For The Love With Jen Hatmaker Podcast

[Encore] Revolutionary Relationships: Loving Others Through Tension and Disagreement with Rozella Haydée White


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Have you ever found yourself at odds with someone you deeply care about—unable to agree on something that really matters? Is it possible to stay connected, even when your beliefs clash? This seemed like an important question to answer, so we decided to go back into our archives to bring forward this 2021 conversation about one of the most challenging forms of reconnection: loving and staying in relationship with people who see the world differently.

To help us navigate this complex emotional landscape, we're joined by Rozella Haydée White—also known as the Love Big Coach. A theologian, spiritual life coach, and leadership consultant, Rozella is passionate about helping people cultivate love that is both healing and justice-rooted. In this encore episode,  Rozella and Jen explore how to show up in hard conversations without losing yourself, and how to make space for compassion when disagreement feels like a wall. Rozella offers this powerful reminder: “If we believe that people are created in the image of God, then I don't really have a choice but to believe in people.”

This conversation unpacks: 

  • What it means to stay in a relationship when we do not see eye to eye

  • How we keep loving family and friends when our values don’t align anymore

  • What do we do with our fractured families without creating havoc and disruption

  • How we can hold two things that are true at once

    Thought-provoking Quotes:

    • “If we believe that people are created in the image of God, then I don't really have a choice but to believe in people, because I don't believe that God creates anything but that which is life-giving, that which is creative, that which is good and holy.” – Rozella Haydée White

    • “When I talk about love, I'm talking about that which is creative, that which is justice-seeking, and that which is ultimately sustaining for our mind, heart, bodies, and soul.” – Rozella Haydée White

    • “Love does not mean absence of consequence or absence of conflict.” – Rozella Haydée White

      Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

      • Love Big Coach - https://www.rozellahwhite.com/

      • A Rhythm of Prayer: A Collection of Meditations for Renewal by Sarah Bessey - https://amzn.to/466mtT3

      • Glennon Doyle’s For The Love Episode - https://jenhatmaker.com/podcasts/series-02/finding-beauty-in-the-mess-with-glennon-doyle/

      • Brené Brown’s For The Love Episode - https://jenhatmaker.com/podcasts/series-02/getting-vulnerable-with-dr-brene-brown/

      • Love Big: The Power of Revolutionary Relationships to Heal the World by Rozella Haydée White - https://amzn.to/3Vrm6Oh

        Guest’s Links:

        Website - https://www.rozellahwhite.com/

        Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lovebigcoach/

        Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lovebigcoach

        Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@lovebigcoach

        TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lovebigcoach

        Connect with Jen!Jen’s Website - https://jenhatmaker.com/

        Jen’s Instagram - https://instagram.com/jenhatmakerJen’s Twitter - https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/

        Jen’s Facebook - https://facebook.com/jenhatmakerJen’s YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker


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