Unf*ck Your Relationships

Ep 186: The "Let Them" Theory... But Make It Shadow Work


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Here's what to do if you feel someone pulling away from you. Ready?

Let them.

I'm serious as f*ck. If someone starts to pull away from you, if someone wants to break up, if someone refuses to meet your standards, if someone won't pick their shit up off the floor even when you've asked a hundred times…

Just let them.

The "Let Them" theory, coined by Mel Robbins, is literally that simple. People are going to do what they're going to do whether you try to change it or not…so just let them. You'll be amazed how much weight lifts off your shoulders.

However, as amazing as this framework is, I think there's a piece missing—and that piece is shadow work.

WORK WITH MICHELLE:

Join THE CONNECTED WOMAN, a shadow work course for the woman who is ready to break free from the anxious/avoidant dance in relationships and step into unfuckwithable confidence, security, and self-worth: https://michellepanning.com/the-connected-woman

Sign up for THE EXPERIENCE, an exclusive 12-month mentorship experience where you go all in on YOU (aka, you get direct access to me as a mentor, access to every offer I run over your year, and MORE): https://michellepanning.com/the-experience

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