Unf*ck Your Relationships

Ep 173: Win, Lose, or Draw: When Conflict Cancels out Connection


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When you’re fighting to win the argument, not to reconnect with your partner…everyone loses.

We all looove winning an argument…at first. It feels f*cking great to get the last word. The high of nailing that last comeback is addicting…

And so, so fleeting.

It feels good in the moment to “win”...but the thing is, you haven’t actually “won.” In fact, odds are good that both your partner AND you have lost something through this conflict.

If you’re struggling with unresolved conflict in your relationship—as in, there’s an issue or an argument that just keeps coming back up between you and your partner, and you guys just keep going around and around and around on the fucking conflict carousel…

You need to decide whether you’re willing to compromise, or if you need to get off the fucking ride. 

 

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