April 29, 2025

Ep. 104: Why You Feel So Much After Quitting Drinking

24 minutes

When you quit drinking, the physical detox gets a lot of attention—but what about the emotional detox? In this episode of No More Wasted Days, Heather and Sara dive into what it really means to emotionally detox after quitting alcohol.

They explore why emotions feel so intense in early sobriety, how to move through them without fear, and how emotional healing is not just necessary—it’s transformational. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, irritable, tearful, or deeply vulnerable after quitting drinking, this episode will help you feel seen, supported, and empowered.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

💬 What emotional detox is and why it happens after quitting drinking

💬 Why sadness, anger, restlessness, and even joy can feel overwhelming at first

💬 How to navigate emotional flashbacks and unexpected feelings without shame

💬 Practical tools for managing emotional detox with self-compassion

💬 How to view emotional healing as a beautiful part of your alcohol-free journey

Key Takeaways:

✅ Emotional detox is normal—it’s your nervous system defrosting and healing.

✅ Feeling emotions doesn’t mean you’re doing sobriety wrong—it means you’re doing it right.

✅ Rest, nourishing yourself, and allowing feelings to move through you are powerful acts of self-care.

✅ Emotional growth doesn’t require perfection—it only asks for presence.

✅ You’re worthy of love, joy, and peace—no matter where you are in your journey.

Memorable Quotes:

“Feeling is the work.” – Heather

“Your body isn’t broken. It’s defrosting.” – Heather

“You don’t have to fix every feeling. Sometimes you just have to feel it.” – Sara

“You are not broken—you are learning how to feel again.” – Heather

“You’ll never regret the work you do on yourself.” – Sara

Challenge of the Week:

✨ Think of one emotion you’ve been avoiding. Ask yourself: What is this feeling trying to tell me? Then give yourself permission to just sit with it—no judgment, no fixing.

🎉 Want More Support on Your Journey?

Join the Daymakers Community or sign up for 1-on-1 coaching with Heather!

✨ Get personalized support, tools, and encouragement for your alcohol-free journey.

👉 Learn more here

Resources Mentioned:

Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. Learn more here.

Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a fellow caregiver and leave a comment on Spotify or YouTube. Let’s break free from the guilt trap together! 💛

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Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community. CLICK HERE for all the details.

Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey? Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach. CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today.

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Follow the podcast on Social Media:

IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod

Follow Sara on Social Media:

IG: @no_more_wasted_days

TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Follow Heather on Social Media:

IG: @theheatherleecollective

TikTok: @thealcoholfreecoach

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By Sara Kaufman-Bradstreet

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April 29, 2025

Ep. 104: Why You Feel So Much After Quitting Drinking

24 minutes

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

💬 What emotional detox is and why it happens after quitting drinking

💬 Why sadness, anger, restlessness, and even joy can feel overwhelming at first

💬 How to navigate emotional flashbacks and unexpected feelings without shame

💬 Practical tools for managing emotional detox with self-compassion

💬 How to view emotional healing as a beautiful part of your alcohol-free journey

Key Takeaways:

✅ Emotional detox is normal—it’s your nervous system defrosting and healing.

✅ Feeling emotions doesn’t mean you’re doing sobriety wrong—it means you’re doing it right.

✅ Rest, nourishing yourself, and allowing feelings to move through you are powerful acts of self-care.

✅ Emotional growth doesn’t require perfection—it only asks for presence.

✅ You’re worthy of love, joy, and peace—no matter where you are in your journey.

Memorable Quotes:

“Feeling is the work.” – Heather

“Your body isn’t broken. It’s defrosting.” – Heather

“You don’t have to fix every feeling. Sometimes you just have to feel it.” – Sara

“You are not broken—you are learning how to feel again.” – Heather

“You’ll never regret the work you do on yourself.” – Sara

Challenge of the Week:

✨ Think of one emotion you’ve been avoiding. Ask yourself: What is this feeling trying to tell me? Then give yourself permission to just sit with it—no judgment, no fixing.

🎉 Want More Support on Your Journey?

Join the Daymakers Community or sign up for 1-on-1 coaching with Heather!

✨ Get personalized support, tools, and encouragement for your alcohol-free journey.

👉 Learn more here

Resources Mentioned:

Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. Learn more here.

Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a fellow caregiver and leave a comment on Spotify or YouTube. Let’s break free from the guilt trap together! 💛

************************************************

Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community. CLICK HERE for all the details.

Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey? Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach. CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today.

************************************************

Follow the podcast on Social Media:

IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod

Follow Sara on Social Media:

IG: @no_more_wasted_days

TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Follow Heather on Social Media:

IG: @theheatherleecollective