So What Now? with Carla and Dex

EP 146: Self Love, Expectations, & Dating Again


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We’re back! We started this episode with reading some questions that were submitted by our amazing listeners. The questions were amazing and set the tone for this episode to start talking about how life is scary, but its ok to lean into asking for help. We touched on how men are now somewhat intimidated of women, they are dominating in a lot of different areas of the money-making industry. I also spoke on how God has been orchestrating the last 3 month of my life and letting him take control because he knows what is best for me. Finally, we delve into the topic for this week, practicing self-care and love.

What You'll Hear:

  • Hold on to your expectations, and do not lower them for no one.
  • You cannot force anyone to do anything, even if its to make them better
  • Therapy is meant to help you not hurt you
  • God-sent friends
  • Practicing self-care and love, we touch on the amazing spa days
  • Journaling 
  • Wanting peace, and unlearning how you thrive in chaos 
  • Men saying a soft man (Russell Wilson) is square and unpopular
  • Grieving the loss of the idea I thought I had in a relationship
  • Feeling like having more purpose as a woman
  • What commitment looked like 50 years ago, old fashion and traditional
  • I am a partner not a maid

Quote/ Bible verse for this week:

  • Psalm 46:5- God is within her she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.

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