You're at a family dinner. Someone makes a comment about your body or what's on your plate. Suddenly your chest is tight, your mind is racing, and you're already planning tomorrow's restriction or extra workout. Sound familiar?

In this episode, Lindsey Nichol gives you a real-time, actionable game plan for working through triggers as they happen—not tomorrow, not after the holidays, but RIGHT NOW. Whether it's an upcoming holiday gathering, a comment from a loved one, or scrolling social media, you'll learn exactly what to do in those moments when you feel completely out of control.

Lindsey walks you through six powerful steps to move through triggering situations without falling back into restriction, over-exercising, or shame spirals. This isn't theory—this is practical, do-it-now guidance that will help you act from your healed self instead of your wounded self.

What You'll Learn:

Key Takeaways:

✨ Your body isn't broken—it's trying to protect you based on old experiences that aren't happening right now

✨ You can't heal what you won't feel—naming your emotions is essential to moving through triggers

✨ The emotions you feel during triggers exist because they once kept you safe, but you get to choose differently now

✨ What would your best self do? Your future self who's already free? Act as if you're already her—because you are

✨ One triggering moment doesn't define your recovery—how you respond does

The 6-Step Trigger Game Plan:

Powerful Quotes from This Episode:

"What you do in the next few minutes after you feel triggered will either keep you stuck in the same cycle or move you one step closer to the freedom you're desperately craving."

"You can't heal what you won't feel."

"That old experience isn't happening right now. You're not that little girl anymore who learned she had to earn love or approval."

"Stop operating from your unhealed self. Stop letting the wounds make the decisions. Stop letting the fear drive the bus."

"You ARE that future version of yourself. She's not some distant dream. She's you—making the next right choice in this moment."

Ready for More Support?

If you need help working through triggers and breaking free from the restrict-binge cycle, join The Recovery Collective—Lindsey's group support program where you get live weekly coaching, a supportive community, and the exact tools you need to find lasting food freedom.

Learn more at: www.herbestself.co/recoverycollective

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You don't have to be perfect at recovery. You don't have to check all the boxes. You don't have to be further along than you are.

Success is showing up today, even when yesterday was hard. Success is choosing growth over perfection. Success is becoming who you're meant to be, not achieving some impossible standard.

You are worthy. You are strong. You are perfectly capable right now, today, to lean into the biggest struggle of your life.

Consider this your virtual hug from Lindsey. You've got this, beautiful.

Her Best Self with Lindsey Nichol is a podcast for women in eating disorder recovery who are ready to break free from perfectionism, people-pleasing, and diet culture to live authentically and wholeheartedly.

*While I am a certified health coach, anorexia survivor & eating disorder recovery coach, I do not intend the use of this message to serve as medical advice. Please refer to the disclaimer here in the show & be sure to contact a licensed clinical provider if you are struggling with an eating disorder.