that you can co-create anything you desire with your partner and always feel supported.

Questions Asked In This Episode:

1. Tell us more about what you mean by “Be that 1%” and how does that drive you in life and marriage?
2. What do you do when you wake up and don’t feel like Being That 1% or you feel out of alignment personally?
3. What does your morning routine look like to get in a state of Being That 1%?
4. How would you describe what it means to have a 1% Marriage?
5. How do you find balance in growing as an individual and also making sure you’re growing with your partner?
6. What did you learn while traveling solo about your relationship and what you appreciate about each other?
7. What constitutes love and deepening love in a marriage?
8. How did you discover self-love and acceptance so you can truly love and accept each other?
9. What is your final tip to motivated couples?

Quotes:

“You are meant to live, not just exist” - James

“Do It Like You” - Amanda

“I first consciously see her as a Queen, so I in-turn treat her that way.” - James

Connect More with the Guests:

Are you ready to get yourself in with the 1%, so that you create a 1% marriage? Get James & Amanda’s 3 powerful and free resources to get you started: https://bethatonepercent.com/

If you love their certainty and energy then inquire about their coaching to make sure that your desires become a reality!  

Other resources:

Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/

It’s OPEN! The Empowered Couples University has launched and you can now enroll in courses: http://meetthefreemans.com/ecu

Today’s mini chat with The Freemans is all about the possibility of lack of sex or sexual  satisfaction underlying frustration and arguments between you both.

We decided to have this chat today because this actually showed up for us in our marriage TODAY.

In this episode...

You will know: The importance of frequently checking in with each other about your level of satisfaction, yes in all areas, but especially in your intimacy.

You will have: The 2 solutions for keeping your emotional and sexual connection strong, including balancing your own masculine & feminine energy within you.

You will feel: More present with each other and certain that you can be fully fulfilled in your sex life.

Other resources:

Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/

Tour the Empowered Couples University: https://www.meetthefreemans.com/empowered-couples-university

Meet Nadya & John Melton, a couple thriving in business, family and romance. They will share all things about building a multi-million dollar online business AND a joyful, connected family.

They are entrepreneurs, public speakers, branding strategists, online marketing coaches, and dedicated believers in the empowerment of all people to discover their unique voice and share their message with the world!

Together, they have built a multi-million dollar online business through their Video Marketing Academy and have complete time and financial freedom living in Baltimore, MD with their 2 beautiful children — Dylan and Kristina. As they describe each other in their relationship, business, and home life “John is the “wow” and Nadya is the “how”.

You are about to experience the fun, laughter and joy of this couple and learn for yourself how to build a family and a business with social media & video marketing, all while enjoying life to the fullest.

Questions asked in this episode:

1. How and when did you decide to build an online business and had you then brand yourselves?
2. How do you work together, being 2 alphas in the relationship?
3. You said that “John is the wow, and Nadya is the how” what does that look like in both home life and business life?
4. How does a day in the Melton residence look like?
5. What keeps you motivated when you're feeling down?
6. If you had to attribute your current success to one strategy, what would that be?
7. What was the toughest moment you've had when working together?
8. What advice do you have for couples who are just starting their business together?
9. BONUS - Do you agree with "There is no bad decision except the one you look back and question"?

Quote from the episode:

“Don’t get caught up comparing your chapter 2, with someone else’s chapter 17. You have to build social equity.”

Connect more with the guests:

There isn’t a better way to get started today than downloading their free step by step guide on how to expanding your brand with video, just go to https://mylifestyleacademy.com/guide 

Other resources:

Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/

It’s OPEN! The Empowered Couples University has launched and you can now enroll in courses: http://meetthefreemans.com/ecu

Today’s mini chat with The Freemans is all about...MONEY!

Couples ask us all the time, ‘how do you create multiple income streams,’ ‘how can we learn to invest?’ And so today we actually dive into the ILLUSIONS of creating multiple income streams with the goal of dispelling the false ideas of what it takes to create multiple ways of making money.

In this episode...

You will know: The two important illusions about income streams you MUST know

You will have: The truth about what you must UPGRADE in your life to be able to make more money

You will feel: Excited to create income streams that align with your values as a couple

Other resources:

Join the next Couples Goals Accelerator:

https://www.meetthefreemans.com/goals

Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/

Meet Cory & Jessica - The Healing Couple. Dr. Cory Ostroot is a Naturopathic Physician whose passion for medicine began when his mother fell ill and western medicine failed to provide answers.

His partner, Jessica Waala, a yoga and Breathwork teacher and self-love coach, will crack your heart open to who you really are. She brings together personal development and spiritual tools to guide you to self-love so that together we can heal the world.  

Together they have supported thousands of lives globally through her classes, coaching, and events. Known as the The Healing Couple, joining forces with the love of her life to help others connect to their mind, body, and soul. They are committed to "walking the talk" every day, giving the best hugs, and inspiring others to live a life they love.

In this episode you will hear them answer:

1. What makes you two unique as a couple? How did you two know you wanted to come together to do this healing work?
2. What is Breath-work and why is it so powerful?
3. How does practicing Breath-work impact your relationship? And how can couples practice this work?
4. Should couples pause in the middle of a conflict to do breath-work?
5. What’s a recent experience between you two where old emotion came up?
6. How can slowing down and breathing actually accelerate your goals?
7. Is being ‘busy’ an illusion? And why do people see themselves so busy?
8. How can couples fit breath-work into their ‘full and busy’ lives?
9. What kind of a unique lifestyle are you starting to create for the next year?
10. What fears come up when you think of taking the leap and living a nomadic lifestyle?

Connect more with the guests:

Join the Online Breathwork Circle on December 2 @ 5pm PST

And experience a private couples breathwork session @

Thehealingcouple.com

Other resources:

Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/

It’s OPEN! The Empowered Couples University has launched and you can now enroll in courses: http://meetthefreemans.com/ecu

See you on the next episode!

In this mini chat with The Freemans we’re diving into how to shift feeling disconnected to connected in just a few minutes. It’s much simpler than you think and it just takes this intentional practice each day.

In this episode-

You will know: How disconnection can be upgraded to connection

You will have: A simple exercise you can do right NOW to feel connected to your partner

You will feel: A sense of romance and gratitude for each other

YOU MUST SEE:

You now can register for the LAST Couples Goals Accelerator group program of 2018. End the year with MORE momentum in your financial goals, family goals and relationship goals. Join the group starting November 6th here: https://www.meetthefreemans.com/couples-goals-accelerator-online-group-program

See you on the next episode!

Meet this powerful couple, Jaiya and Ian Ferguson. You won’t hear this conversation at your average dinner party.

Would you like even BETTER intimacy & sex with your partner? Would you like to know more about your partners preferences and your own with physical pleasure? What if you had a common language to express your sexual needs and desires openly, without feeling embarrassed, with your partner. What if you really could magnify your love life and experience more pleasure and ecstasy with your partner? Are you in?

If so, you’ll love today’s episode:

Known as Miss Jaiya, she is the Internationally recognized, award-winning sexologist and best selling author of (Red Hot Touch), she is also the creator of the Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ and the Erotic Blueprint™ Quiz. Over more than two decades of client observation and clinical research she discovered a map of arousal that reveals your specific erotic language of arousal. She has been so effective at creating this breakthrough for people, that she personally works with Tony Robbins and his platinum partners at his own events.

Ian Ferguson had his own business in custom cabinetry serving hollywood actors and producers in creating luxury lifestyles, for 15 years. He is now fully involved with developing the Erotic Blueprints with Jaiya and expanding the message to allow people to become sexually satisfied and erotically free in their relationship.

What You Will Hear:

You will now hear about this revolutionary framework to create deeper connection and sexual satisfaction with you and your partner!

1. Why you both need to know each other’s “erotic blueprint” to bring even more pleasure into your relationship.
2. How intimacy actually impacts your ability to create and manifest.
3. Why sex and intimacy is a topic that couples are often embarrassed to talk about and how to make it more comfortable.
4. Are there any ‘erotic blueprint types’ that are incompatible? Or can a couple be compatible sexually with different types?
5. And so much more about how to bring more pleasure and intimacy into your relationship.

Take Your Erotic Blueprint Quiz Here:

https://www.eroticbreakthrough.com/freemans

Other resources:

Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/

It’s OPEN! The Empowered Couples University has launched and you can now enroll in courses: http://meetthefreemans.com/ecu

The “brief chat “ with The Freemans today comes from a live speech we gave at the Arizona Couples Brunch. How to be Unshakable as a couple no matter what comes up in your relationship by utilizing and focusing on these 3 pillars: Your State, Your Alignment to your Vision, and Your Time!

In this episode you will:

Know: That being unshakable means having the ability to respond to live rather than react.

Have: 3 Pillars to focus on to increase your capacity to respond powerfully to any challenge.

Feel: Unshakable in your direction and connection together.

Topics Covered In This Speech:

1. What would being unshakable mean for you in your relationship
2. How being unshakeable allows you to accomplish in life
3. What is the purpose of life and the purpose of your relationship
4. How to not take on the energy of your partner when they are upset
5. How many of you have a vision statement for your relationship and have looked at this week?
6. Owning your time by proactively scheduling your week as a couple
7. How many of you find it difficult to say “NO” to things?  

Other resources:

Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/

It’s OPEN! The Empowered Couples University has launched and you can now enroll in courses: http://meetthefreemans.com/ecu

See you on the next episode!

These college sweethearts are a happily married couple sustained by faith as the foundation for their love and business. With Brandi being the Creative and Brandon being the Analytic, their celebrated differences are exactly what make this partnership extraordinary.

Together Brandon & Brandi Carson have formed and run the wedding planning business Posh & Private. Their unique love story provides both the synergy and inspiration their clients rely on, when seeking wedding planning expertise. You too will gain so much wisdom from them today on how through effective communication you can to turn what you love into a living!

From this episode you will learn:

1. The unexpected way to balance business & romance
2. How to discover the best roles for you to each play in your relationship
3. The essentials to communicating authentically as a couple
4. The must-knows when planning your wedding

Questions asked in this interview:

1. Rapid fire: Where is home for you? How long have you been married? How did you first meet? Was it love at first sight?
2. How long were you married before starting a business together?
3. What inspired you to start Posh & Private?
4. What do you believe is essential for couples to know when starting to plan their wedding?
5. What’s in the way of couples communicating honestly with each other?
6. What do you believe is essential for couples to know when starting to plan their life after the wedding?
7. How has Faith played a role in your relationship?
8. How do you “balance” business and romance? Or do you believe that balance is more of a myth as its about integration?
9. What’s a challenge you have run into being in business together that you didn’t expect?
10. How do you celebrate in life after focused periods/phases in your business?

Connect with The Carsons:

http://www.poshandprivate.com

As budding innovators in the Wedding & Event Industry, their company, Posh & Private, is a collaboration of their love, passions and professional experiences.

Other resources from The Freemans:

Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/

Join the next Couples Goals Accelerator, the Online Live Group Program for Couples: https://www.meetthefreemans.com/couples-goals-accelerator-online-group-program

See you on the next episode!

Real talk for a minute, did you know that stress is linked to the top 5 causes of death? Obviously stress has an impact on your quality of life, and on how long you may even be around. The worst part about that is much of that stress is coming right from your relationship! Something that was originally meant to give support, love and compassion, vitality and LIFE! 

On a lighter and more daily note, what if you could handle stress effective and feel ease, peace, play and creativity.

It’s time to no longer let money, work, outside circumstances become more powerful than the two of you as a team.

In this episode you will:

Know: the root source of stress and what keeps you stuck in it longer

Have: 3 ways to handle stress together and keep momentum going

Feel: Calm & Unstoppable (like superheros) no matter what shows up in your relationship

Other resources:

Follow us on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Meet_TheFreemans/

Join the next Couples Goals Accelerator, the Online Live Group Program for Couples: https://www.meetthefreemans.com/couples-goals-accelerator-online-group-program