Enneagram in Real Life

Enneagram in Real Life (IRL for short!) is a new weekly podcast about the Enneagram.

I'll be interviewing guests of each type about what it's like to be their type, and I'll ask them all sorts of questions about their day-to-day lives, work, and growth. Each guest will also share books and advice that have changed their life, and we've got a great list already!

Come back here on July 12th for the first episode.

This podcast is a production of Nine Types Co. LLC. It is created and produced by Stephanie Barron Hall, with editing help from Brandon Hall, and additional support from Critz Collaborations. Our music is by Doctor Dreamchip, and you can listen to more of their music on Spotify.

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Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Enneagram in Real Life (IRL!) is a new 6-week course experience brought to you by your host, Steph Barron Hall. In today's episode, you're getting a special sneak peek of the first lesson of this course.

If you've ever wondered HOW to use the Enneagram for growth, this is for you! We'd love for you to join us inside Enneagram IRL.

Read about the modules and exactly what you'll be getting in this course.
Join the course!
Read allllllll the info (we've answered every single question!)

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Today's guest is Rebecca Horch. Rebecca is an Enneagram coach and parent mentor. She is married with 3 children, has her Bachelor's in Child & Family Support, and she has been working with families for over a decade. Over the years she has developed curriculum and programs for parents in order to help them navigate struggles within the home, and bring more peace and joy to their families. Rebecca uses the Enneagram to mentor caregivers in their parenting journey - helping them to understand their own ticks and motivations better so that they can bring out the best of themselves as parents and as people. Her program The KIN Parent Approach brings together her expertise in child and adolescent development, how to use unique and individualized parenting strategies, and how to use with the Enneagram to help guide families toward creating mutual bonds of love and respect within the home.

Find Rebecca at
https://www.evitaconsulting.ca/kin-parent-approach
https://www.instagram.com/evita_consulting
Or via email at [email protected]

Join the KIN Parent Approach: choose from a 10-session, 4-session, or 4-week workshop for parents & caregivers (https://www.evitaconsulting.ca/kin-parent-approach)

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Today's guest is Rebecca Horch. Rebecca is an Enneagram coach and parent mentor. She is married with 3 children, has her Bachelor's in Child & Family Support, and she has been working with families for over a decade. Over the years she has developed curriculum and programs for parents in order to help them navigate struggles within the home, and bring more peace and joy to their families. Rebecca uses the Enneagram to mentor caregivers in their parenting journey - helping them to understand their own ticks and motivations better so that they can bring out the best of themselves as parents and as people. Her program The KIN Parent Approach brings together her expertise in child and adolescent development, how to use unique and individualized parenting strategies, and how to use with the Enneagram to help guide families toward creating mutual bonds of love and respect within the home.

Find Rebecca at
https://www.evitaconsulting.ca/kin-parent-approach
https://www.instagram.com/evita_consulting
Or via email at [email protected]

Join the KIN Parent Approach: choose from a 10 session, 4 session, or 4 week workshop for parents & caregivers

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

TRUE OR FALSE?

• There are best and worst Enneagram types.
• Some type combinations can be extremely toxic to one another in relationships.
• Enneagram 1s are more fun than Instagram portrays - they're not only about list-making and cleaning.
• Men can be Enneagram 2s.
• Enneagram 3s are more likely to be secretive and cause "scandals" because of not being truthful.
• Enneagram 4s are the most self-centered type.
• Enneagram 5s can actually be pretty open but usually only to a few incredibly close people.
• Enneagram 6s are downers and constantly making situations worse.
• All Enneagram 7s are lavish big spenders.
• Enneagram 8s may appear intense & scary but that's often their passion shining through.
• Enneagram 9s aren't pushovers at all, but are in fact very strong, stubborn, and opinionated.

In this episode, I discussed this post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CKPPRaWBRFK

MEET TODAY'S SPONSOR:
Shape & Foster takes members on a journey of lifestyle development, providing knowledge and actionable insight via six amazing professionals in mental health, fitness, nutrition, finance, life coaching and yoga.  All members are here for the same reason - to learn and grow.  This makes for an active and positive community, and one you should be part of!
https://www.shapeandfoster.com/

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Today's guest is AMANDA STEED, MSW. Amanda Steed is an Enneagram Teacher and has just completed her masters of Social Work which she will use to provide therapy services in the DFW area. She sees the Enneagram as a tool that helps people let go of their protective personalities and embrace their Essence and true identity. Amanda teaches workshops and hosts retreats across the country and calls Dallas, Texas home. She lives in Oak Cliff with her husband, artist Kyle Steed, and their two wild and spirited daughters, Genevieve and Savannah. In her spare time she likes to play piano, read, hang out with the Real Housewives of Potomac, and engage in meaningful conversations with friends over coffee.
The Enneaflip booklet describes the essential workplace and relational differences of the nine, core Enneagram types in a simple and practical format.

Find Amanda at https://www.amandasteed.com/
or https://www.instagram.com/enneagramandtherapy/

On today's episode, we discussed this post: https://www.instagram.com/p/B_p0CbZnil2/

MEET TODAY'S SPONSOR:
Shape & Foster takes members on a journey of lifestyle development, providing knowledge and actionable insight via six amazing professionals in mental health, fitness, nutrition, finance, life coaching and yoga.  All members are here for the same reason - to learn and grow.  This makes for an active and positive community, and one you should be part of!
https://www.shapeandfoster.com/

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

ENNEAFLIP
The Enneaflip booklet describes the essential workplace and relational differences of the nine, core Enneagram types in a simple and practical format.

What’s Inside: 

• Overview of the Enneagram 
• Ethics and Etiquette 
• Intelligence Centers 
• Concise strategies around communication styles, blindspots, and tips on how to work well with each Ennea-type.
• Growth Practices

Pick up your copy of Scott & Ashlee's new project, Enneaflip at https://www.swayleadership.com/enneaflip

INTRO TO SCOTT
Scott is an expert in global people leadership and organizational development with more than 20 years of experience. He is the creator of a multi-award-winning Global Leadership Development Program and has built a broad curriculum of bespoke people-development workshops, growth accelerators, and talent initiatives that have a measurable impact on organizational performance and effectiveness.

Scott is certified in MBTI and Hogan personality systems and is a certified emotional intelligence coach. Scott is passionate about developing radical self-awareness in others through the wisdom of the enneagram, a tool that he was professionally trained in by by Ian Morgan Cron and the CP Enneagram Academy.

Scott regularly teaches and coaches around the world.

More from Scott: http://www.instagram.com/eqenneagram

INTRO TO ASHLEE
Ashlee is a PCC-level certified coach through the International Coaching Federation and holds a B.A. in Cultural Anthropology as well a graduate certificate in Transformational Coaching. She has studied at the CP Enneagram Academy and is a practitioner of the Enneagram personality theory. This led her to found the Nine Shapes Project, a vehicle for more meaningful conversations. Her early background in higher education and community development gave her a passion for creatively re-envisioning community leadership and practices, and she loves facilitating this discovery process for leaders and teams. When not coaching, she is hanging out with her husband and two goats in their urban garden in Portland, Oregon. She is also the owner and founder of Sway.

More from Ashlee: http://www.instagram.com/nineshapes & https://www.instagram.com/a.s.coaching/

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Today's podcast features Michael Shahan! Michael is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist located in Kansas City, MO. He specializes in trauma and identity work with his clients, seeing individuals as well as couples. He is passionate about helping people get unstuck, and allowing them to become the best version of themselves. Michael uses the Enneagram with almost all of his clients, allowing it to help guide them on their own road to healing in amazing ways.

You can find Michael's course for therapists here: https://michaelshahan.com/enneagram-course-for-therapists-and-mental-health-professionals

Be sure to follow him on Instagram at @michaelshahan_therapy or checkout his selection of E-books at https://michaelshahan.com

Do you want to ask a question? 

Send a voice memo to [email protected]. Tell me your first name, location, & your question. We’ll play these on the podcast!

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

This episode is all about types 1, 2, 3, & 4! 

On today’s episode, we'll cover the following questions:

1. What does it mean that the core desire of a four is “to find themselves” or “find their identity”? Or I guess it’s better put as “how does this core motivation show up in feelings, thoughts, or actions?” Maybe just some real life examples that can help me wrap my head around it.
2. I have gotten my boyfriend very involved in the enneagram as well and it has really helped us learn about each other and ourselves! I am a 2W3 and he is a 3W2 and I was wondering if you could give me a summary on a 2/3 relationship? (I've already read your book and loved it!)
3. My husband is a type one, he struggles with himself being the best that he can be, and he will hold on to any regret for a long time and let it tear him apart. Even if what happened wasn't his fault, or in the moment he didn't know better. I'm a type 9 and all I want to do is help him not hurt. How can I help him process his regrets correctly?

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Do you want to ask a question? 

Send a voice memo to [email protected]. Tell me your first name, location, & your question. We’ll play these on the podcast!

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.

Today's podcast features Michael Shahan! Michael is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist located in Kansas City, MO. He specializes in trauma and identity work with his clients, seeing individuals as well as couples. He is passionate about helping people get unstuck, and allowing them to become the best version of themselves. Michael uses the Enneagram with almost all of his clients, allowing it to help guide them on their own road to healing in amazing ways.

You can find Michael's upcoming course for therapists here: https://michaelshahan.com/enneagram-course-for-therapists-and-mental-health-professionals

Be sure to follow him on Instagram at @michaelshahan_therapy or checkout his selection of E-books at https://michaelshahan.com

Quote from the episode:
"Those who have come from highly dysfunctional families can take heart in knowing that the Essential self within us is completely intact and always looking for ways to manifest itself. Initially, we may have to spend a great deal of time and effort working on the gaps in our development, but the core of our Being is always there to support us. Again, no matter how painful our early experiences were, our Essence cannot be harmed." The Wisdom of the Enneagram by Don Richard Riso & Russ Hudson, pg. 35

Do you want to ask a question? 

Send a voice memo to [email protected]. Tell me your first name, location, & your question. We’ll play these on the podcast!

Want to keep learning about the Enneagram? Grab Steph’s new book, Enneagram in Real Life! Find the book, ebook, or audiobook wherever books are sold.