Letting go is painful AF.

Even releasing things, people, and beliefs that we know are life-sucking IS HARD, and we often spend a ton of energy resisting the inevitable.

When we're in this level of resistance to releasing, many times God and the Universe do what we are unable to do for ourselves.

I've had friends and clients get fired from jobs they hated, but were too afraid to quit and start their businesses.

Last year, the pain got so great with a couple of people who I loved dearly, that I was forced to detach from them. I couldn't see how toxic the relationships were until they were out of my life for some time.

Our tolerance for unhealthy behavior and accepting crumbs, when we really deserve the "whole damn loaf" (as my friend Andrea says) is extremely high for those of us who grew up in dysfunctional households or who've been in toxic relationships.

The crumbs start to feel "good enough" over time.

• The crap job "isn't so bad."
• The crap relationship "could be worse."
• The crappy numb and joyless feeling "is ok."

What we accept we attract more of... to get yourself off this soul-sucking hamster wheel, you must start by cleaning house.

What are two things you will no longer settle for?

Who do you need to distance yourself from or go no contact with in your life?

What is draining your energy and life force?

When a boat is starting to sink, the first thing you do is look for the source of the leak. Right now you have energy leaks. Some of you are sinking. Others are wasting precious time and energy trying to scoop out cups of water while steering the boat and catching fish.

Time to not only plug those holes, but maybe it's time to upgrade your damn boat.

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