July 22, 2025

Ep. 124: The Truth About Gray Area Drinking

36 minutes

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What if your drinking isn’t “that bad”—but it’s still not working for you? In this episode of No More Wasted Days, Sara and Heather dive into the concept of gray area drinking, a space so many people quietly occupy without even realizing it. They break down what gray area drinking actually is, why you don’t have to hit rock bottom to make a change, and how to know if it’s time to explore an alcohol-free life—before the crisis.

Whether you’re drinking to cope, reward, or escape—or you’ve just started wondering, “Is this becoming a problem?”—this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and tools to help you decide what’s next.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

🔍 What gray area drinking really is—and why it’s more common than you think

🧠 The internal dialogue that keeps people stuck in the “not that bad” zone

🚩 Signs you may be in the gray area (even if you don’t drink daily)

⏳ Why waiting for a rock bottom delays healing and growth

💡 How to take a proactive, empowered break from alcohol—without needing a label

Key Takeaways:

✅ You don’t have to drink every day—or lose everything—for it to be a problem

✅ Gray area drinkers often use comparison and justification to delay change

✅ Moderation rarely works long-term if alcohol is causing stress, shame, or regret

✅ Freedom comes from choosing a break—before alcohol takes more from you

✅ You can quit alcohol just because you feel better without it

Memorable Quotes:

“I was waiting for a rock bottom. Turns out, I didn’t need one to walk away.”

“If you’re Googling ‘Do I have a drinking problem?’—that might be your answer.”

“We don’t need to hit a crisis to start healing.”

“The problem with moderation is it keeps you tethered to the thing that’s weighing you down.”

“You’re allowed to stop drinking simply because life feels better that way.”

Challenge of the Week:

✨ Ask yourself three questions:

Is alcohol helping me live a better life?

Do I like who I am when I drink?

Am I curious about what life could look like without alcohol?

Let your honest answers guide your next step.

🎉 Ready for More? Take the No More Wasted Days Path to Power Quiz!

→ Take the quiz today

Call to Action:

💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a friend who's just starting their alcohol-free journey. We read and cherish every review!

Resources Mentioned:

Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. Learn more here.

Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a fellow caregiver and leave a comment on Spotify or YouTube. Let’s break free from the guilt trap together! 💛

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Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community. CLICK HERE for all the details.

Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey? Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach. CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today.

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Follow the podcast on Social Media:

IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod

Follow Sara on Social Media:

IG: @no_more_wasted_days

TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Follow Heather on Social Media:

IG: @withheatherp

TikTok: @withheatherp

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By Sara Kaufman-Bradstreet

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July 22, 2025

Ep. 124: The Truth About Gray Area Drinking

36 minutes

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

🔍 What gray area drinking really is—and why it’s more common than you think

🧠 The internal dialogue that keeps people stuck in the “not that bad” zone

🚩 Signs you may be in the gray area (even if you don’t drink daily)

⏳ Why waiting for a rock bottom delays healing and growth

💡 How to take a proactive, empowered break from alcohol—without needing a label

Key Takeaways:

✅ You don’t have to drink every day—or lose everything—for it to be a problem

✅ Gray area drinkers often use comparison and justification to delay change

✅ Moderation rarely works long-term if alcohol is causing stress, shame, or regret

✅ Freedom comes from choosing a break—before alcohol takes more from you

✅ You can quit alcohol just because you feel better without it

Memorable Quotes:

“I was waiting for a rock bottom. Turns out, I didn’t need one to walk away.”

“If you’re Googling ‘Do I have a drinking problem?’—that might be your answer.”

“We don’t need to hit a crisis to start healing.”

“The problem with moderation is it keeps you tethered to the thing that’s weighing you down.”

“You’re allowed to stop drinking simply because life feels better that way.”

Challenge of the Week:

✨ Ask yourself three questions:

Is alcohol helping me live a better life?

Do I like who I am when I drink?

Am I curious about what life could look like without alcohol?

Let your honest answers guide your next step.

🎉 Ready for More? Take the No More Wasted Days Path to Power Quiz!

→ Take the quiz today

Call to Action:

💛 Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave a review, and share it with a friend who's just starting their alcohol-free journey. We read and cherish every review!

Resources Mentioned:

Daymakers Community: Weekly coaching calls, private messaging threads, and a supportive community. Learn more here.

Heather’s 1-on-1 Coaching: Tailored support to help you navigate your alcohol-free life.

If this episode resonated with you, share it with a fellow caregiver and leave a comment on Spotify or YouTube. Let’s break free from the guilt trap together! 💛

************************************************

Looking for support on your alcohol free journey? Consider joining us in the Day Makers Community. CLICK HERE for all the details.

Want some 1-on-1 support on your alcohol free journey? Work with Heather as your alcohol free coach. CLICK HERE to start working with Heather today.

************************************************

Follow the podcast on Social Media:

IG: @nomorewasteddays.pod

Follow Sara on Social Media:

IG: @no_more_wasted_days

TikTok: @no_more_wasted_days

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NoMoreWastedDaysOfficial

Follow Heather on Social Media:

IG: @withheatherp